Very nice work . . .
It was a beautifully done movie, really. I thank you for making and sharing it.
In response to your author's note, however, I have arguments. You see, I am one of those "bigger picture" type of people. I look at things or events in relation to everything else, not just as singular incidents.
I think that if someone grows into the type of person who is capable of putting their parent in a home, it is a direct result of the influence of that parent. Elderly people are not innocent just because they're old. Some of them have done horrible things in their lives, and some of their children have suffered tremendously from it. So, sometimes if an elderly person is ignored by their family in the end of their life, it is because they are reaping what they sow, so to speak.
I'm not saying that two wrongs make a right. I do believe in the concept of "being the bigger person." But, I understand completely the compulsion to cut yourself off from your immediate family in certain cases.
Just my two cents.