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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 03:40 AM Reply

At 7/2/10 01:56 AM, Chronamut wrote: but yeah.. as a fag that DOESN'T act flambouyant I don't understand the ones htat do

Ah, so should we just pretend to be straight and not complain about being trampled? And who says all guys have to act by a certain mold? What if I'm not very interested in sports? What if I do like taking care of my looks? What if I like dancing? But if I get beat up for being flamboyant, i guess I deserve it for drawing attention to me, what?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 04:33 AM Reply

At 7/2/10 03:40 AM, JohnnyWang wrote:
At 7/2/10 01:56 AM, Chronamut wrote: but yeah.. as a fag that DOESN'T act flambouyant I don't understand the ones htat do
Ah, so should we just pretend to be straight and not complain about being trampled? And who says all guys have to act by a certain mold? What if I'm not very interested in sports? What if I do like taking care of my looks? What if I like dancing? But if I get beat up for being flamboyant, i guess I deserve it for drawing attention to me, what?

There's a difference between flamboyant and someone having a feminine touch. I'm fine with guys who do act somewhat feminine, and I in-fact encourage it because I find overly masculine guys annoying jerks, but it's the person who doesn't just act feminine, but flamboyant. There is a difference. One means obeying every stereotype a label has, and the other one involves embracing your feminine side.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 08:12 AM Reply

At 7/2/10 01:56 AM, Chronamut wrote: *drag - damn dyslexia...

but yeah.. as a fag that DOESN'T act flambouyant I don't understand the ones htat do - are you that happy about being gay that you have to act over the top? Neways we tend to refer to all those types as "twinks" - in the bear world.

And a lot of "twinks" may not understand the attraction to being beefy and hairy. Each to their own, I say! Lets try and keep this club to being open and friendly to people of all sexual orientation and preference.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 11:56 AM Reply

At 7/2/10 03:40 AM, JohnnyWang wrote:
At 7/2/10 01:56 AM, Chronamut wrote: but yeah.. as a fag that DOESN'T act flambouyant I don't understand the ones htat do
Ah, so should we just pretend to be straight and not complain about being trampled? And who says all guys have to act by a certain mold? What if I'm not very interested in sports? What if I do like taking care of my looks? What if I like dancing? But if I get beat up for being flamboyant, i guess I deserve it for drawing attention to me, what?

yeah what the guy below you said - don't confuse "straight acting" with "macho" -the gays that piss me off are the ones that feel liek they stepped right off the rupaul show,.. waving their limp wrists around and splaying them on their chest as they talk, sasheying around everywhere and going "um.. excuuuse me?"

you know the type - the oens that ANYONE - not just heterosexuals - want to take a bat to and mercilessly beat for being a failure of not a man, but of a human being.

and yes if you wanna be idiotic enough to go around being "in your face" to everyone around you - you fucking deserve everything you get.

also get with the times- if you live in any first world country - you aren't being "trampled" - that's like black people complaining they have no rights - this isn't the fucking 80s.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 12:12 PM Reply

your all fagots

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 04:28 PM Reply

At 7/2/10 11:56 AM, Chronamut wrote: and yes if you wanna be idiotic enough to go around being "in your face" to everyone around you - you fucking deserve everything you get.

I'm not, and haven't been a target of violence, but seriously? Fuck you.

also get with the times- if you live in any first world country - you aren't being "trampled" - that's like black people complaining they have no rights - this isn't the fucking 80s.

It's so easy to say that in a position of privilege, isn't it?

Yes, things are better, and I wouldn't say the queer people are actually trampled on anymore, but saying some people deserve being attacked for any reason (except dangering others or other similar actually harmful behaviours) is just assholish.

At 7/2/10 08:12 AM, HungarianSupermarket wrote: Lets try and keep this club to being open and friendly to people of all sexual orientation and preference.

So I should be tolerant of intolerance? I mean fuck, he started this shit, aint my job to end it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 04:39 PM Reply

Also, still todday, you don't have to be exceedingly flamboyant to get your ass kicked, even in first world countries.

Now, you did say you only mean the extreme cases, and I'm not gonna pretend there aren't any I think go too far, but you made a pretty broad statement about "any... flamboyant twinks", which to me sounds like an awful lot of people.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 07:42 PM Reply

I'm bored, how are things going with everyone...

