Why run when you can chop?

thats a good argument but I was referring to the old horror movies where the bad guys always seems to keep up even if the victim get on a bullet train and go to another continent..he is bound to get to them simply by walking

ugh, these long posts are boring... i just skim them. i'd just like to say congrats to ev-vig for talking to his friends and working things out... and also i'd like to ask for a cookie from sarah. make it have lotsa chocolate or i swear to god i'll scream!!! thanx XD

At 8/12/06 08:35 PM, Obi-Kun wrote: thats a good argument but I was referring to the old horror movies where the bad guys always seems to keep up even if the victim get on a bullet train and go to another continent..he is bound to get to them simply by walking

Thats what omnipotence does for you.

At 8/12/06 08:53 PM, -Hellraiser- wrote: makes me feel sorry for you... i believe you guys are just afraid of sex

We don't want your sympathy. We don't fear sex, we value the purpose of it.

Although murder and torture methods are always an intriguing and thought provoking conversation starter, I have a pressing question.

So, while I was making apple juice earlier, I got distracted by this "magazine" that I own (I swear it wasn't a teen magazine). One section is dedicated to questions, which is typical for any magazine. Anyway, this one question in particular which was the highlight of the page (given a drawing and everything!) was from a mother concerned about her 16-year-old son and his girlfriend. She was worried that they might be sexually active with one another, and was wondering if it was possible to stop them.

Now, i'm wondering, how big a role do parents play in their children's sexual behavior? How much influence do you think they have? Can parents really make the difference between a child being sexually experimental at an early age, or deciding to wait for something more substantial?

At 8/12/06 09:01 PM, -Hellraiser- wrote: Typical stuff.

Here, I posted this a few pages back.

At 8/12/06 12:06 AM, Sarah_Rawr wrote:

Hm, this reminds me, but I keep forgetting to post about it. A little late, but now is as good a time as any. To the people who have inquiries/doubts about the existence of this club, instead of taking the uncalled for and negative approach toward it by posting rudely in here, PM me with your questions. Not to one of the members, but to me. Since I am the Darth Vader here, I will be able to best explain the motives and purpose of this club (as I have done before). I can even avoid it from going that far by saying: try not to be close-minded, and simply go about doing something else on the site if you are bothered. ;)

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Any further questions, PM me.

Honestly, I think that parents can stop their kids from early sexual experimentation by simply talking to their kids. If parents communicate with their children a little bit, they will most likely find small things out about their kids' personal lives, and offer them guidance. I think the most important thing is for them to not keep a constant message of, "DON'T HAVE SEX AND DON'T DO DRUGS AND DON'T DO ANYTHING BAD OR I'LL FUCKING DISOWN YOU!!!" This will most likely cause the kids to look for ways to disobey their parents just to spite them. That said, absolute freedom most likely isn't a good idea either. So in a few words, communication and appropriate discipline and restrictions are key. Cookie, please!

At 8/12/06 09:01 PM, -Hellraiser- wrote: im just confused.. why is there a club for being a virgin, its like
yA! Im A VirGiN! Wo0t!

Its more:
yA! I'M @ VIrG1n 4 CUZ ITs sSPEciAL N wE wANT itT 2 HaV M3aNing!!11

well, what i dont get is, why is there a club on this, so u guys think sex is like doing drugs?

Cause its a place free from attiutudes like that. Support and just general questions, discussions etc, etc.

Sex is what created you

No shit, I think we're all well aware of that.

and btw, im not trying to offend anyone, its yor choice not to have sex, but rememebr, u cant hide from your problems and u cant be a virgin forever or you will end up like this guy.

We do choose to have sex, we're not celebate (sp?). But we also choose to wait for reasons beyond lust: health, pregnancy fears, love... and plenty more.

At 8/12/06 09:10 PM, -Hellraiser- wrote: lemme correct myself**
Hello, Maddam. i was just wondering what you and all these other amazing folks here were doing in such a fine club in our presence. with all due respect, i am sorry about my dispicible behavior. as i have heard, the club sounds like it is for those who are proud of being virgins as of such gentlemen as yourselfs.
and i...

talking smart hurts. im done

Hello good sir. Why thank you for kindly rephrasing your question, but you see, why I made that post was because i've already gotten into this discussion/argument about the reasonings for this club. I'd rather not have the same conversation repeated too many times in here. Also, the members are not all gentlemen. There are ladies somewhere in here, too.

Naked Beercan.

But, since you were so nice, i'll copy and paste the important tidbits for you. This is also good to serve as a reminder for anyone else interested.

First post:

Here's a club for all of you virgins out there who have decided, for whatever reasons they may be, to hold out on doing the deed. Be proud of your decision! Forget peer pressure, foolish standards in our society, and that silly emphasis on loose sex. All that's required is that you be comfortable with who you are!

