Comments are weird for me, since before posting to NG i really didnt get any. So throughout my art journey i really just focused on internal goals and what i wanted to see from my art, not worrying about external validation or attention. Actually when i really started to get into art, it was because i wasnt getting validation or attention IRL so id just pop open a sketch book and start doodling.
Art is an escape for me and its like an island, and getting comments is like having tourists. Its great to have them and they can really brighten your day, but that island is gunna exist regardless of what people say or do while they're visiting. Its why when people start complaining loudly that they aren't getting attention and constantly comparing themselves to other people rubs me the wrong way. I know they cant help themselves if what motivates them is that external force but i think a balance is required for an artist to be successful.
Not that i would know lol, I def still feel stuck on my island alot of the time, and however much i like that island its certainly lonely out here sometimes... Im thinking of making my own art thread as a kind of "bridge" to my island but i have alot of confidence hang-ups that make me FEEL like im inconveniencing people just by asking for even a smidgen of attention, so when people comment on my art i get a little uncomfortable, but in a good way.