Love hurts

[EhWasTaken]

Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years last week.
It's been hard, i wake up everyday expecting to talk to her,
looking at my phone for replies that probably won't ever come.
She blocked me and deleted me from everything.
My phone number. Kik. Snapchat. Instagram. Facebook. Even youtube.
( we used to send each other playlists of our favorite songs, and i can't find them)

We broke up after 2 years because she went to college in California and i lived in Texas.
She got tired of me saying that i would come see her, and after this long not having gone once
Of being alone every night.

But we were soo deeply in love i thought it wouldn't matter.
Till last week, she told me she had been speaking to someone else.
They cuddled, she kissed him. She broke me.

The question is
Have you ever loved someone so much, they became the reason you woke up in the morning.
Cause i'm lost without her. I haven't eaten an actual meal in days.
And i know shes probably happy with another man.

[SimpleCubic1497]

At 6/17/17 12:30 PM, EhWasTaken wrote: Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years last week.
It's been hard, i wake up everyday expecting to talk to her,
looking at my phone for replies that probably won't ever come.
She blocked me and deleted me from everything.
My phone number. Kik. Snapchat. Instagram. Facebook. Even youtube.
( we used to send each other playlists of our favorite songs, and i can't find them)

We broke up after 2 years because she went to college in California and i lived in Texas.
She got tired of me saying that i would come see her, and after this long not having gone once
Of being alone every night.

But we were soo deeply in love i thought it wouldn't matter.
Till last week, she told me she had been speaking to someone else.
They cuddled, she kissed him. She broke me.

The question is
Have you ever loved someone so much, they became the reason you woke up in the morning.
Cause i'm lost without her. I haven't eaten an actual meal in days.
And i know shes probably happy with another man.

Don't worry man, you'll recover. Love is a maliceous form, it's either the worst or the best experience.
You'll find another girl, that will make you. That will give you love, happiness, and maybe even a family.
Girls change their mind almost every time. (Especially in a relationship).
Finding your true love is very hard and takes long days, months, or even whole years..

You don't have to care about her anymore,
She broke your kind heart,
She cheated on you.
And she will get punished for that, no matter how much she will pray to god.

I hope you will find happiness again and find an actual girl
That will love you no matter what.

-Regards, SimpleCubic1497

[OcarinaOfBlowing]

GHOST HER

IT ALWAYS WORKS
LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT SADISTIC

[EhWasTaken]

At 6/17/17 01:19 PM, OcarinaOfBlowing wrote: GHOST HER

IT ALWAYS WORKS
LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT SADISTIC

whats that mean?

[FUNKbrs]

I watched a friend burn to death and listened to his dying screams.

But hey, yeah, love, it matters or something.

[Kwing]

At 6/17/17 12:30 PM, EhWasTaken wrote: Have you ever loved someone so much, they became the reason you woke up in the morning.

Yes. Between the ages of 15 and 18 I was in two fairly serious relationships. I had left school at age 13 and didn't really have a life outside of them, so the level of attachment was extremely unhealthy. Toward the end of 2013 it was already pretty clear that both relationships were dying - I was fighting constantly with one and barely talking at all with the other.

Since many will be curious, they did know about each other. One said it initially bothered her, but after seeing a guy that would intentionally try to make her jealous when she was around she said that me seeing other people didn't bother her because I still made time for her and treated her with respect. The other girl was somewhat upset but didn't make a big deal about it until SHE started seeing another guy. To the best of my knowledge she did this as a way to blame me for the breakup rather than herself or the other guy.

The breakups happened within about a month of each other. There was no immediate heartbreak, mainly because neither really took me by surprise. It wasn't until years later that I was finally able to sit down and cry about it, and I'm still trying to figure out how I can form any sort of trust with anyone.

I can't say how long it will take for you to recover (if you do) but I can give a rough idea of what it might look like. You may lose your attraction or respect for her, or you may not. If you remain attached, that attachment will likely go into a state of hibernation because there's nothing to continue stimulating that connection. You'll still miss the feeling of being from her but it will likely become detached from her as a person, and you'll find yourself missing the feeling more than her in particular.

