At 1/3/11 05:39 PM, RobJohnson wrote:
No... ive been with her for 3 years... and I wont leave her because of her weight.... but I feel that I deserve an attractive girlfriend again (how she used to be). And... I want her to be my attractive girlfriend since I love her.
If your gf has gained weight, I find it very unlikely that she hasn't realized and hinting that's she's fat and needs to diet will only upset her. If you want to avoid drama, you're best bet is to ignore the weight gain - girls can still be attractive even if they're a bit chubby. However, if he regaining her former figure means so much to you, I'd suggest taking a more proactive approach than suggesting she needs to lose weight. Instead, try talking to her about fitness and theme your dates around healthier activities such as jogging. Also, suggest that you both try to eat healthier. This way, she gets the message that she needs to get more fit without her feelings getting hurt, and without you sounding like a dick, because the two of you can get more fit together.
Or just incessantly call her a fat pig until she develops anorexia.