At 3/22/11 12:37 PM, homor wrote:
Let me make something clear here, buddy: This was child rape, clear cut, plain and simple.
Yeah, in this 100 year period in time it is child rape.
Along with other periods where things were illegal, during the renaissance metal patients were burned at the stake. It was illegal to to have depression... AND IT WAS TAKEN VERY SERIOUSLY TY VERY MUCH.
VERY MUCH...the way society is reacting to this..also very similar to the way society reacted to witches. Don't you even question for a second where your morals and values come from? You were socialized to think a certain way, to behave a certain way, or else you were sanctioned.
This situation might be a bit more of a gray area if the girl was sixteen, but she wasn't, she was a child. And don't give that "BUT THEY THOUGHT SHE WAS OLDER!!!" or "SHE HAD THE MENTAL DEVELOPMENT OF A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD!!!" bullshit because we both know that's a bunch of crap.
We both don't know that. I still remember being 11, and I still remember saying I was mature enough to be 16, and I haven't noticed any difference. I still believe 11 year old me was as mature as a 16 year old... If it can happen to me, why can't it happen to a girl? Equality, mate.
Once again, she didn't get raped, she asked for it, she wanted it, she enjoyed it.
Says you, someone who doesn't know shit about how a child's mind works, someone who wasn't there, someone who has never talked to this girl in-person.
Once again, she didn't get raped, she assked for it, she wanted it, she enjoyed it. Says someone who's taken every psych class available and therefore knows HOW an 11 year old's mind works.
No, it's fucking perfectly normal,
Yep, you're defiantly a retard.
All this name calling. :(
Except when you're eleven, your mind isn't developed enough to handle things like sex. You shouldn't be "desiring" sex at that age. If you are, there is something seriously wrong.
I have always desired sex. When I was 6 I talked a girl into playing some doctor, she's not fucked up now, I'm not fucked up now. I don't think you understand the difference between willing sex and rape... You're obviously not listening to the user testimonials explaining that they were in slightly similar situations and nobody was hurt in the long run. You have a very closed mind and I understand I can't open it, so expect me to not respond to anything else you have to say because we're at an impasse.
At 3/22/11 12:43 PM, Skwurll wrote:
As much as you guys want to argue over this, I think we can all agree that the world is a fucked up place.
Aye mate. Everything is all sorts of fucked nowadays.
Anyone else in favor of locking them all up for life? (Not just the people accused of rape, but the little girl too.)
I'm down for locking them all up. The rapists...the little girl.....all the parents, the jury, the lawyers, the judge...EVERYONE GETS LIFE!
At 3/22/11 01:18 PM, Darwin7 wrote:
At 3/21/11 10:31 PM, Senmetsu wrote:
These men will now spent 25-30 years in prison. She has a few days of soreness from the gangsex and they get raped in the ass til 2040.
Are you seriously defending these dickheads that gang raped a little girl???
Defending the dickheads? Naw. Attacking the little girl? Yaw. Am I playing the Devil's Advocate for attention? Naw.
If you read my entire first post I have a friend doin 30 years for sex with a minor when he was 19. I won't re-tell the whole story, but you can see it in my first post and subsequent posts. This issue of girls acting older than they are and dressing slutty and FEEDING YOU EXTAZY AND TAKING YOUR PANTSO FF WITH HER TEETH AFTER DOWNING HALF A BOTTLE OF JACK...and getting off scott free because "they didn't know any better." Bull. fucking. shit. I knew better at 11. They fucking do too.
I think in some situations the "mandatory minimum sentencing" is a tad extreme. There are cases where the girl was soooooooo seriously in the wrong and got off scott free.
After my friend got 30 years:
The little girl, and her family, got in no trouble for possessing exstasy, got in no trouble for giving their 11 year old a half a bottle of jack, got in no trouble for letting men come over to have sex with their daughter (5 guys have done this so far and they've been home and in the room EVERY TIME...They see the pills, the booze, the sex...and do nothing about it until the next day when its PRISON TIME FOR THAT GUY). Her family has never had a charge against them...even with all the drugs and underage drinking and giving her packs of cigarettes so she looks older...
At 3/22/11 01:38 PM, atypop wrote:
11 year old girls do not have the right to decide when they are ready for sex.
And those men/boys should not have raped her, whether or not she wanted it.
I noticed you said 11 year old girls do not have the right to decide yadda yadda... lets just go back...
"11 year old girls"
Do 11 year old boys have a right to decide when they're ready for sex? That's when I knew I was ready and to this day I stand firm that I was ready for sex at 11 years old....14 years later. I think if any trauma were to surface it would have done so by this point.
At 3/22/11 01:39 PM, SnoopyChicken wrote:
Yes it is rape, legally she cannot consent
Ah ha! So you admit it! LEGALLY she cannot consent.
Psychologically and physically though, its possible that was able to consent?
This thread is more about fighting the laws that govern the modern world... so yeah, legally she can't consent... but you specified the legalities of it and haven't focused on the emotional aspect of it.
Legally I know smoking pot is against the law, yet I do it.
I know that driving without my license is against the law, I do that too.
There are many laws in this world that are harsh, or just plain strange. Google "blue book laws" and you'll see all the crazy laws we have that we don't question or do anything about. We just accept them as laws because its too much time and money to change anything BACK.
One girl gets raped and murdered by a very bad man long ago and suddenly anyone who has sex with a willing participant that was the age of the previous girl has to go to prison for life. The two situations can be VERY DIFFERENT, yet we treat them as the same. Every case is unique. Every case has the right to its own punishment instead of this stupid mandatory BS.
Where's the law for all those priests that raped kids? WE KNOW THEY DID IT. We know as surely as we know that these men raped this little girl. We know it as surely as Megan or Jessica, but there's no Aaron's Law. There's no Mike's Law. There really IS still this illusion that girls are more fragile and sacred than boys. Rape a girl an take her virginity? THATS PRISON TIME. Rape a boy and tear his little ass apart? COMMUNITY SERVICE AND RETIREMENT!
At 3/22/11 02:28 PM, SPLINTERCELL58 wrote:
People are spending crazy amounts of time in jail because of this.
Yes. Yes they are. >:-[
At 3/22/11 02:11 PM, Gagsy wrote:
I'd say she has repressed things. Perhaps in a few months the shock of what happened will hit her like a ton of bricks.
I hope she hasn't repressed anything. I think you're the first person to bring that up... Being that I'm on the other side I saw that argument but chose not to mention it because it makes my case look bad :P But yeah.... if she's repressed a lot of sadness because of this, then perhaps some of these guys need some jail.
Still responding to stuffz, just outta characters.