At 7/2/10 12:12 PM, klik28 wrote: your all fagots

....And?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 08:55 PM Reply

At 7/2/10 08:12 AM, HungarianSupermarket wrote: Lets try and keep this club to being open and friendly to people of all sexual orientation and preference.
So I should be tolerant of intolerance? I mean fuck, he started this shit, aint my job to end it.

That was actually a polite jab at Chronamut to shut the fuck up and stop trying to start arguments in here by being a douche.

At 7/2/10 12:12 PM, klik28 wrote: your all fagots

You're the minority in here babe.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 10:06 PM Reply

I'm gay. Sign me up for this club.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 10:24 PM Reply

your all fagots
....And?

Don't feed the troll guys.

I'm gay. Sign me up for this club.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 2nd, 2010 @ 11:45 PM Reply

At 7/2/10 10:24 PM, hhcash wrote:
your all fagots
....And?
Don't feed the troll guys.

Is there any irony about the fact that it was a fab user... *slurp mountain dew*


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 3rd, 2010 @ 06:42 PM Reply

At 7/2/10 11:45 PM, DrClay wrote:
Is there any irony about the fact that it was a fab user... *slurp mountain dew*

Yeah, all homophobes are gay, duh?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 3rd, 2010 @ 07:42 PM Reply

I think I'm going to break up this fabness with some neutrality.

Also, what is the connection between rainbows and sodomy? Please elaborate.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 3rd, 2010 @ 10:44 PM Reply

At 7/3/10 07:42 PM, UnicornRebel wrote: I think I'm going to break up this fabness with some neutrality.

Also, what is the connection between rainbows and sodomy? Please elaborate.

Sodomy isn't just an event in Ireland, the country with rainbows as their national icon, but a daily occurrence along with the wife-beating.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 4th, 2010 @ 10:51 AM Reply

Down with hate.
Let's not bitch about how some of us behave, we are all human and all have a right to behave in whichever way we want. I'd take a flamboyant guy over an overly macho one any day.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 4th, 2010 @ 03:13 PM Reply

I'm really confused right now. I like both boys and girls, but I don't believe in the idea of bisexuality. I just don't. How could I possible keep up a monogamous relationship if I keep having temptations for people of a gender different than my partner?


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At 7/4/10 03:13 PM, Scarface wrote: How could I possible keep up a monogamous relationship if I keep having temptations for people of a gender different than my partner?

Bisexuality doesn't work that way. Heterosexuals contantly have fantasies of people of the opposite gender other than their spouse, but still manage it. The same way straight men give up the hope of screwing porn models and settle for their pretty friend of a friend that they have a lot in common with and fell in love with, bisexuals in monogamous relationship just give up the hope of screwing people of one gender, and people of the second gender that isn't their partner. Which sex a particular individual bisexual ends up with depends entirely on their personal preference, and who they fall in love with/who falls in love with them. Some end up in a heterosexual monogamy, others in homosexual monogamy.

And how can you say you don't believe in bisexuality, when your argument is about bisexual monogamy? Bisexuality exists, you are living proof, if you are as you say. The question isn't wherther bisexuals exists, but can they work in a monogamy. If you are the type with strong libido and high curioisty about both genders, then thne you might have a problem, the same wa a straight, or gay man, or woman with a high libido has trouble with monogamy. I'm pretty sure there are loads of bisexuals in commited monogamous relationships. It's just hard to document, because soociety assumes man+woman=straight, man+man=gay woman+woman=hot... I mean lesbian, while a sneaky bisexuals could lurk in ANY of these combinations.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 4th, 2010 @ 05:26 PM Reply

I just always wonder, why is it that sometimes a guy will suddenly decide "I am gay" after they had relations with a woman. I mean, wouldn't the fact that you are kissing her and that you are not enjoying it or something kinda throw a clue to your hollow head?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 4th, 2010 @ 08:45 PM Reply

At 7/4/10 10:51 AM, Sensationalism wrote: I'd take a flamboyant guy over an overly macho one any day.

