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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-08 22:03:53 Reply

At 7/8/10 09:19 PM, HungarianSupermarket wrote:
At 7/8/10 11:00 AM, Lost-Chances wrote: However, I think behaviour like this makes me wonder about the ethical dilemma of pretending to be of a particular sexuality you're not.
The only thing that bothers me about Lady Gaga is that she assumes every gay person in the world is obsessed with her and she decided to make a video about it.

With that said, I do enjoy dancing to her music, but not to the extent that i want it on my ipod to listen to whenever.

Poker Face is the only song of hers that I would even consider putting on my ipod. I'm not saying she's a bad musician, because she's actually pretty talented. However, I will say that she is terribly overrated.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-09 02:31:24 Reply

"Just Dance" is her best, Pokerface close second. Alejandro sounds too much like 90's Madonna. Seriously, it's just "La Isla Bonita" 2.0

What is it with gay icons and their ineptitude with latin themes? Alejandro, La Isla Bonita, Don't Cry For Me Argentina, Fernando (by ABBA)? All those songs sound so same-y.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-09 12:56:47 Reply

Wow, she is amazingly sexy as a man.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-11 12:32:00 Reply

At 7/7/10 02:09 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 7/6/10 01:17 PM, Lost-Chances wrote: I ended up experiencing my share of "joyful" homophobia when I came out to one person offline.
What happened?

Do you not want to talk about it?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-11 13:05:37 Reply

Because I like pimping out this piece of propaganda I made:

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-11 16:21:32 Reply

At 7/11/10 12:32 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 7/7/10 02:09 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 7/6/10 01:17 PM, Lost-Chances wrote: I ended up experiencing my share of "joyful" homophobia when I came out to one person offline.
What happened?
Do you not want to talk about it?

I've talked about it A LOT. I figured someone may of spoken up by now. Anyway, got dumped by ex girlfriend because I'm bisexual. That's the short version.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-12 08:23:04 Reply

At 7/11/10 04:21 PM, Lost-Chances wrote:
At 7/11/10 12:32 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 7/7/10 02:09 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 7/6/10 01:17 PM, Lost-Chances wrote: I ended up experiencing my share of "joyful" homophobia when I came out to one person offline.
What happened?
Do you not want to talk about it?
I've talked about it A LOT. I figured someone may of spoken up by now. Anyway, got dumped by ex girlfriend because I'm bisexual. That's the short version.

Oh, sorry for bringing that up, and I'm sorry that your ex-girlfriend was too closed-minded to accept you for such a small difference.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-12 10:47:47 Reply

At 7/12/10 08:23 AM, Scarface wrote: Oh, sorry for bringing that up, and I'm sorry that your ex-girlfriend was too closed-minded to accept you for such a small difference.

There's no need to be sorry for anything at all. I did hint at it quite a bit and my ex-girlfriend, eh, bound to happen to someone.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-12 22:17:32 Reply

You're better off being with someone who isn't a crazy intolerant person, L-C. How are things going in that department?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 03:04:35 Reply

At 7/12/10 10:17 PM, Sensationalism wrote: You're better off being with someone who isn't a crazy intolerant person, L-C. How are things going in that department?

It's hard to judge really. The only thing that's certain is that I really hope the other guy she's into gets a stroke, or dies and goes to hell. For some religious idiot, he never did read about pride: one of the seven deadly sins.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 07:26:56 Reply

At 7/12/10 10:40 PM, SeanJoystick wrote: I think homosexuality is a choice

Lol.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 08:04:15 Reply

I was hoping someone could answer this for me:

according to my mother, it will be hard for me to date a woman, because most women dont want to be with a bisexual,(such as myself). her reasoning for this, is that women want a man who's a man, so i guess being bi doesn't qualify me, '_____'

she also says that dating a woman wouldnt work, because i'd have certain "needs" that a woman couldnt fulfill. i honestly think that she's wrong, but i want to hear it from someone else. Are women really turned off if a guy is bi? and does that stop them from dating them?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 08:14:41 Reply