Also not sure why I'm sharing this but it's a very good video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ7LdrAqL0Y

[EhWasTaken]

At 6/17/17 01:23 PM, FUNKbrs wrote: I watched a friend burn to death and listened to his dying screams.

But hey, yeah, love, it matters or something.

Pain comes in many shapes and forms my brother.

[EhWasTaken]

At 6/17/17 12:33 PM, Jurornumber3 wrote: Nope. I've never loved anyone.

I guess it's one of the benefits of being emotionally unavailable. You never have to deal with heartbreak.

That sounds great right about now.

[Peepers]

Yeah. Relationships are fun.

The late, great prophet nails it.

[DarkMatter]

I know it's tough but what really can you do besides stalk her where she lives?

lol, aside from that you unfortunately just have to get over it.

I was so into this one girl on this site that for years I only showed up to talk with her, we exchanged numbers became friends and sort of exchanged lewd photos, but I was a dick and she moved somewhere and got with some other dude and that really sucks but she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore so I have to just live and learn.

You should do the same.

[Volt0r]

She broke me.
poor guy

[rottenray]

I'm just going to quote Nazareth lyrics...

"Love hurts
Love scars
Love wounds and marks
Any heart not tough or strong enough
To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud, it holds a lot of rain
Love hurts
Ooh love hurts"

You're young.

Don't let it mess you up too much, but let it mess you up a little so the next time you fall in love you know how to do it.

Or at least understand the power of love.

[SatanBrain]

You've let yourself be attached. That was the problem.

[DamnedByFate]

At 6/17/17 12:30 PM, EhWasTaken wrote: Have you ever loved someone

No, and @Satan shall take me if I ever do.

[OcarinaOfBlowing]

At 6/17/17 01:22 PM, EhWasTaken wrote:

At 6/17/17 01:19 PM, OcarinaOfBlowing wrote: GHOST HER

IT ALWAYS WORKS
LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT SADISTIC

whats that mean?

Ignore her and never speak to her again.

[EhWasTaken]

At 6/18/17 12:06 PM, OcarinaOfBlowing wrote:

At 6/17/17 01:22 PM, EhWasTaken wrote:

At 6/17/17 01:19 PM, OcarinaOfBlowing wrote: GHOST HER

IT ALWAYS WORKS
LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO'S NOT SADISTIC

whats that mean?

Ignore her and never speak to her again.

I really probably should.

[EhWasTaken]

At 6/17/17 11:23 PM, Hoodie wrote: ive recently gotten out of a 3 year relationship and i wanna die

suicide pact!

[EstefaniaVelasco]

I've been in your skin, and in that girl's skin.
I know it sucks to leave you, but in my experience leaving ... At first with the other guy everything was cool, but after a month I got tired. It was simply an excuse to end something that had to end.
Do not worry, at first it's weird, it takes a while to get used to not being with her, but you'll find a woman who will make you feel happy again, surely when you're happy being alone. That's cool, because you can choose to have it or not, and you choose to have it because it will be worth it, you do not need it, you want it.
Anyway, a lot of encouragement, sorry for my bad English (Spanish girl) and if you want to chat, you can message me!

*Lot of Hugs*

[FUNKbrs]

At 6/18/17 11:07 PM, Leidolfr wrote: trust me it will grow to straight up hate.

Hate is supposed to be how you control the world, not how the world controls you.

You seem to be confusing hate with love.

[killes]

At 6/17/17 12:33 PM, Jurornumber3 wrote: Nope. I've never loved anyone.

I guess it's one of the benefits of being emotionally unavailable. You never have to deal with heartbreak.

True but you never get to feel love, and trust me its amazing. Until I fell In love myself I thought the same thing

[Peepers]

At 6/17/17 12:30 PM, EhWasTaken wrote:

Have you ever loved someone so much, they became the reason you woke up in the morning.

There's your problem right there.
You've allowed yourself to become dependent on another human being. Always a bad idea outside of a like threatening situation.
Whenever you decide to let your entire existence be dictated by another person, it can, and will, always end in devastation.
That is not to say you can't love and be loved. It's just that you have to always keep a part of yourself. Never give anyone everything, because then there's nothing left.
Most women want a partner, not a dependent.

[TheHaterGator]

yes it pains everyday to remember how I treated her