don't you know girls hate it when us guys confess to being nice and shit?! Like Malo said, you guys have to try some new things, like actually talking to girls (hey, its sounds crazy but it works!!!) If not that, try to get a party together, if you have alcohol, they will come. now your all gonna say "well who's gonna help me out?" get friends togetther, make new friends. Everything you do can't be a mistake.