Let's say a person of the opposite sex (or same sex if you're a homosexual) who is fairly attractive, comes up to you and asks for sex. The person isn't a loli or anything and doesn't have any diseases.

Would you agree to this?

Honestly I wouldn't, but everyone I asked says they would do it.

Why wouldn't I do it? Because I think sex isn't something you do with random people, it's something you do with someone you love and are close with.

Opinions on this?

I'd take the offer. It's just sex.

At 1/17/09 08:25 PM, TacoFreak wrote:
Would you agree to this?

Assuming I'm not dating anyone, maybe. Depends how the mood is and if I feel like having sex. If I'm watching a video/DVD/blu-ray with an attractive girl and we're creeped up to one another and then kissing follows and she suggest sleeping together, I would not be able to withstand it. But if she walks up to me out of nowhere and tells me to do her, I would refuse, perhaps.

Opinions on this?

I think sex is something you can do with everyone you want. There's really no meaning in it if you don't want it to be there. Of course, both partners must agree on this matter.

Of course , we discussed this already didnt we .....

No. It takes me a really long time to get physically comfortable with someone and I would only want to share that kind of intimacy with someone I'm in love with.

I have no problem with people who have casual sex if they use protection. It's their business and I don't think it's morally wrong.

I mean, there's not much difference between that and having a One-Night-Stand, in which you talk/drink with someone for a couple hours, and then go have sex with that person.

Personally, every time I've had a one-night fling with a girl, I've woken up the next morning, unfulfilled and feeling like a dirt-ball.

So I agree - I would (probably) not have sex with a random girl if she just walked up to me and asked for...

...unless she was spectacularly beautiful. :D

Why not? I mean I go out and pay and have the chance of a disease this is so much better. Free+sex-disease= DAMMMNN RIGGHHTT!!!

Wait, not a loli, I don't even want to go through with it anymore. It's not worth it unless every time is tight enough to cut the circulation off in your dick.

A week ago, I would've done it, no doubt. But, things changed, and Im devoted to one person, so I wouldnt, not now, at least.

Unless I can get her down for a threesome...

Sex isn't a big deal, so don't act like it is.

At 1/17/09 08:31 PM, shadowchaotailsevil3 wrote: I'd rather do it with someone I love, not a hooker.

Let's say then the person is someone you know, but you aren't dating and such. Would you decline?

I agree with you, Taco. Its not something to be done at random. You can masturbate to pron and get the same result as random sex.

With someone you love, on the other hand, its much, much more satisfying.

I'd do it if that person isn't insane!!!

I wouldn't, I fucked it out of my system 3 years ago.

At 1/17/09 08:35 PM, Crusher117 wrote: A week ago, I would've done it, no doubt. But, things changed, and Im devoted to one person, so I wouldnt, not now, at least.

Unless I can get her down for a threesome...

Nice.

man, u putting the pussy on a pedestal.
its only sex
if it was me, id beat that shit up and tell the bitch 2 get out.
for sure use a condom tho

Would I ever seen her again?

Depends....

At 1/17/09 08:37 PM, shadowchaotailsevil3 wrote:

Better details, how you 2 have got along in the past, are you still friends? Details, details, details. If it all boiled down to perfection and shit then maybe yes, anything else would be a no.

Like a friend you knew for a year or 2, you occasionally meet up with her/him along with other people. You sometimes talk on msn or whatever. You know, your average friend.

Just how desperate am I?

Maybe it's been not to answer.

Hell yea. No strings attached sex is pretty much win. When I was y'all's age I probably would've said no for whatever reason. But as I've grown older, I've realized that the inhibitions I used to have were, in fact, quite childish. Sexual attraction's all you need for something as basic as a one night stand.

It's your relationships that you need to choose wisely. Gettin' involved with some chick just 'cause you boned once doesn't usually work so well. There's gotta be some personal friction to keep the flame goin'.

maybe your just a good guy
:)
(if that even exist)

At 1/17/09 08:57 PM, diminitive wrote: We share the same way of thinking. It really is not something that should be done with just random people. Sex is special, and you should save it for the ones you love. I don't know why you would do otherwise.

Sex itself IS NOT special. It's LOVE that's special. Lust is an entirely separate end of the spectrum. People throw their bodies around all over the place, people toss around I-love-you's like it's going out of style, but true love is something people just don't fuck around with.

I used to agree with you, btw.

At 1/17/09 09:02 PM, shadowchaotailsevil3 wrote:

At 1/17/09 09:01 PM, BREE7ASTIC wrote: maybe your just a good guy

)

(if that even exist)

Yeah I guess so, it all just depends on who you are and your own personal opinions.

Allright so its settled then

At 1/17/09 08:58 PM, Evark wrote: Hell yea. No strings attached sex is pretty much win. When I was y'all's age I probably would've said no for whatever reason. But as I've grown older, I've realized that the inhibitions I used to have were, in fact, quite childish. Sexual attraction's all you need for something as basic as a one night stand.

It's your relationships that you need to choose wisely. Gettin' involved with some chick just 'cause you boned once doesn't usually work so well. There's gotta be some personal friction to keep the flame goin'.

You said exactly what I was going to say, almost word for word.

When I was in my young teens I would have said no as well, now I'm a 23 year old man and I have a much different outlook. The majority of you guys will change too.

With that said, I've done it before, so yes, I would do it again. Obviously it didn't happen like that, not many girls will just stroll up and say "Wanna fuck me?" But it's happened within the first night of meeting a person.

Also, that doesn't mean I would just go for it with anybody there is, attractive or not. I've messed around with a girl and things would heat up, and I would deny having sex because I just wasn't feeling it. Either because I didn't trust where their vagina has been, or I was afraid the girl could be a stage 5 clinger.

But for the most part, fuck away.

Someday you guys will feel the same way as Evark and Dirty. You'll think back to the days where you thought sex was some huge step in the relationship and laugh.

If I didn't have a girlfriend I'd still be a bit apprehensive about free sex, since when you don't know the person it's much more difficult to tell what turns them on and off.

I'd probably save myself a lot of hassle and just jerk off.

to tranny surprise porn.

Yes, with condoms.

Fucking isn't meant to be personal, with the person love love, or special at all really. It's two purposes are to make babies and to feel good. Since I'm not doing the former, feeling good is good for me, literally.

I've only slept with a girl the first night I met her once (though I had the chance a couple of other times when I was a bit younger, and thought sex was much more than it is, and turned them down). I'm not sure if it was luck or whether there was simply a spark between us, but I'm still with that girl a year and a half later, and I still feel that initial attraction the same as I did the day we met.

Certainly if I were single and there was enough of an attraction I would not turn the chance down. As a few others have said sex is not a relationship, nor does it have anything to do with love. It is something you do with someone you love, but not something that means you ARE in love! You're only young once, and chances like that will be few and far between as the years take their toll, get out there and make the most of it!