At 10/11/04 03:06 PM, lost_chances wrote:
hi everyone, for startings i would like to join this cool group.
i have 2 problems!
i am going out with a girl but the problem is i always get nervouis and do something stupid or say something stupid. Also she started off going out with me, then going out with another kid, then out with me, then another kid, then me, then some one her own year (shes a year older than me!) then back with me. is that a good thing? cose i think she might be using me to fall back on or something like that.
Dont worry about your laughing, and imature outbrakes. When a man is nervous, they use humor to break the ice. but thats not the real issue. Youl'll get over that awkward ness when you find some one who realy loves you and treats you with respect in a less one-sidded relationship. I am afraid to tell you kid, your chick doesnt love you. thats not a loving relationship. Shes a whore, who cant commit. Furthermore, shes afraid to be alone, since shes never single and always in a relationship. I think you should dump her, tell her you are never taking her back, and tell her she'd be best off spending some time alone to "find herself" since she obviously doesnt know who she is.
second, my best friend is trying to go out with a girl. he really badly fancies her (you will see how badly in a min). he tried to ask her out but shes not intrested and laughs at him with her friends. someone said shes just shy. he gets so pissed off about it he cuts him self a "K" on his arm with a knife (cose her name is karrisa) he also one tried cutting his wrist in front of me cose he was so fucked up about it. w.t.f should i/he do.
we've all had crushes. its ok. sometimes they materialize, sometimes they dont. You need to snap your buddy out of this by talking to this girl he fancys so much. Be realy straight up with her. be like this:
"my buddy has been crushin on you a long time, and you are stringin' him along like a fool. So if you arent intrested in him, maybe next time you see him can you just tell him straight up that you dont like him, so he can get over you"
Oh, and if she starts talkin shit 'bout the two of you get one of your female friends to beat the piss out of her. tell your buddy to buck up, lifes to short to waste on a girl that doesnt share mutual intrest.