At 7/9/14 09:25 PM, Lorkas wrote:
I support the LGBTQ movement as well, it's their choice who or what they want to be.
As it is my choice whether or not I would date them.
Come at me, can't argue with that logic.
They still managed to do it though. Also, I love how you never changed your sig pic since the redesign :3
At 7/9/14 09:14 PM, Greggg586 wrote:
Actually your response shows your lack of understanding of what I was trying to say. not trying to offend. I was refering to the fact that transgender people are trying to be something they are not, no matter how you look at it, that is what it is. I was simply saying that they will never be truly the gender they so much try to be, even with all the operations. sorry if it came off harsh
Gender is mostly a social construct around sex. If there are biological factors in our behavior, even these are amplified by how we view genders. Some sociological studies have observed that little girls tend to pitch their voice higher and boys lower their voice even if there is no distinction between male and female vocal chords at younger age. Other studies have also observed that parents will often reward their kids for doing things associated with their gender and punish the behaviors that aren't typical of the gender. It was especially true when it was male parents in their relationship with male kids.
The fact is, that being a men or a women in terms of gender is not a given that comes with the biological sex.
So no, biological men who decide to be become female, with or without the sex change won't become biological females, but they can pretty much decide to act a gender, since the gender is not coming in a package deal with biological sex.
Not that there is one true way to be a man or a woman anyway.
once again you misconstrued the position of my statement. I know what real love is, and despite the fact that you try to portray me to look like some ignorant meat head. allow me to give you a quick tip about what true love is which is probably not thought of as true but is. And that is: Love has nothing to do with FEELINGS. They are only the result of the choice you made to love. I MADE the choice to fall in love only with actual real women. I made this choice because they have something that a transgender doesn't, more then what's between there legs. I was raised by only my mother and growing up I witnessed what a strong real woman looks like and how to respect and honor all women. so please don't attack me with ignorant statements like that.
Not that I'm taking side for or against you here, but it is true that you can chose to not date transgender or transsexual individuals. So I disagree with the idea that you'd be some kind of dick for not wanting to date individuals from these groups, since it's your choice and it doesn't reflect anything about how you'd respect individuals from these groups. Just like I'm mostly attracted to white girls, doesn't mean I do not respect girls from other ethnic groups, they are just not my type.
there are at least 7 billion people in the world, you couldn't find 1 thats an actual boy or a girl? :/ o well
Oh, boohoohoo, get over yourself.
I'm just saying :)
That was still kind of an harsh statement. Just because you aren't attracted to these individuals, doesn't mean that you should force your views upon others. If it doesn't matter to someone else, why treat them like shit?