Too true really. However, I just can't help but just dislike overly flamboyant guys. There are flamboyant guys that I do like and do respect (e.g. I'd consider early days Rob Halford pretty flamboyant and I really respect him as a musician), however there's just guys who go too far personally like Gok Wan and Alan Carr. I think it's two parts personal preference and one part "so these are the most noticeable homosexuals...".


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At 7/4/10 04:09 PM, JohnnyWang wrote:
At 7/4/10 03:13 PM, Scarface wrote: How could I possible keep up a monogamous relationship if I keep having temptations for people of a gender different than my partner?
Bisexuality doesn't work that way. Heterosexuals contantly have fantasies of people of the opposite gender other than their spouse, but still manage it. The same way straight men give up the hope of screwing porn models and settle for their pretty friend of a friend that they have a lot in common with and fell in love with, bisexuals in monogamous relationship just give up the hope of screwing people of one gender, and people of the second gender that isn't their partner. Which sex a particular individual bisexual ends up with depends entirely on their personal preference, and who they fall in love with/who falls in love with them. Some end up in a heterosexual monogamy, others in homosexual monogamy.

I know, I know. I'm just worried I'll end up being unfaithful. I know that when I find someone that I love and care about, it shouldn't matter. I know that they will fulfill all of my emotional needs, and all of my sexual desires for THAT gender. I know that if I love them enough, it shouldn't even be an issue, but I'm just worried that I might cheat on them with someone of the other gender. I don't trust myself. I don't know if I'll be strong enough to resist my desires.


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At 7/5/10 12:01 AM, Scarface wrote: I know, I know. I'm just worried I'll end up being unfaithful. I know that when I find someone that I love and care about, it shouldn't matter. I know that they will fulfill all of my emotional needs, and all of my sexual desires for THAT gender. I know that if I love them enough, it shouldn't even be an issue, but I'm just worried that I might cheat on them with someone of the other gender. I don't trust myself. I don't know if I'll be strong enough to resist my desires.

Those issues you are having have nothing to do with your sexuality, but your trust in yourself. Like in the same way a lot of straight men shouldn't be in relationships because they fuck around.

But that's great! Because you are young, and who needs relationships when you are young anyway! Just go out there and have fun, and I'm sure if you meet the right person you will know that the only person in the world you want to have sex with is them.

At 7/4/10 05:26 PM, DrClay wrote: I just always wonder, why is it that sometimes a guy will suddenly decide "I am gay" after they had relations with a woman. I mean, wouldn't the fact that you are kissing her and that you are not enjoying it or something kinda throw a clue to your hollow head?

Wait, what? Can't tell if troll..

First off the obvious, nobody just "decides" to be gay. And many many gay men have had sex with, or are closeted and in a relationship with a woman.
I sure as hell dated my fair share of girls before I even slightly knew I was interested in men. Not every gay person is sure about their sexuality from birth.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 5th, 2010 @ 04:18 AM Reply

This video made me double gay.

RE: People turning gay at old age. Some people can just be in epic level deniall for years and years out of fear. I mean, look at Little Richard.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 5th, 2010 @ 11:32 AM Reply

At 7/5/10 03:11 AM, HungarianSupermarket wrote:
At 7/5/10 12:01 AM, Scarface wrote: I'm just worried that I might cheat on them with someone of the other gender. I don't trust myself. I don't know if I'll be strong enough to resist my desires.
But that's great! Because you are young, and who needs relationships when you are young anyway! Just go out there and have fun, and I'm sure if you meet the right person you will know that the only person in the world you want to have sex with is them.

Thanks. That really helped me a lot. Besides, I think I'm more gay then straight, anyway. I'm still not completely sure, though. That's probably the worst part. I'd be fine with being gay, if I knew I was.


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At 7/5/10 11:32 AM, Scarface wrote: Thanks. That really helped me a lot. Besides, I think I'm more gay then straight, anyway. I'm still not completely sure, though. That's probably the worst part. I'd be fine with being gay, if I knew I was.

Yeah, I know that feeling all too well. Its a lot easier when you don't try and put a label on your sexuality. Just go with the flow, and don't bother trying to think about whether you are gay, or bi, or straight, or whatever. If you know what you like then you don't really need to worry about putting a label on it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 5th, 2010 @ 04:31 PM Reply

At 7/5/10 03:11 AM, HungarianSupermarket wrote: Wait, what? Can't tell if troll..

