At 9/7/04 05:06 PM, Silent_Jay wrote:
i mean hey i have a gay friend and he sometimes hits on me :( but he knows im straight and that we will never be together
I know this guy that had a gay friend who he thought was understanding and said never hit on him. He too thought we was cool about it. Then one night they were drunk and in the same room, the gay guy came over to his bed and put his arm around him. Well he freaked, got out of bed and got a cab to his nearest friend's place. Let that be a lesson to all of you. You can never completely trust a gay guy not to hit on you because they are like any guy, except they are gay. That means even though you say no and they pretend to understand, they still have it in the back of their mind that they will turn you gay. I mean really, it's like being friends with a woman. You always have it in the back of your mind that maybe you will someday fuck her, even if you try hard to put it out of your mind. So you can't do things like sleep in the same room as them, especially when you're drunk. If you don't mind taking the chance of being fondled by a gay guy, then that's your perogative, but the best thing is to just watch your back and try not to be alone with them. I'm not even afraid to sleep in the same bed with a straight guy. Now a gay guy I'd be worried about sleeping in the same room with. Not because I'm homophobic, but because I don't trust him anymore than I'd trust myself drunk and alone in a room with a hot girl "friend". I might find myself trying to get with her as well. Guys get horny and they want sex, I just don't want to be the closest piece of ass to them. Yes I know I can say no, but that scenario my friend described was too disturbing for me to ever imagine. *shudders
Being verbally hit on is one thing, being fondled or having him shove his gun into my hip in the bed is NOT what I think I could handle.