At 7/13/10 08:04 AM, HappyMango wrote: I was hoping someone could answer this for me:

according to my mother, it will be hard for me to date a woman, because most women dont want to be with a bisexual,(such as myself). her reasoning for this, is that women want a man who's a man, so i guess being bi doesn't qualify me, '_____'

No offense intended, but your mother sounds like a horribly ignorant person. What on earth makes a bisexual less of a man?
With that said, it would be stupid not to expect homophobia at some point in your life, as Lost-Chances unfortunately mentioned before. But the majority of girls aren't bothered by it, and the ones that are honestly aren't worth the time.

she also says that dating a woman wouldnt work, because i'd have certain "needs" that a woman couldnt fulfill. i honestly think that she's wrong, but i want to hear it from someone else. Are women really turned off if a guy is bi? and does that stop them from dating them?

What on earth would your mother know about your needs? If you are happy in a relationship with someone, then that is the only peson you want to be having sex with. And if you don't feel the need for a relationship, there is nothing wrong with that either. You are still young. For want of a better term, just experiment and get to know what you like, and don't worry about what your mother thinks you may like because it really shouldn't concern her.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 08:16:53 Reply

thanks, i really need someone to tell me that. and no offense taken. she says some pretty stupid things sometimes.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 12:55:04 Reply

At 7/13/10 08:16 AM, HappyMango wrote: thanks, i really need someone to tell me that. and no offense taken. she says some pretty stupid things sometimes.

I agree completely with Hungarian, you're just like every other man. Physically, you're no different, Mentally, no different. You just like girls AND guys. I do too. And on you're question, I've actually had MANY more women as an open bisexual than I ever had as a closet bisexual.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 13:14:42 Reply

At 7/13/10 12:55 PM, camobch0 wrote: I agree completely with Hungarian, you're just like every other man. Physically, you're no different, Mentally, no different. You just like girls AND guys. I do too. And on you're question, I've actually had MANY more women as an open bisexual than I ever had as a closet bisexual.

For some reason it's FAR more acceptable for a woman to be bisexual than a man. Probably because woman on woman gets men hot.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 17:24:59 Reply

honestly, i dont even think about it that much. i mean i hate people who let their sexuality define them. im bi, but it doesnt effect my every day. its just a label really.

also, does my mom think i wont be happy if im not geting fucked in the ass?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 20:25:56 Reply

At 7/13/10 05:24 PM, HappyMango wrote: honestly, i dont even think about it that much. i mean i hate people who let their sexuality define them. im bi, but it doesnt effect my every day. its just a label really.

also, does my mom think i wont be happy if im not geting fucked in the ass?

I agree. I act more effeminate than most, but that's pretty much just because I'm not afraid of what people think of me. Plus, I feel more like a woman alot of times.

And I hope not, because getting fucked in the ass causes hemorrhoids.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 20:37:02 Reply

At 7/13/10 08:25 PM, camobch0 wrote:

And I hope not, because getting fucked in the ass causes hemorrhoids.

i think thats sitting in the dirt or something like that. you're thinking of AIDS


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 21:25:55 Reply

At 7/13/10 05:24 PM, HappyMango wrote: honestly, i dont even think about it that much. i mean i hate people who let their sexuality define them. im bi, but it doesnt effect my every day. its just a label really.

That's a very good attitude to have, and I personally could not agree more.

also, does my mom think i wont be happy if im not geting fucked in the ass?

Unfortunately there is the stereotype that bisexual people are whores who need to be having sex with everyone they meet, its possible that unfortunately your mother believes that too.

At 7/13/10 08:25 PM, camobch0 wrote: And I hope not, because getting fucked in the ass causes hemorrhoids.

Only if you're doing it wrong :P


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 21:30:37 Reply

At 7/13/10 08:37 PM, HappyMango wrote:
At 7/13/10 08:25 PM, camobch0 wrote:

And I hope not, because getting fucked in the ass causes hemorrhoids.
i think thats sitting in the dirt or something like that. you're thinking of AIDS

Anyone can get AIDS, straight, bi or gay, from vaginal, anal or oral sex. Just be smart and always use protection.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 21:46:02 Reply

Some shitface posted this thread recently. I don't like him.


ahaha god damnit i'm here.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 22:41:57 Reply

At 7/13/10 09:46 PM, Arctic-Zone wrote: Some shitface posted this thread recently. I don't like him.