Wait, how is that trolling? I wasn't even trying to troll.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 5th, 2010 @ 05:24 PM Reply

Same question as before, I assume?

To answer your question, sexual orientation is more than just sexual actions, there is also romantic attraction. Also, not all straight sex leads to procreation, and STD's don't work the way you outlined in the thread. Also, Lesbians are almost immune to STD's because of the mechanics of lesbian sex.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Jul. 5th, 2010 @ 05:43 PM Reply

At 7/5/10 12:36 PM, HungarianSupermarket wrote:
At 7/5/10 11:32 AM, Scarface wrote: Thanks. That really helped me a lot. Besides, I think I'm more gay then straight, anyway. I'm still not completely sure, though. That's probably the worst part. I'd be fine with being gay, if I knew I was.
Yeah, I know that feeling all too well. Its a lot easier when you don't try and put a label on your sexuality. Just go with the flow, and don't bother trying to think about whether you are gay, or bi, or straight, or whatever. If you know what you like then you don't really need to worry about putting a label on it.

I'm mainly worried about friends. All of my friends, even the ones who are open-minded towards homosexuality, think bisexuality is weird. None of them know yet, and I'm afraid to tell them. I know that if they're really my friends, they'll accept me, but I don't want to risk losing them.

Also, my parents. They know that I'm confused right know, and they support me, but I can see that even though they still love me, deep down they don't want me to be gay. I was raised Catholic, so I find it very hard to accept my own sexuality. I don't see anything wrong with it, but my surrounding peers make me feel like it's not normal, and that being gay will earn me a place in hell. I don't want to pretend to be something I'm not, and hide my sexuality, but I don't want to just drop my beliefs because I'm gay. I'm too afraid. I keep wondering if maybe all my Christian friends are right.


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At 7/5/10 08:33 PM, IlikeKorn123 wrote: do gay people get poo on there dicks?

No, they eat the poo poo.

That's why Uganda banned homosexuality.


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At 7/5/10 05:43 PM, Scarface wrote: I'm mainly worried about friends. All of my friends, even the ones who are open-minded towards homosexuality, think bisexuality is weird. None of them know yet, and I'm afraid to tell them. I know that if they're really my friends, they'll accept me, but I don't want to risk losing them.

Also, my parents. They know that I'm confused right know, and they support me, but I can see that even though they still love me, deep down they don't want me to be gay. I was raised Catholic, so I find it very hard to accept my own sexuality. I don't see anything wrong with it, but my surrounding peers make me feel like it's not normal, and that being gay will earn me a place in hell. I don't want to pretend to be something I'm not, and hide my sexuality, but I don't want to just drop my beliefs because I'm gay. I'm too afraid. I keep wondering if maybe all my Christian friends are right.

Now that's not really something I am one to give advice on. I get the feeling a lot too that even my gay friends judge me for being bi. A guy I dated for a bit but turned out to be a complete douche liked to throw in the odd vagina joke to his friends when I was around just to get some kind of reaction out of me or something. I guess its still just a big misconception that bisexual people are all whores who would fuck anything and can't be trusted.
That's why I usually just introduce myself as gay, or just don't bring up my sexuality. Not for any shame on my behalf; I accept and am proud of my sexuality, I just find it a lot easier that way and I don't really care if someone thinks I am gay even though strictly speaking, I am not.

As for my family, only my sister knows, and I don't care to tell my parents, unless I find myself in a long-term relationship with someone of the same sex. Otherwise what's the point of telling them if I'm dating a girl, or am single? It would only add more confusion to them.
I'm certainly not suggesting you hide your sexuality in any way or form, but that's just they way I deal with things and it doesn't bother me. Try and find someone you can trust to talk to about it, and perhaps just hold back on worrying about 'coming out' until you know for certain? Hope that helped at all.

At 7/5/10 04:31 PM, DrClay wrote:
At 7/5/10 03:11 AM, HungarianSupermarket wrote: Wait, what? Can't tell if troll..
Wait, how is that trolling? I wasn't even trying to troll.

Sorry, it just seemed like a bit of an odd question to be asking here, especially bringing up the idea of 'choice' in sexuality. But I hope I answered it well enough.


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