No, I don't think I'm too detached. As far as nice, I understand your definition of it, at least.
As far as a better person, I'd think you'd need to elaborate without referring me to my own text.
I love when philosophy is "shoehorned" into a description of "some dead guys." Actually, your field of study is derived from the 19th century, especially Hegel.
The needs for human beings never changes: food, water, in some way sex (not for the person as such, but for the species), and shelter. The means are different, but we need to eat and crap as much as the ancient Romans did.
I'm not really a literalist, or as you meant to say a 'positivist.' Actually, I can't recall which dictionary your definition is derived from. I know philosophy is derived from the Greek, used in latin and ecclesial latin. Also transliterated into German, Japanese, and the Romance languages... am I missing something?
A "philosophy in life" is not a definition, it's a term. You defined it as "going with the flow" which is 'a' definition that is self-determined by you... which I called a sham. That should suffice, I believe.
Your next part of the post, however, gets to the point [of a phil. in life] and can be examined more critically, so I thank you for that:
"conforming to the social norms"-- fine
"only objecting and analyzing them"--- ok...
"if they go against your moral code." --- I assume egalitarianism, which is everyone is equal by birth.
This too is not so much a philosophy as it is a social contract. This is perhaps philosophy in the loosest sense...but it is not a pursuit of truth or gaining wisdom, it is simply a modification of how you are governed, and yet there is still very little I can gather simply from moral code (other than a term you provided).
I also laugh when you say going with the flow. Your definition says : "go with the flow...until something goes against your flow, so then you endeavor to change that flow"
Which in those words, for a linguist like yourself, falls into logical ineptness and incoherence.
But more on this will come, I imagine.
I "namedrop" because I don't claim my own observations as exclusively my own. It's a shame no one takes philisophical claims more seriously because it really does, I'll attest, permeate throughout our lives in all places.
And you used a good term: a "framework of thought." This is what interests me and I think gets down to my original question of "why are you moral?"
The argument is sure to be circular, and touch on the same thing again and again.. but the point is to extract a little more information each time... revalue our terms/hypotheses, or at least solidify WHAT we are actually saying.
Plus, I may be speaking over some people's heads, so I apologize for that.
We don't hate scientists for knowing their terminology. As this is a philosophical inquiry, allow me to have that same honor (I suppose... though I'm no exact expert). If anyone needs clarification on what I say, just ask. I want a clear discussion and figure out, ourselves, what we're really getting at and then determine where we ought to go.
My main inquiry was how it is established... not what you do--- though it helps.
It depends on if you consider yourself an Atheist first... thus that "frame," or an Egalitarian first which makes you an Atheist... I suppose that's another question coming from your terms.
It's all quite interesting, and thanks for the response.