Maybe... there is still hope. 2014-05-15 14:11:24
This thread is a reference to my previous thread.
Alright, so, a week ago (felt much longer IMO), I received terrible news when I tried to ask my girl friend out, that she is already in a relationship with someone. I was devastated that day, but despite all of the depression I went through, I got back on my feet. Now, instead of giving up and finding a different girl, I still had a special place for this girl in my heart, so I promised myself, that I will win her heart, and that has still been my goal to this very day.
Anyways, I am still friends with her, and I met with her earlier today (it's been a week since I last saw her). We talked for a bit, about how our week and weekend was, and school stuff. However, the thing I noticed was, she doesn't really seem to be soo happy. She believes she cannot do fun things with me, such as put-put golf, because she believes her relationship doesn't allow her to be with other guys.
However, this is going to backfire on her boyfriend. When she realizes, that she had enough of being sad and depressed, and being deprived of engaging in fun activities, she is going to break up with him. I told her how I felt about her, but I also told her, that I like her not just because of how she looks, but also, because of who she is. I also told her how she makes me feel. Before we went our ways, I told her, that she isn't forced to do anything in life, and she has the power to control waht she wants to do with it. If she isn't happy with her current relationship, then she doesn't have to stay in it, and she can leave it at anytime.
In fact, I even told her that I know a place that I know she will like in my local mall. I know for a fact she likes this, and I know for a fact that her boyfriend doesn't know what she likes. So, I told her that it was a surprise, and she will have to meet me at the mall, in order for her to see what it is. But I know she will like it, and I believe, that this is going to touch her in her soft spot, which might help turn the tables on her boyfriend even more, and hopefully, bring me one step closer to her heart.
I was honest with her, though. I told her, I would never do anything on purpose, that would hurt her relationship. I told her even if she was head over heals for me, that I wouldn't let her do anything that would cheat on her BF, until she breaks up with him. The important part, was making sure she knows I am a man, by showing her respect that nobody else would show her, and acting responsible. I believe things will start looking up again in the future.
TLDR; Girl friend doesn't seem to have had a good week last week, which might be a sign she isn't happy with her current relationship. So, this might be a sign that she is one step closer to breaking up with her boyfriend.