This might seem a little bit out of the blue, but it's my complaining time again. I swear it's been coming quicker and quicker recently. Anyway, this post is supposed to be addressing a specific issue. I think I should post it here, since it had me thinking a little bit (yes, I think about the BBS). I've followed this discussion thread for a while, and I think it's something relevant to bring up.
My point of contention? This thread, that I first saw the other day when it was bumped. Now, as I've said here before, I realise it's an unwritten privilege of being a mod around here to share in-jokes and such. I don't think it's fair to ask mods to just do their bit entirely without humour. Hell, we all know that if all the mods were replaced with emotionless robots, we'd all be asking for the humans back, partly due to the humour that is sometimes brought the BBS by them! I've said a lot of this before in this very thread, so I won't repeat myself here.
However, with this particular thread I've linked to, you might be asking where's the humour, or what's even the point? As far as I see it, it's all about making an example of users who ask to be mods, but does that really accomplish anything? I mean, the thread starts with EyeLovePoozy quoting those cherished FAQ lines, which tend to be posted whenever a newer user asks how to become a mod around here. Really, if I'm trying think intelligently here (which I am, but it might be coming off badly), that rule should really speak for itself. Sure, maybe some people speak on the topic where it borderlines stupidity, but is there really any need to make a thread about it, especially a thread that is clearly aimed to be nothing more than a private ridicule going by the locks? In my opinion, it's not really any better, and it goes along the same lines of complaints you hear about the mods from users that have claimed they're leaving the forums. I don't know if there are any rules against it or anything, but surely something like that is more suited to the mod lounge or somewhere? Of course, that eliminates the true humiliation factor, but people shouldn't need to be publicly humiliated when one of the major reasons people come here is to have fun.
Perhaps I'm being a bit narrow-minded, but I personally found it to be as funny as a funeral myself. Just to clarify, I'm not talking about one of those modern funerals where the speakers make jokes about the deceased and Another One Bites The Dust plays as the body is cremated. I'm talking about one of those funerals on a rainy day, of an old lady who lived until the day before her one hundredth birthday. Her beloved dog pants as it's tied to a post outside, and the grandson toddler looks up at its parents and says, "I miss Grandma.". At least in that case the priest tripping up on his way to the front might have caused a few laughs. But who knows, maybe I'm the boring type.
I actually mean that last sentence quasi-seriously. Again, maybe I'm feeling "butthurt" over not being included in a joke. I'm just thinking though that since we're trying to improve the experience of users here, it might be something to just tone down the prospect of humiliation for simply asking a question. I don't know the full story between any user that's been posted there and the mods... but frankly I don't really care either. The point can be made better and simpler (like it is here) and the humour can be made... well, worth laughing at. I'm not trying to point fingers here, but that issue in general could probably be handled a lot better.
At the risk of evaluating the BBS far too seriously, this place has a close-knit community. When people are laughed at, their e-humiliation is going to spread quite quickly. Going with maturity, I thought some people would know that easily, and the consequences of it.
Anyway, that's that done. Maybe I've made a complete arse of myself, but I'll shrug it off. If you've read what I've had to say, then that's cool. I'll be happy (and maybe a little relived) to read any responses. With any luck, I won't have to do something like this again any time soon.
My Dad said exactly the same thing when he paid the undertaker after my grandmother's funeral.