At 3/4/13 06:38 PM, Dr-Worm wrote:
You're asking for advice but you haven't given a whole lot of information for us to go on. This might be a shot in the dark, but are you sure the girl isn't just flat-out lying?
You know that shit isn't out of the question
If she actually is pregnant and you actually are the father, then there is no hiding this from your girlfriend. You should tell her immediately; the longer you wait, the worse it will get. She will find out one way or another, and you're much better off being honest with her than waiting for her to catch you lying. If she stays with you, you are a very lucky man. If she leaves, well, frankly, who can blame her?
Well for one I'm definitely waiting to clear the 'is it mine?/is she lying?' scenario before I so much as say anything. But even so I'm really just looking for an alternative other than flat out confessing.
But at this early stage, I'd mostly recommend just meeting with her in person to talk shit out, and to calmly explain to her why you think abortion or adoption are the ways to go. Take it from there.
Thats what I've been thinking with the other girl. I think her family is christian (god another reason I can't be with that girl) which is why she's obstinate about abortion, but I really think the adoption answer is a good choice.
At 3/4/13 07:02 PM, IdiLogicSavant wrote:
I like how serious you have been so far, and despite it you still manage to make a wise crack in bad taste. This whole thing is like an act to you.
I don't see what you're getting at with 'wise crack', aborting an unwanted child is a much better alternative that say, having it live with a single mother who has a heroin addiction.
At 3/4/13 07:53 PM, Zachary wrote:
Also, i've come to the conclusion that this thread is bullshit anyway. Judging by this post he made 2 months back. Everyone can now laugh at the OP for making up a story where he actually interacts with a female.
yeah, admittedly looking online for random hook-ups doesn't end well for guys