At 12/4/08 03:36 PM, Knorpfdog wrote:
Just thought this was funny, I'm interested in seeing if you agree with this kid, Vincoid ;).
I, um... like... um... let's say...um, like...
Yeah, that's a future player right there. All the stuff he's saying is pretty basic, so there is a big chance you'll never hear from him again, since it's not that easy to get past all the basic stuff and learn the advanced level by yourself.
One thing I agree on is what he said about moving on the next one when shit gets messed up, though his advice on how many girls you should date sucks ass. Seriously, don't date too many girls because then you've got to reschedule dates? That's called bad planning, not a girl problem.
And yeah, his views on what dates are sucks.
Still, pretty impressive that this is coming from a 9 year old. Hope he continues finding wisdom and eventually learning some real stuff about women and dating.
At 12/4/08 04:09 PM, tatsumaru7 wrote:
Waitt!!! hold up a second! making eye contact huh, and ignoring? never heard of that? so what your saying is walking up to her looking her direct in the eyes and walking away? thats a but odd but il try it :D....no of course I wont, what do you mean by me actively ignoring her? she realy doesnt make eye contact with me.
You don't walk up to her and then walk away :P
Let's say you're just chilling somewhere and she's sitting in the same room but at a distance. Then you make eye contact with her, and once you have that, you keep it untill she looks away. The reason you do this is to establish interest. Because you keep looking, you give off a strong vibe that'll make her interested.
Now that she's interested in you, you stop looking. This'll confuse her because she thinks you're interested in her, and normally guys keep looking at her, but you don't. This thinking about you is what'll drive her mad. It'll create attraction for you, it'll make her want to find out what you are about.
This differs from what most guys do, namely plain ignoring. Problem is, if there's no interest on her part, there is no reason for her to question your ignorance. That's why it's called actively ignoring.
And once you've done that, or maybe repeated it once or twice, you can walk up to her and start a conversation without her causing problems, after all, she's interested in you and wants to figure you out.
At 12/4/08 05:51 PM, Some-Stupid-Idiot wrote:
I really like her and I want to be able to talk to her, I'm not asking for advice but something more of a mental push to get me to do it.
Hi, how are you doing?
Seems like a pretty good conversation starter, don't you think so?
The thing is, she's just a girl. She's not some godess, she's not the only girl on earth, she's not the only girl you'll ever meet, and most important, she's not you or your life. Guys get too worked up when they like a girl (like a girl, even though they have no clue what she's about, ridiculous), so they screw things up because they start thinking too much.
That's the cure I advice for pretty much all parts of life. Just chill out and stop caring so much, she's just a girl.
Besides that, if you want things to work out with her, what's stopping you? Will you ever get to know her if you don't talk to her? I don't think so.
Will you ever be able to truly like her if you don't now what she's about? Again, I don't think so.
Therefore: "Hi, how are you?"
The most simple, plain and effective way to start a conversation with anyone. Why? Because it's casual, so there isn't any threat, and it causes people to talk about themselves, which all people love to do.
What do you think, is that the push you were talking about? Or should I write you some more to convince you that nothing will happen unless you make it happen?
At 12/5/08 02:29 AM, Bruute wrote:
Vincoid is the fuckin NG Love guru! :D
What's love got to do, got to do with it? :P
I appreciate all of your advice you have good wisdom and knowledge my friend.
You're welcome ;)