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Sounds like you couldn't find the balance. I know a lot of people that had trouble finding that balance, like half of my guildies in WoW. I'm not a track runner but I still go out and play football with my friends here and there. I spend time with my girlfriend whenever we both have free time, even if that means that we have to do it online (we both play games together). The most difficult part of being a gamer is finding the balance between gaming and reality. It's hard to be found, but it can be there. It's just like you said, you need to find the community. My community is the friends that I hang out with and have lan parties with, the ones that I talk to on a daily basis. For many people, that balance seems impossible to find. I know that if I really had to, I'd give up gaming because it's only an activity I have to have fun and pass time. It's a great way to relax and enjoy the time you want to spend alone, and it's also a great way to spend some time with friends that had to move across the nation because of their job or for school. Sorry that you were unable to find that delicate balance, but at least you learned something from it.