I'm 18 (almost 19) and never had a girlfriend. NG is this bad?

Yes, I got a 6-month girlfriend when I was 12. Get out there.

You're asking a forum full of 13 year old chavs and fat virgins well beyond college years.

It's not that bad.
People find it more trouble to get into relationships blahh...
You either haven't found the right person, or you haven't looked hard enough.
Explore your horizons.

No, not if you're a girl...

Well, at least you're honest.

It's not too bad. I have a 21-year-old friend that hasn't had a real girlfriend and is a virgin. Nicest person in the world, but doesn't trust people. Mainly girls. He's not gay. I hate when people say that when a guy doesn't have a girlfriend he's gay. It's fucking stupid. Some people would rather wait for the right person than be with someone just to prove something. =/ so yeah, you're fine. But like the guy said, get out and explore.

Keep trying mate! Eventually you will meet a girl who you really love and will find the guts to ask her out.

You could also try to hook up with all the whores you meet in college while you wait, that always is good for confidence.

Come on, I'm gay, I had a girlfriend.

hey im in the same boat, except one year younger. I have had a girlfriend when I was a little kid but that doesnt count. I get you though. to say it's aggravating would be a downright understatement. It bugs you every single day. I could go off into a huge rant about it but I won't. I don't want to. Just know yoooou are not alooooooone.

At 12/2/07 12:30 AM, McLovin wrote: You're asking a forum full of 13 year old chavs and fat virgins well beyond college years.

Rofl so true.

Damn your fine

I'm 15 and i never had a Gf. And im not gay, im just looking for the right one, and i say fuck high school, you cant really trust anyone in high school. So dude your cool, and besides girls seem to like guys who never had their first kiss or girlfriend >.> well thats what i hear (apparently my info lacks detail).

So just wait for the right one and explore, oh and stay virgin till marriage, cuz you don't want to end up having aids.

well...SUX 2 B U!!!

I would advise just letting go of any otherwise belief and just come out of the closet.

But in all seriousness, you're not alone...I have a cousin who's 20 and he's still sans significant other.

Locate the problem. Are you ugly to women? Are you not assertive? Do you not talk to women in general?

Hell, just wear a cologne with pheromones in it.

theres nothing wrong with not having a girl friend at 18-19 whatever, have a girl friend because thats what you want, not because your trying to look cool to your peers/freinds, heck im almost 22 and not had a girl friend, do i want one, yes, but im around folks who still think im too young, so sometimes its ok to hold off to try and keep peace with family untill a certian point.

Not really.Just start trying harder now though or else your going to end up as a 40 year old virgin.

Yes, in my opinion, that's sad. I'm 15 and had at least 20! Go out, date, and have "fun"!

i think its time you look harder

At 12/2/07 12:33 AM, ZeldaFreak701 wrote: It's not too bad. I have a 21-year-old friend that hasn't had a real girlfriend and is a virgin. Nicest person in the world, but doesn't trust people. Mainly girls. He's not gay. I hate when people say that when a guy doesn't have a girlfriend he's gay. It's fucking stupid. Some people would rather wait for the right person than be with someone just to prove something. =/ so yeah, you're fine. But like the guy said, get out and explore.

There we go, someone with a brain, millions of people in the world dont have girlfriends till there 30's, are all of them gay? Explore dude, but dont try to hard, the right girl will come to you.

thirteen, got what you might call a "girlfriend" but in pure actuality she is really just a sexually amiable friend.

I'm not sure if you're serious because I saw a thread like this yester day and the body was
"I'm 18(almost 19)and I'm still a virgin. NG is this bad?"
But if you're serious there is nothing wrong with it just means you havn't found anyone you actually love yet. There is no problem with that.

Depends. Have you actually tried to get a girlfriend? I didn't really date in high school because I didn't see the point. At that point, I was having a hard enough time figuring out what my place was in the world to deal with somebody else, too. A big problem people have is that they become addicted to relationships during high school. At that crucial stage of emotional development, they never really develop on their own, they always have somebody else there so they don't become self-reliant. I have a few friends who are like that now and they both had very serious relationships all through high school.

Once I got to college though, I went out there and found some girls I thought were cool and dated for a while. If that's what you're talking about, then, seriously, just be confident. Walk up to a girl you like, strike up a conversation like it's no big deal, since it really isn't, and then ask her to hang out sometime. It's MUCH easier than you think. The problem is that, with more introspective people, they tend to overthink the whole thing. They always wonder what'll happen if she says something or how to say it just right. So then, even when they do ask, they're second guessing themselves the whole time even if they don't know it. Just be cool and collected about it, she might say no, but hell, no big deal. Most girls don't have any opposition to hanging out and even a "no" might actually just be because it's bad timing. Be cool about it and shrug it off. No problems.

Um...kill yourself

Hey, at least you're not going through 20 girls in a week. Eventually, that pays off, because every will soon know you have taste and will be a bit honored to be dating you.

At 12/2/07 12:30 AM, McLovin wrote: You're asking a forum full of 13 year old chavs and fat virgins well beyond college years.

dont forget the freaking geeks that spend all day long playing video games or reading japanese comics...

i'm pretty sure almost no one in this forum its "getting lucky" tonight... not even me...

YES VERY!!!!!! omfg man im almost 13 and ive had at least 5!

At 12/2/07 12:48 AM, STEM wrote: Locate the problem. Are you ugly to women? Are you not assertive? Do you not talk to women in general?

Hell, just wear a cologne with pheromones in it.

Axe doesn't work. The commericials lie.

o yea... im back!

At 12/2/07 12:29 AM, Suspended-3rd-Chord wrote: I'm 18 (almost 19) and never had a girlfriend. NG is this bad?

No but i hope to god you've atleast gotten a lil' play...

I'm 14, and I've had two. Neither worked out.

Oh boy! On NG, I AM KING!

At 12/2/07 02:34 AM, KillerCRS wrote: I'm 14, and I've had two. Neither worked out.

Oh boy! On NG, I AM KING!

17- had about 5. I win