At 8/18/06 08:38 PM, Naked_Beercan wrote:
#1 do you consider anal sex losing your vaginity (both for a male or a female, please give view on both, weather giver or taker).
Women - Vaginity... no. Since its not in teh vagina. But I consider you to have Anal and Vaginal virginities. Although with the former I see nothing special about it. Its more for porn than for love.
I dunno how I feel about whether losing your anal virginity before have vag-sex counts as losing your virginity. But I feel that it should.... since its an act of sex..... gar, I'm gonna end up contradicting myself and making no sense. Thankfully I have no plans to bum an anus before I do a vaginiaia.
Wait, if you have anal sex first, then you're no longer a virgin as you've given yourself a way. Just in a different hole. But for me it just lacks any form of speciality. I mean, I suppose the thing about normal sex is that its essentially a form of creating life. Thus has a more powerful meaning.
But if you have regular sex first I'd say you could class yourself as an anal virgin. But to me it means nothing.
For males however I do consider it full virgin loss. I mean, they have no other option do they? They choose not to care for wombs and stuff, so all power to them. Plus as its their only option everything I've said about anal sex being shit (lol pun) is void, though I hope they do it for love. Malicious anal sex between two buff gays sounds nasty.
And you say 'weather (should be whether) giver or taker'. Well, I consider it a two way thing. I mean Penis-Vagina = virginity loss on both sides. Why shouldn't Penis-Anus be the same for homosexuals?
#2 does homosexual lovin constitute losing your virginity, or can you only lose your virginity to the oposit sex? or only to one you love (this is more for people that believe virginity is more than just a technical term).
I think I've already made my point of this bit clear, so no need to repeat what I've said.
But about the 'only to one you love.' I think thats bullshit. Losing your virginity is a physical thing, not emotional. If you lose it outside of love, then thats your problem for not waiting.