Who are these people trying to kid ?
Picture this : You are in a car and yhere's a guy with a bomb in the back seat threatening to blow up the car if anyone gets out. Guess what : if you make the wrong choice and make your wife angry (over some silly marital dispute or something), she just completely ignores the guy and his death threat, punches you, and then leaves the car and the loony in the back blows everyone up. Come on, I don't believe anyone is that stupid. Your wife must be more suicidal than the loony.