That's not going to be 100% possible to get it to sound exactly the same, each pair of Headphones or Earbuds make tracks sound slightly different because of the material used to make the Headphones/Buds & how they are designed to listen to stuff. But with some careful Mastering it can at least sound 'Decent' for both.
I'd say just to test it out, lower the volume of your kick slightly, widen it up until it sounds nearly as wide as your pads further with your Stereo Separation tools and cut off any Freq's below 20hz to start with and then see if it sounds better. It it does, reintroduce a little bit more bass (lower the cutoff to 17hz, then 15/13 etc. & raise the volume by around 0.3 DB each time) until you get exactly what you are looking for.
Hope this helps.