Sharing a bed?

[AlphaCentauri]

Does anyone else hate it? There is nothing worse. I have enough trouble sleeping myself I don't want to worry about bothering someone else.

I move a lot in my sleep and the I think I am keeping the other person awake and that they are angry at me for it, and that stresses me out and i can't sleep. So I end up motionless, wide awake and hating everything.

Not to mention in the morning I look and smell like shit. I don't want anyone to see me like that.

And then of course there is snoring. Apparently I snore sometimes so I don't want to fall asleep before the other person because I'll keep them awake but then sometimes they start snoring.

Hell, I don't even like sleeping in the same room with people, I like to run a fan at night and I know a lot of people are bothered by that. If its on I worry that I'm keeping someone awake and if its off I have trouble sleeping myself.

Sleeping is very sacred thing to me and the addition of anyone just complicates it. maybe I've just never found a person I want to "snuggle up" with but I don't think I ever will.

So if any of you have ever dreamed of crawling into bed and sharing a pillow and blanket with me, then let me crush that dream right now cause its not going to happen.

[InvasiveInsomniac]

Cool story bro.

[STEM]

It's difficult in college because all the dorm beds are twin-size. It's nice for that first half an hour of cuddling, but actual sleeping in a bed that size for 2+ people starts to really suck

[MiroDK]

Sharing bed with people who aren't your girlfriend or whatever is pretty shitty. I remember sharing a bed with 2 of my friends on the beach because the house we stayed in got filled with water and 2 of our mattresses got wet. :( I had to sleep on the edge without moving. Sucks a lot.

So if any of you have ever dreamed of crawling into bed and sharing a pillow and blanket with me, then let me crush that dream right now cause its not going to happen.

Well, that just crushed all my dreams. =(

[Peregrinus-Ferrum]

At 8/3/11 11:35 PM, AlphaCentauri wrote: Does anyone else hate it? There is nothing worse. I have enough trouble sleeping myself I don't want to worry about bothering someone else.

I'm the opposite, it's hard for me to sleep alone I like it when I can hold someone tight. It makes me feel safer. I just wish every night I could snuggle with my special someone.

[dj9547]

At 8/3/11 11:37 PM, STEM wrote: It's difficult in college because all the dorm beds are twin-size. It's nice for that first half an hour of cuddling, but actual sleeping in a bed that size for 2+ people starts to really suck

So right you are. It's practically impossible.

[yellowcard41]

This is great and you are great.
Well, I have a hard time sleeping with my girlfriend. To be blunt, I hate it. She loves to cuddle and I like to...not do that haha. So after months of dating she gets used to me watching t.v. or playing video games. But when it comes to sharing a bed with my sister, holy shit I do not know what to do. Also I like to go and sit on the toilet for hours. Then I feel if I come back I will be judged for taking the longest shit in the world. So I stay out in the living room then return to my bed as quiet as possible.

longest time spent on the crapper, 5 hours and I had my gameboy and several shampoo bottles to read. That was essentially a school day for me, SHIT.....haha

[InsertFunnyUserName]

It depends on the size of the bed. Sharing a small bed with someone is just uncomfortable. And not as in awkward, but as in physically uncomfortable. I don't mind sharing beds with people as long as they're not too sensitive to noise, so I don't have to be paranoid, and as long as there's enough room. I've shared quite a few beds with friends and it hasn't bothered me.

[AlphaCentauri]

At 8/3/11 11:36 PM, logic wrote: I don't, I share a bed with my wife.

Not because It's socially acceptable, because I'm too cheap to buy another bed.

Whenever I'm married, I'm gonna piss my wife off just so I have an excuse to sleep on the sofa.

At 8/3/11 11:37 PM, STEM wrote: It's difficult in college because all the dorm beds are twin-size. It's nice for that first half an hour of cuddling, but actual sleeping in a bed that size for 2+ people starts to really suck

Easily could be my problem. Still though, maybe I just need a king sized tempurpedic.

At 8/3/11 11:38 PM, MiroDK wrote: Sharing bed with people who aren't your girlfriend or whatever is pretty shitty. I remember sharing a bed with 2 of my friends on the beach because the house we stayed in got filled with water and 2 of our mattresses got wet. :( I had to sleep on the edge without moving. Sucks a lot.

yep dude, been there, I bet you only got a little slither or a blanket too didn't you?

So if any of you have ever dreamed of crawling into bed and sharing a pillow and blanket with me, then let me crush that dream right now cause its not going to happen.

Well, that just crushed all my dreams. =(

Sorry man, maybe if you get a king sized tempurpedic, maybe...

At 8/3/11 11:40 PM, Schizo-Sephy wrote:

At 8/3/11 11:35 PM, AlphaCentauri wrote: Does anyone else hate it? There is nothing worse. I have enough trouble sleeping myself I don't want to worry about bothering someone else.

I'm the opposite, it's hard for me to sleep alone I like it when I can hold someone tight. It makes me feel safer. I just wish every night I could snuggle with my special someone.

This is where I would get a body pillow.

At 8/3/11 11:36 PM, InvasiveInsomniac wrote: Cool story bro.

ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?

[Gerbil]

I remember having to share a bed with my brother when I was like 10. The little bugger seemed like it was a disorder for him to cuddle in the most uncomfortable ways. It got to me.

To this day I can't sleep in the same bed with my girlfriend, maybe an afternoon nap, but I cant stand being touched when I'm trying to sleep, even in the slightest.

[13oobs]

At 8/3/11 11:37 PM, STEM wrote: It's difficult in college because all the dorm beds are twin-size. It's nice for that first half an hour of cuddling, but actual sleeping in a bed that size for 2+ people starts to really suck

That's why you don't get in relationships rather be a swinger.