At 5/8/14 04:54 PM, icecreammac wrote:
At 5/8/14 04:22 PM, dovahkhiin1994 wrote:
I'm glad you're taking our words to heart and not going along with your previous plan. If they do break up, gauge her reaction to the breakup before asking her out. If she's heartbroken, give it some time (a couple days perhaps at the shortest) before asking her. If she's glad they've broken up or generally pissed off at the other guy, you shouldn't have to wait to long, perhaps a day or two. Good luck.
I personally thank you for all the help you are providing, instead of the typical "you fucked up go find another girl".
Yeah, you're right. Being manipulative is not good. Like what the previous poster said, rushed relationships don't last too long, and I think she will find that out. I will just wait it out, and see what happens in a month or 2 from now. I honestly don't believe this relationship to be long. She knows now, how I feel about her. So, when her relationship ends, hopefully, her "taste", will turn into my direction.
If they do breakup though, how long should I wait to ask her out? I don't want to do it the second they break up when she is in tears, because it might make me sound selfish. When is a good time to ask her out without missing another chance? Thanks.
Thank you. Yeah, I know that I am not an expert in relationships, hence why she got taken from me in the first place. Yeah, I mean, if I happen to meet another Asian girl that is as sweet (or sweeter, but not holding my breath), good looking, and intelligent, then you know what, screw waiting, I am just going to go after her, and learn from my previous mistakes.
However, while that has yet to happen, I am just going to wait for the opportunity to ask her out when she breaks up with her current BF. I mean, this guy literally asked her out 2 weeks after he just met her. I mean, how well can a relationship like that end?
Also, while she is with this guy, when her and I are seeing each other as "friends", can I give her a hug, or maybe even a kiss in the cheek as we say goodbye?
I'll admit, I am wrong with the stuff I said earlier. The scheming, the claim that she belongs to me, that was wrong of me. I was still very shaken up when I posted that. I think I re-collected my rational thought process at the moment, so I thank the few members here who are being helpful. I appreciate it.