At 12/13/12 01:10 PM, Glides wrote:
I seriously think that at this rate I'm going to die alone.
You mean in this negative state? Because negativity only attracts negativity and women in general are not looking for negativity? Why yes, most likely you will. Not that weird seeing as you hold so many negative believes that keep you from liking someone or being liked.
Seriously, I'm like chick repellent, women just seem to disappear or lose interest whenever I'm around.
They lose interest? So there was interest at first? Then what is it that makes them lose interest? What is it you do that prevents them from liking you? Is it you playing a victim? Is it you creating your own failures to make your expactations of failure come true?
Admittedly this is because I'm a hideous and boring guy. I simply don't have a single romantic bone in my body.
The penis has no bone, that is true.
Jokes aside, you project what you believe and women believe what you project. So yes, you are boring and hideous. Not because it is true, because you believe it to be true.
Nor do women fantasize about me and stuff like that.
Tell me more about the magic of reading the minds of women! Or is it so that you don't know what women think nor fantasize about? So in actuality it might just be that they do fantasize about you?
You gotta be attractive, wealthy or famous to attract anyone. Women like power, and I have none of it.
Power of self. To be who you want to be, live life as you see fit and to have power over your own emotions. That is the power women seek in men. It's a part of what creates attraction. Power of self is to be obtained by any man. In that case it is your own responsibility to obtain it and your own responsibility to allow women to be attracted to you.
But I'm glad you to see that you're being a victim. After all, a victim is powerless. In this case the victim is powerless because you choose to be powerless.
If anyone tells you otherwise, they're lying.
True. Women do want to be attracted to men (or women). It's true you have to be attractive to do so. It's true they like power and it's true you have none.
It's also you true you can have power. It's true that power is waiting for you to grab it and to give direction and meaning to your own life by taking control of it. It's also true that anyone can be powerful and anyone can be attractive. It's also true that negative believes keep you from being powerful and attractive, drag you into a cycle of negativity which constantly reinforces these negative believes and makes you feel like a victim. It's the sad truth that you're doing this to yourself. But it's the best truth to know that you can stop doing this to yourself, man the fuck up and take some control over your own life.
Just felt like expressing myself in a place where no one can figure out who I am.
It doesn't matter who you are. It only matters if you are happy with what you are like.