That shitface just had his thread deleted, and is probably banned right now.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-13 23:06:52 Reply

At 7/13/10 08:04 AM, HappyMango wrote: I was hoping someone could answer this for me:

according to my mother, it will be hard for me to date a woman, because most women dont want to be with a bisexual,(such as myself). her reasoning for this, is that women want a man who's a man, so i guess being bi doesn't qualify me, '_____'

she also says that dating a woman wouldnt work, because i'd have certain "needs" that a woman couldnt fulfill. i honestly think that she's wrong, but i want to hear it from someone else. Are women really turned off if a guy is bi? and does that stop them from dating them?

Some may not like it, some will. Just like some will not like you and some will. Being bi isn't necessarily a big factor.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 00:45:33 Reply

At 7/13/10 11:53 PM, supperman2 wrote: Being gay is a mental defect and you will never be accepted by society, you fucking queers. Nobody likes you faggots.

Being a retarded hick who has no idea what he's talking about has the same consequences.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 00:57:46 Reply

Im gay...=(.....and i hate it....im in complete love with this amazing guy hes just so cute....and i can have nothing to do with him....i dont know what to do with my homosexuality....should i come out....or just kick it under the rug....i cant stand this pressure....

i know if i told anyone...everyone would hate me....and i would be alone....=\....

can i join?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 01:43:25 Reply

At 7/13/10 05:24 PM, HappyMango wrote: honestly, i dont even think about it that much. i mean i hate people who let their sexuality define them. im bi, but it doesnt effect my every day. its just a label really.

I used to think a bit like this, but then I noticesd that my, and our, sexuality sets us so much apart from the social norm for some people, and partly the whole society, that it can't be seen as a completely neutral thing.

Also, my sexuality isn't the only thing that defines me, just openly identifying as some sexuality means it's all there is to me. It's just the label people stamp on you when they hear it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 02:58:17 Reply

At 7/14/10 12:57 AM, udk wrote: Im gay...=(.....and i hate it....im in complete love with this amazing guy hes just so cute....and i can have nothing to do with him....

I can relate to everything you just said.

i dont know what to do with my homosexuality....should i come out....or just kick it under the rug....i cant stand this pressure....

Depends, how old are you? Because at your age you probably don't know. I don't know yet either. My advice is to lay low, and just act like you're straight, but aren't interested in any girls at your school at the moment.

i know if i told anyone...everyone would hate me....and i would be alone....=\....

That may not be entirely true, depending on where you live. However, there will be homophobia everywhere, so before you come out, be prepared for it.

can i join?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 04:27:01 Reply

I agree that sexuality is one aspect that makes up who we are. And sometimes that can be seen as a major defining aspect, when really it shouldn't be.

At 7/13/10 11:53 PM, supperman2 wrote: Being gay is a mental defect and you will never be accepted by society, you fucking queers. Nobody likes you faggots.

Yeah I know!! We're so fucked up!


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2010-07-14 16:50:28 Reply

I think it's due time I joined, although I have made an alt just for the very sake of this. I haven't come out to anybody and daren't, ever, because I'm still in that stage of uncertainty. I'll be most blunt with you, the following may be NSFW. I've masturbated to gay porn, I've had sexual urges and desires towards other guys my age, I've lusted after other guys and almost had obsessive like behavioural patterns when concerning them, even down to following them into toilets to try and get a glimpse of their dicks.

Where it becomes clear is when I feel like I could make it and slip through the net, I could have a family and live a "normal" life but I know it will not work out anything close to being like that. A lot of the negativitiy in my life comes from this, although I don't see it as hiding a big secret, it's more as a demon I have to control and I fear if I let it out my life will fall into ruin and everything will crumble.