Well, her boyfriend isn't confirmed that he's going yet. He needs to raise $30,000 to get into the school. He got accepted, it's just rasing the money. If he doesn't raise the cash, then he's not going to go.
Here's the two things that are kind of cruel (one's mine, and one's her)
*She wants him to not get the scholarship, so that he will stay. I find it a little wrong, since this is the dream school he's always wanted to go to. He knows he wants to go, but it's just the cash problem. She wants him to fail so that he stays. I consider that kind of backstabbing she doesn't even consider that:
1. It IS possible to keep a long term relationship. (Hard yes, but possible) She was saying that because he's moving to California, she won't ever see him again, and she has to break off the relationship.
2.She should be supportave of him. He just got into a Highly ranked college, and she's thinking of herself.
I can't really complain, though.
*I sort of want her boyfriend to betray her somehow. I don't want to see her go through that pain, but if he just leaves, she'll most likely hook up with me, but still think about him all the time. I don't want her to focus on someone else. I know that if he did something bad, she would drop him like a rock.
I also don't like her boyfriend so much. I can tell if a realtionship is going to last. I wouldn't keep going after if i knew it was impossible. here are some reasons (He actually reminds me of myself in high school)
1.He gets drunk every weekend. She drinks probably about once every month, and only in small amounts. She seems annoyed by this, and keeps telling me that she wishes he wouldn't drink so much. It makes me think that she has asked him to stop, but he hasn't. I have no proof of this, though
2.He has no balls whatsoever. I went with him and the girl to a club, and he didn't want to dance. She ended up dancing with me instead. She kept looking over, which made me feel kind of like crap. I know she brought him there to dance, but he didn't have the guts. I would do something that could make me looks stupid for someone i love. She told me that she wanted to do "it" it with him one time, and he was too scared. Also, he didn't tell her that he was moving to California face to face. She found out on facebook, and he avoided her.
Being nervious is one thing, but you can't be afraid of everything. Kind of makes you a pussy.
3.He seems to put himself first. He has often called himself "sexy" (Kind of narcisitic). Ever notice that sexy people never say thier sexy? Kills the mood. Also, this wouldn't be so bad, but he's never called her "sexy". Shows me he thinks of himself more than her.
So he gets drunk, he's a sissy, and focuses on himself, and she can't seem to stay away from him for some reason. She even tells me that she thinks he's stupid, and sometimes she "Fucking hates him"
She's chasing someone who it will never work out with, and therefore i'm chasing someone who is focused on someone else.
Doesn't it suck to be the nice guy in the back?
Please Read all of this, if you haven't. I need to know if i'm the only one who sees a problem with this.