At 12/13/11 03:53 PM, EmmaVolt wrote:
None of this is the fault of the child, and I still believe there is a possibility for recovery rather than solving a temporary problem through permanent means.
of course it's not the fault of the child, but nonetheless the problems caused outweigh the benefit of the life created. If you suffer a traumatic experience, it stays with you for life- it affects your every thought, decision, movement etc. for example, I spilled a pot of boiling water over myself by accident age 4- 15 years ago, and I still get flashbacks to that when cooking. I nearly drowned age 6 and I still don't like going near the sea at high tide.
This is why I wanted to define when "potential" life becomes life. Life itself begins at conception. But, at what point does this cell become human, and subsequently a person? Innocence prevents me from believing it is right to hold a child responsible for the actions and results.
you see, I don't think life begins at conception, as I feel that life really only begins when the foetus's heart gets to the point when it could conceivably beat.
Well, we never specified that the pregnancy was dangerous and to what extent. it seems very stupid to me that you would kill a life due to temporary emotion, predictions, and/or selfishness.
in the places where contraception and/or abortion are illegal, deaths during childbirth are higher than places where they are legal. you're basically saying that you'd rather the baby survives and the mother dies when nobody has formed a real emotional bond with an aborted foetus- it's a "life" where the only love is from the parents. in other words, it would upset more people for the mother to die in childbirth than for a foetus to be aborted.
even if you believe what you believe, to say that abortion should be illegal because it clashes with your own beliefs is as selfish as abortion as a form of contraception.
yeah that's right- shades of grey. Black and White work to a point, but even the simplest questions have more than one answer. there is good and there is evil, but not only can this be subjective- the islamic suicide bombers genuinely believe that what they are doing is for the good of the world, Hitler believed that what he was doing was the right thing- but there are some times when whatever you do it's going to be bad for someone.