At 10/14/14 06:56 PM, Organguy41 wrote:
There was a child in my condominium that got 3 days O.S.S. for defending himself when another kid started swinging at him. That's just one of the examples of how zero tolerance is slowly destroying our schools.
Swinging at somebody in school, even in self-defense is grounds for suspension, for good reason. Once a fight starts between two students, whether it's a slap fight or something you see in the NHL, everything within the school grinds to a halt, mostly because the students either just gawk and do nothing, simply contribute to the fight even when they don't throw any haymakers, or potentially even a lockdown.
Because of this, fighting is a huge no-no in schools and they don't want to put up with it because of the potential ramifications both on the inside and outside. I don't know if it varies from school and state, but a 3 day O.S.S is standard punishment for fighting on school grounds.
You obviously do not live in a poor community. There aren't enough jobs to go around in many impoverished communities so how can someone survive when Food Stamps do not go far enough(or get cut in some states)?
No matter where you live, stealing is never justified because most likely, they need it just as much as you do. The problem is with stealing to feed your family is where do you draw the line? If you do such a thing, you are essentially opening a Pandora's box of trouble and everyone loses, from the store to thief to the innocent people who live there who make an honest living.
Also, in a lot of places, stealing from someone may cost you your life. These are the kind of folks who aren't keen on calling 911, they would rather fire hot lead into a criminal in their own house.
And that is partially why gang crime has exploded here since the gov't shutdown. Most of these kids come from broken homes that do not receive enough in food stamps and other assistance so they have to provide for themselves. Again, not enough jobs to go around.
This is unfortunately true, as broken homes and poverty is very common in inner cities, and most of the schools there are legitimately awful. That still does not justify stealing though, especially when there are many places that offer free food (as in food drives and even homeless shelters) where available. Not to mention that many of those parents work 2 or even 3 jobs in order to feed their families and keep the electric on, what does that say to them when people are stealing or ripping off people?
Most of these people are unaware they are committing fraud. Much of the time, it's a simple mistake of floating one too many checks. I've been in the workforce for about 20 years and my paychecks and other personal checks deposited have taken longer and longer to clear the bank over the years.
The vast majority of the time, it's the person's fault for not watching the budget tight enough and not being able to write checks that they can't cash. This is one of the reasons for the Great Recession of '08 was when people began to buy everything through credit thinking that they can pay it all off like a layaway plan and that ended up backfiring in their face when they couldn't pay their mounting debt. How long the banks clear the check is irrelevant.
There are a lot of times that fraud is simply unintentional for what you just mentioned, but that still doesn't give them the excuse for not watching their budget, something that everyone needs to do.
and again, there are places where there just aren't enough jobs to go around. Look at Detroit for example, Detroit built its economy on the auto industry and look how that panned out.
True, Detroit's lack of economic diversity doomed them for decades, but it wasn't the only thing. Political corruption that would make third world countries blush with envy, the race riots in the 60's and 70's, and competitive intrusion by the Japanese also played a role. To an extent, the Rust Belt was hit hard by those exact same factors, only recently have they began to recover somewhat.
When you have an unemployment rate over 15%, you're going to have people steal to survive. When people are unhireable because they couldn't finish school or because they have tons of tattoos in the wrong spots, they're going to have to beg, borrow, or steal to get by.
When you try to defend people who make bad decisions constantly, you are either an enabler to their behavior or you are basically a total sucker, sometimes both. What you are saying isn't necessarily wrong, but you can't be too naïve about folks who make bad, uneducated decisions in their life and do nothing or little with their lives. Too many times, I've heard stories of this happening over and over again, and the lesson is still the same, if you break the rules or screw up, learn to live with the consequences.
In short, when you try to justify criminal behavior, that doesn't really make you any better then the person who committed the crime. After all, what if it were you who got robbed by a thief who needed something?