When asked by a Tauntaun for more details:

You could say it's a bit of both. I believe in the opinions that I have shared here so far, but it is also as a means for people to join and feel comfortable with their decision, instead of feeling left-out in this often times foolish society. Also, after noticing the increased population of the younger spectrum of users, i'm glad to know that by reading through and joining this club, they'll have the opportunity to see an alternative route to take in their lives without feeling "uncool". Giving people a moment to pause and think about their actions, considering what really has substantial meaning in their lives, is one of the main goals.

I'd like to bring up a point, this club is here to support the pro-virgin life style, and although analyzing the faults of lust and promiscuity is perfectly fine, it's intention is not to bash anyone. Just a separate opinion, and a different lifestyle.

Expounding for someone else:

Topics are not limited to just virginity. It is what any other club is meant to be, a gathering for a group of people who all have something in common. That something being supporters of the pro-virgin lifestyle. It is explicitly stated that members who join share their viewpoint and reasoning for this choice, so it's intention is not a pointless club where people come in to bitch about not getting laid and how much they masturbate. There are many depths and sides to this subject, as well as people who appreciate such a concept, which if you had read through the pages, you would understand.

A support group, a help topic, and a discuss thread. Those sum it up best.

Omg there's more:

Beyond virginity, and the various reasons for people taking participation in the lifestyle, this club also opens up discussion for the analyzation of the human behavioral pattern and lifestyle. It deals with issues of:

- Our society's views on sexuality

- Peer pressure
* Schools, friends, popularity and how to handle these issues.

- Cultural differences
* Impact of home life, race, moralistic views, etc.

- Religious variations
* Belief systems, maritial issues, etc.

- Governmental views
* State-to-state, laws and regulations, etc.

- Media influence;
* Music, movies, fashion, etc.

- Psychological impact
* Choices, reasons, and consequences.

And more, this relates to you actually:

Alrighty, now i'm going to make another point. You find virginity to be pointless, and that a club created for pro-virgins is a waste of time, right? Well, you see, like I had mentioned before, it's all a matter of a difference of opinion. Of course I knew there was going to be opposition toward this subject when I created the club. But that display of opposition only reinforces why this club is here. It's not just here on the internet that people are quick to judge, and consider frivolous these decisions, but it's also a contributing factor in the outside world as well.

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Beyond all of this, it's also a place to have fun be light-hearted as well, since there's no way i'd create an entirely serious club. What a drag that would be.

So, after reading through all of that, if you still have any questions.. PM me. Otherwise, post to contribute.

Wow o_O
First at all, Hi, it´s my first post in NG, and I´m from Argentina and I speak Spanish, so my English is poor =(
I´ve readed a great part of this topic, it´s very interesting, I must be in thie club XD
I´m 18 and I´m still virgin, it´s strange beacuse almost people of my age aren´t virgin.
But... i don´t know...
Well
NG is the most XD

see u

At 8/12/06 10:03 PM, PabloPac88 wrote: Wow o_O

Indeed.

First at all, Hi, it´s my first post in NG, and I´m from Argentina and I speak Spanish, so my English is poor =(

You're doing fine with your English, and congrats on your first post.

I´ve readed a great part of this topic, it´s very interesting, I must be in thie club XD

Welcome aboard then.

I´m 18 and I´m still virgin, it´s strange beacuse almost people of my age aren´t virgin.

That's how it usually goes. Keep in mind, you're not strange for your decision, be confident and proud of what you believe in.

But... i don´t know...

Indeed.

Well
NG is the most XD

NG is the most... strange. I agree.

see u

Ciao.

At 8/12/06 09:01 PM, -Hellraiser- wrote: im just confused.. why is there a club for being a virgin, its like
yA! Im A VirGiN! Wo0t!

well, what i dont get is, why is there a club on this, so u guys think sex is like doing drugs? Sex is life, Sex is religion, for you people who didnt know.. Sex is what created you (i know some of you guys are like "OGM! IT CANT BE!" but its true, sex makes you and me.)

and btw, im not trying to offend anyone, its yor choice not to have sex, but rememebr, u cant hide from your problems and u cant be a virgin forever or you will end up like this guy.

Okly pokly mr. Hellraiser, if reading the rest of the posts in here, plus sarahs newest post hasnt helped you understand at all well, let me give it a try :)

#1 were cooler than you, coz well we are ;-) that dosnt need explaining

#2 not everyone helping here is a virgin, take me for example, im married, i have had sex before (amazing i know) however we still want to help/support others, help guide them through hard times.....

#3 Not everyone wants to get jiggy with it......

#4 Not everyone wants some slutty little whore for their first time :)

#5 Alot of people (im guessing as you dont understand you could possable be one of these people) seam to miss-understand/dislike/hate on/be mean to others purely because of their beliefes, we are here to counter ballance that (or try).

#6 The group is here because, oddly enough, not everyone wants to have sex, and that is kind of out of place in the "normal" world, we are trying to help people not feel so out of place, like they are wierd or whatever it is that helps.

#7 some advice we give isnt just to and for virgins, some of us are experiences adults in many fields, if they are interested and want the help then we are here to help them....

#8 did i mention were cooler than you?

