As i continue to talk to people about the fears and reasons for moving out... There are a few things that keep coming up
1 being that if the purpose of moving out is to run away you may be leaving far more behind and stopping your own ability to move forward with your own self...
2 if the purpose of moving out is to enable you to move forward then it is necessary to do so as soon as possible
2.5 it is necessary to know when a situation is hampering you vs giving you freedom to evolve...
2.75 school is great for 2 things... Bettering your self and bettering your social aspect to gain independence from your family
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Many people age 19-24 start to struggle with the idea of gaining independence from ones parents because many parents still see their even adult family member as their little boy or little girl and that they still must conform to the ideas that were set long ago by the authority given as the parent
This usually makes a struggle that turns into a young man or young woman moving out to show/prove that they are now ready or thinking they are ready to be seen as an individual, ready to challenge the world around them...
The problem is simple...
If you understand your own independence, when does it become time for you to show that
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When are you ready to prick your finger to potentially gain a bigger and better life
And is it only a prick that draws a drop of blood... Or an axe that will take your hand