umm my girlfriend is moving away this summer and i need some help, should i try and keep the relationship going? i know long distance relationships are hard, but we really like each other, and i really think we can keep it up, but ive never been in a long distance relationship before, and anyone that has i would like some advice here
thanks
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Of course keep it up. Call her, AIM her, and visit a couple times. You'll be fine.
I am in one. My gf lives 300 miles away but we are together for about 18 months now, it works. But it's difficult.
How far will she live away from you?
No. Break up with her. At our age, no girl is worth having a "long distance relationship" with when you can go out dating and seeing other girls instead.
No, you're 15. Have a great summer, and meet some great, new people. Don't ruin one of the last summers you're going to actually get to enjoy by worrying about someone who you're not likely to be with for very long.
I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 7 months now. Me and my gf have a sem-long distance relationship. My gf lives like 30 minutes away, but we still talk and e-mail and visit each other. We're still in love and i kno that our relationship will last. In your case, it all depends on if the girl is willing to maintain the relationship, if the relationship is strong enough to last not seeing each other much, and i you know you can trust each other. It's also depends on the distance. If she moves a whole county, or even state away, then i don't think, at your age, you should try to maintain a relationship like that. It all depends. Only you and her can ultimately decide what to do. Good luck.
At 5/24/04 04:55 PM, WaJoeJoe wrote: umm my girlfriend is moving away this summer and i need some help, should i try and keep the relationship going? i know long distance relationships are hard, but we really like each other, and i really think we can keep it up, but ive never been in a long distance relationship before, and anyone that has i would like some advice here
thanks
Long distance relationships are hard... Thats why you have the ability to masterbate, yeah its helps you not cheat on her LOL j/k
But seriously, it depends how far shes moving and how soon shes coming back, If you really like her than stay together and try to work it out, with todays technology you can see her online with webcams or with those damn video phones,
Whatever you do, good luck
you would be surpised at how long we will be together
the only reason we will ever probably break up with each other is for cheating
and i know she isnt going to do that, im sure of it, and i know im not, so there you go
Just take another girl. She probebly isn't that special. There are probably other girls just as good near you.
if u want to keep the relationship goin and really think its worth it then do it, but if u hav a doubt, jus spk to her, im sure she will like the fact tht u hav put some thought into it
At 5/24/04 05:03 PM, WaJoeJoe wrote: she is probably going to come back in 2 years
most likely
thats pretty damn long, you gatta think you're going through the high school years, you're ganna meet alot of attractive and interesting people, and yeah, im saying you take a "break" with your current g/f, just see what else is out there, you're still young
i know its long, but she can visit probably about every nine weeks or so, when she gets off school
and christmas, and for one month in the summer
and i can go visit to
and we can AIM and write letters and talk on the phone too
You should try considering this like a test for your relashionship. If you can keep it cool even if your not togheter, that means your relashionship is strong
Hey Just keep talking and e-maling her Im sure youll keep going but if not theres plenty more fish in the sea.
At 5/25/04 12:00 PM, Chingy101 wrote: Hey Just keep talking and e-maling her Im sure youll keep going but if not theres plenty more fish in the sea.
if you like her keep it goin, if not, lucky break, you can dump her with a good reason.
If you love here go for it. If you just kinda "like" her she probably isn't worth the trouble. I wouldn't have a long-distance relationship with someone I just liked.