#9 As i have stated before (if you read all posts you would know this) i informed everyone that sex is ment to be fun, however it being fun dosnt mean that you have to take a hit at every hole that walks within a 100yard radius of you......

#10 did i mention were here to help/support people??

#11 I like to touch my nipples when its cold, and thats alright too.

#12 Maby... some people in this world think you should only make the fun times with people you like/love/carefore (other than family.....), and others would like to support that.

#13 im taking a break here, i need to touch my nipples, its getting cold.....

At 8/12/06 10:03 PM, PabloPac88 wrote: Wow o_O
First at all, Hi, it´s my first post in NG, and I´m from Argentina and I speak Spanish, so my English is poor =(
I´ve readed a great part of this topic, it´s very interesting, I must be in thie club XD
I´m 18 and I´m still virgin, it´s strange beacuse almost people of my age aren´t virgin.
But... i don´t know...
Well
NG is the most XD

see u

Welcome

Read Sarah's post, she may be into the dark side and all that but she sometimes makes sense :-P

Your English is fine, and dont worry about what others think :) you have to live with your disitions not them.

(your English is actually better than mine lol....)

Wow, sarah really takes this thread seriously. You're probably the most engaged threadmaster I've ever seen. Which really isn't a bad thing, it's obvious you've put hard work into this club. And it pays off, I guess.

Have you heard the saying "once you go black, you don't go back"?

Well for losing your virginity, it is like this: Once you get pussy, you're not a wussy.

At 8/13/06 05:10 AM, Contract_Killers wrote: Have you heard the saying "once you go black, you don't go back"?

Well for losing your virginity, it is like this: Once you get pussy, you're not a wussy.

"Once you rub, you'll never stup"

I'm gone 3 days and this place grows like a weed.

At 8/13/06 05:21 AM, HoboPorn wrote: I'm gone 3 days and this place grows like a weed.

Hey guess what Zach, I'm not in this club.

At 8/13/06 05:22 AM, Contract_Killers wrote:

At 8/13/06 05:21 AM, HoboPorn wrote: I'm gone 3 days and this place grows like a weed.

Hey guess what Zach, I'm not in this club.

Awww.

At 8/13/06 05:22 AM, Contract_Killers wrote:

At 8/13/06 05:21 AM, HoboPorn wrote: I'm gone 3 days and this place grows like a weed.

Hey guess what Zach, I'm not in this club.

Yeah but theres a diffrence between you and me...I wouldn't have tapped the girl you did :|

heehee

At 8/13/06 05:50 AM, HoboPorn wrote:

At 8/13/06 05:22 AM, Contract_Killers wrote:

At 8/13/06 05:21 AM, HoboPorn wrote: I'm gone 3 days and this place grows like a weed.

Hey guess what Zach, I'm not in this club.

Yeah but theres a diffrence between you and me...I wouldn't have tapped the girl you did :|

Is that smoke I smell?

BURN!

At 8/13/06 05:52 AM, Athlas wrote:

At 8/13/06 05:50 AM, HoboPorn wrote:
Yeah but theres a diffrence between you and me...I wouldn't have tapped the girl you did :|

Is that smoke I smell?

BURN!

Lol that was good huh? *highfives athlas* anyways it's bed time night. i'll leave my NG window open.

I have a question:
If you're not a virgin, can you be in the club anyway? I mean, I support the virgin lifestyle and I had maintained mine for quite a while. I just believe that since I am older than most people here and I have been on both sides of the fence, that I can offer lots of support and advice to those who need it.

If not just chase me away :P

At 8/13/06 06:13 AM, Cerrax wrote:

If not just chase me away :P

*growls*

Bad boy, off with you! Now where did I leave that torch and hayfork?

(nah, you're welcome on my part, not that I have anything to say here)

i wana join kan i join ?? plz let me join =)

At 8/13/06 06:58 AM, lord_paco wrote: i wana join kan i join ?? plz let me join =)

Yes. Welcome. Just try to type better XD

I wish i was still a virgin.

Damn alcohol.

At 8/13/06 06:13 AM, Cerrax wrote: I have a question:
If you're not a virgin, can you be in the club anyway? I mean, I support the virgin lifestyle and I had maintained mine for quite a while. I just believe that since I am older than most people here and I have been on both sides of the fence, that I can offer lots of support and advice to those who need it.

If not just chase me away :P

Yes your welcome to join, but please read the rest of the posts :) i know theres alot but it will help :)

At 8/13/06 05:10 AM, Contract_Killers wrote: Have you heard the saying "once you go black, you don't go back"?

Well for losing your virginity, it is like this: Once you get pussy, you're not a wussy.

Not the kind of thing we want in here :)
please get on track or dont bother posting in here anymore :)

At 8/13/06 05:10 AM, Contract_Killers wrote: Have you heard the saying "once you go black, you don't go back"?

Well for losing your virginity, it is like this: Once you get pussy, you're not a wussy.

lol! she's just mad because she can never get a man or a woman. it's ok Sarah-Rawr we all saw u may's edition of camel toe magazine.