Part 2
We might want to put God into a box and say he is always only loving. But, that isn't an accurate portrayal of who God is. We don't have the ability to change him. So, we need to be honest about his true Character. He is holy. That means sometimes he is loving, and sometimes he inflicts punishment.
He disciplines us now in order to protect us from an eternity separated from him. And, we must know that we are choosing to spend eternity away from him by embracing a life of sin. That is our choice, not some outcome caused by an unloving God.
5. You've raised a couple issues in the Old Testament.
Adam, Eve, their children, and who Cain and Able married... Hebrew literature is not written as a detailed historic accounting of all details. Generations of children are left out because they aren't central to the story. Even Genealogies are listed skipping generations. Remember too, that at this point in history people lived hundreds of years. Genesis doesn't list all of Adam and Eve's children. Neither does Genesis tell us how long Cain and Able lived before their fight ensued. Adam and Eve obviously had other children who had children, who had children, and so on. Some of those children became small groups of people scattered throughout the region.
Let me give an example. We go every year to my wife's grandma's birthday party. In her first 50 years of life, her family has resulted in over 50 people. Multiply that out exponentially for a woman and her children over the course of several hundred years. It is more than feasible to see how Cain could find a wife among a small group of people (relatives) who had relocated to a surrounding area.
You have to understand that Jewish literature is written to make a point, not lay out what we would call a detailed history. The point being made in Genesis is that God created us to be in relationship with each other and him, and that sin immediately distorted how those relationships function. From Adam and Eve's children, to Noah's community, sin destroyed the Holy Character God put in man. Man's selfishness, if left unchecked, ends in evil behavior.
6. The issue of Sodom and Gomorrah and Lot offering his own family to be raped.
The previous explanation is appropriate here. The story of Sodom is intended to show just how wrecked God's creation had become. Even Lot's idea to save these Angels, is distorted with sin. The scripture isn't saying Lot was right. It is showing just how bad mankind get's when left to their own sin. In fact, Lot is being criticized for going to Sodom.
7. the issue of warfare and "the sword".
While we dislike any form of war, the instructions given to Israel concerning the sword are to be understood as a necessary evil to rid the land of the effects of sin. It isn't perfect, or beautiful. However, it is likened to the idea of fighting Hitler. We hate the idea of killing in war, but if we hadn't done so, Hitler would have continued to inflict his evil across the globe. You are reading about a similar period in history when Israel was overthrowing heathen nations.
You also have to keep in mind that this is not the end of God's game plan. When you come into the fulfillment of his plan as explained in the new Testament, there is the promise that war and death will end.
8. different things recorded about what Jesus said while on the cross.
This is an easy one. Different people describing the same scene are going to highlight different statements or activities. Just because you mention one thing a person says, and someone else mentions another thing they said, doesn't mean either of you are wrong. You have just highlighted a different part of what happened. Remember, they aren't trying to tell us everything that happened. They are trying to show us something specific about what happened. They are showing us the details of the event that help us understand that particular point.
9. written 150 years after Christ's death....
The original pieces of paper the apostles wrote on are all destroyed. What we have are copies. This is true of all ancient literature. From those copies, we can compile all of the writings contained in the New Testament with the LATEST pieces of paper dating within 150 years of the death of Christ. That doesn't mean they were written that late. It means the copy of paper is that old. Moreover, the oldest pieces are copies made at 150 years out. Most were copied at a much earlier date. And, NONE of these copies were made AFTER the originals would have worn out. That means the copies could have been easily verified as accurate to the original. In fact, the accuracy of these teachings was very important to the first century church. Moreover, the apostles and/or the disciples they trained were alive at the time these copies were made. So, the idea that they are somehow unreliable or mythology, does not line up with the reality of how these documents came into existence.
In fact, formalized statements by the early Christians about the death, burial, and resurrection of Christ are dated within 18 months of his death. By "formalized", I mean they had been repeated enough to gain a standardized way of saying it. For instance, If I said, "humpty dumpy sat on a wall", you would easily be able to recite from memory the ending to that quote. That is a "formalized" statement or "creed". Paul's statement about the resurrection of Christ is one such "creed". (Don't forget Paul was a hostile eyewitness to Jesus AFTER the resurrection.) So, from the very beginning days following Christ's death, his resurrection was being proclaimed as a true, historic event.
10. Other ancient virgin stories involving deities.
Stories of god's having sexual relationships with virgins resulting in the miraculous birth of superhuman heroes is common in mythology of the day. There were many such stories. One of the things that separates Jesus birth account from these other stories is the NON SEXUAL nature of the relationship. When the apostles tell Jesus' birth story, they are making sure they clearly define that it was the "Power of the most high" that "overshadowed" Mary. This was not the typical Near East myth. Such stories were also told of such people as Alexander the Great.
While I will need to do some research into the particular story you've highlighted, it is important to note why the apostles highlighted what they highlighted. They are in essence saying, "this is not the same old thing you've heard about. God has done something new here. This isn't about sex with god's. This is about God restarting the creation through Christ. Jesus isn't infected with Adam's seed, and therefore his sin. And Mary is still a real virgin, not just a previous virgin impregnated by a Greek god."
Don't forget that Mary was alive when these writings were first circulated among the church. She would have rejected them had they been out of line with the facts. She did not. In fact, Mary's son by Joseph- James- was the leader in the church at Jerusalem and held up these teachings. He also suffered for his stand to this being true. (see comment below on the significance of this)
11. Similar resurrection story in the Egyptian story.
I am not familiar with this story and will need to do some research to make sure what the real facts are in this. However, you need to be aware that the authors of the New Testament books were not telling stories about things they "heard", but things they saw. They even died for their insistence on the truth of their statements. While many people will die for what they believe to be true, these men died for what they KNEW to be true or false. That gives a significant level of credibility to their testimony.
While this doesn't address directly the story you've listed, and I will do some research to find out the accurate details of this story, the idea that the story of Christ's resurrection is a repeat of an earlier myth, or a much later development of a myth, simply does not match up to the historical evidence of how the New Testament writings came into existence.