Certain games have the ability to draw out our best and highlight our weaknesses. Sometimes we learn things about ourselves that we might not have realized or have been able to put into words.
Age of Empires has taught me that I'm not a wartime consigliere. I can build a base up quick and have my economy going. I can scout and secure extra resources. I can set up a plan, build an army, and efficiently upgrade just what I need. Once the shit hits the fan I just can't roll with the punches.
I can't control my armies efficiently, I have poor instinct for when to attack and where. I send my men into battles they can't win. Often my efficient early game means I can weather late-game setbacks, but they shouldn't happen if I was efficiently running a war.
I kind of have the same issues with work and life outside games. I try to account for everything before trouble begins, but if the trouble falls outside my expectationd I have trouble changing my plans to deal with it.
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