At 2/24/08 05:11 PM, sirtom93 wrote: So my question is. Im 15 and never had a girlfriend. Although I really like some girls for looks and personality at my school I dont think its humainly possible for me to build up the courage to ask one out. Is this a bad thing?
Not at all. It's not weird to be insecure about yourself. The best part about it is that it can be helped.
For starters, check out my big-ass post in This Topic
I never had the courage to ask girls out, but I learned to have faith in myself. And so can you, no matter how insecure you are.
Could you go a bit deeper in how you feel? Tell me a bit about what kind of insecurities you feel, because I think I know what's going on, but I need to have a bit more details to give you some advice that applies exactly to you.
Tell me what you think will happen if you just go up to a girl and talk to her. Tell me what you think will happen if you ask one out.
At 2/24/08 06:01 PM, elkrobber wrote:At 2/22/08 06:51 AM, Vincoid wrote:Took your advice vinci, and she said she would - I'm pretty sure that's mission accomplised.At 2/22/08 05:35 AM, elkrobber wrote:Yeah, pretty much :PAt 2/22/08 03:43 AM, Vincoid wrote:Pun intended, right?At 2/21/08 05:32 PM, elkrobber wrote:Just ask. Be honest with her. Don't try to beat around the bush :P
I'll find out soon enough ;D
Nice one ;)
You know, there is no better way to see if my advice works than to actually try it. Keep it up man ;)
At 2/24/08 08:17 PM, Black-Lightning wrote: Where's vincoid? You need to have no life and spend more time with us in this crew buddy.
I spend quite some time here actually, it's just that I'm asleep when you're all on :P
At 2/24/08 11:39 PM, Black-Lightning wrote: So I was talking to the kid that hit ember with a skateboard. He said it never happened. I'm kinda confused on what to believe. I want to believe Ember, but she's lied to me a lot recently... shit is getting worse as 08 goes on.
Hold on a sec... didn't you guys break up? Weren't you playing bass? Didn't I, like ten million times, advice you to move on?
It doesn't matter what happened between them. You have to focus on yourself, on your own life. And hey, 08 ain't bad man... sure, some nasty shit happened to you, but you know what? Now you know. Now that you have experienced this, you can learn from it and stop yourself from ever getting in a situation like that.
That's why I'm here. Not to give you one line to say and move on to the next guy, but to help you guys become better with women in the rest of your life. That's why I would like to see all of you just going out there and try all the advice, so when you come back, you can discuss it and learn from it.
Wouldn't it be better if you could understand everything about how attraction and women work, instead of needing to ask for advice every two days?
At 2/25/08 01:02 AM, DarkLotusJuggalo wrote:At 2/23/08 08:28 AM, Vincoid wrote:Just curious since I hadn't seen you around here when I was an active member here. Its all good though, you've got the right idea for the most part with things, TigerDemon still coming around?At 2/22/08 03:52 PM, DarkLotusJuggalo wrote: I'm a vet here and while I haven't posted in some time, who are you Vincoid?I'm Vincoid. And I try to make the world a better place for guys who aren't as good with girls as I am.
I kind of slipped in about two weeks ago... didn't know it existed before that... too bad it's not that well known...
And about TigerDemon, I saw that he started this crew, but I haven't seen him post, I heard that he's been inactive for a couple of months or so...