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You know that type of person who gets away with being a real asshole in conversation? You can tell they're not making an effort just to piss you off or even just because they don't care about you.
You ask a question because you want to get conversation going and they reply with a short, one worded answer. Then you ask them if anythings wrong and they get all defensive and point out their reasons why you deserved a short answer that lead nowhere. And so you have this little argument when all you wanted to do was hear about the the things in that persons life because you were generally interested that usually ends with the person adding some smug replay to let you know how not mad they are like "lol". And then the whole process repeats itself.
You can't argue with them because they'll just say you're getting mad for no reason and you can't have an enjoyable conversation because they don't make an effort. I used to hang around this girl a lot and I stopped because she was just a massive bore. She never agreed with me. Never tried to see anything from my perspective and she was the type of person I just described. The type of person who thinks it's cool it say "meh" a lot and never show emotion but they're so full of emotion inside that you would never understand.
I hate these people the most because they're so fucking stubborn. You will never breach their walls of emotion. They are so unique you could never see things from their perspective. They are so fragile that they don't need to make an effort and if you have an argument they will bitch on until they give up and force laughter at you. They think they're way smarter than you because it's a conversation and laid back conversations are a great way to assess someone's intelligence. They dumb down conversation for you because you can't handle it but when they do decide to go full intellicunt on you, you better get ready for some nit picky shit.
I could go on like this forever but I won't. Anyone know what I'm talking about.
That person is generally me, you asshole.
Yea, I farm Anal Penguins. Do something about it.
I know exactly what you're talking about.
I was in a "relationship" with someone that was just like that.
I say "relationship " because I dont want to consider anything me and her had as an actual relationship.
And I would love to hit her up along side the head the next chance I get. But I dont hit girls even if they were raging bitches at any point towards me. I'm just not that kind of person.
I just like to take this opportunity to say : Women aren't the only ones who do this, I know plenty of guys who pull this shit as well.
At 1/4/13 12:41 PM, killer32 wrote: I just like to take this opportunity to say : Women aren't the only ones who do this, I know plenty of guys who pull this shit as well.
As do I, Friend.
it's known as "being autistic"
At 1/4/13 12:17 PM, Provoke wrote: Truthfully, I believe she is a massive hypocrite and masterbates to crying babies.
Well, that escalated quickly.
Maybe you're talking to them about subjects that they genuinely do not care about.
I am exactly like the kind of person you are describing, and I cannot tell you how many people want me to engage in some pointless conversation about sports or cars or something else that I don't care about on a daily basis.
What am I supposed to say when you tell me you've just got a new muffler for your car?
What do you want me to say when you tell me your hockey team won? Or lost?
Do I look like I give a fuck?
Here's a tip: If you're going to insist on making conversation with people for the sake of it, ask them about things that they care about. Not everybody is a social butterfly.
At 1/4/13 03:22 PM, BumFodder wrote: maybe they just dont want to talk and youre being the cunt by trying to force them
Ohhhh, how many boundaries did I cross when I asked how was your day?
At 1/4/13 04:11 PM, yurgenburgen wrote: Here's a tip: If you're going to insist on making conversation with people for the sake of it, ask them about things that they care about. Not everybody is a social butterfly.
That's all I do. How was your day? Oh, that sounds cool, what's that like? I've always wanted to get into that can you tell me more?
If I know a person gets turned off if they don't hear what they want to hear I won't talk about myself. I get frustrated when people don't engage in small talk because why are they here? Why do they own an IM program? So if it's me why and what can I do to resolve it because I fucking bored and interested in whatever it is you have to say. It's why I'm not a forum. There's also a difference to forcing a conversation and getting it going. Small talk is inevitable. You don't start a conversation with, so how's that abortion working out? Did they let you keep the fetus? You gotta start with the mundane shit.
At 1/4/13 09:23 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote:At 1/4/13 03:22 PM, BumFodder wrote: maybe they just dont want to talk and youre being the cunt by trying to force themOhhhh, how many boundaries did I cross when I asked how was your day?
I think you need to practice your people skills
At 1/4/13 09:25 PM, BumFodder wrote:At 1/4/13 09:23 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote:I think you need to practice your people skillsAt 1/4/13 03:22 PM, BumFodder wrote: maybe they just dont want to talk and youre being the cunt by trying to force themOhhhh, how many boundaries did I cross when I asked how was your day?
Yeah i know a few people like this. Also if you dont know anyone like this.......its you.
Ok so ate your face..... What you gonna do, give me more bath salts?
At 1/4/13 09:37 PM, BumFodder wrote:At 1/4/13 09:27 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote: Sure, alright.See, this kind of sarcasm is going to get you amazing friends!!!
It wasn't sarcasm.
At 1/4/13 09:39 PM, BumFodder wrote:At 1/4/13 09:38 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote: It wasn't sarcasm.Im not being sarcastic either.
So then you didn't understand I was being serious. The circle is complete.
At 1/4/13 09:46 PM, BumFodder wrote:At 1/4/13 09:44 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote: So then you didn't understand I was being serious. The circle is complete.Youre being very serious
Why so serious?
At 1/4/13 09:45 PM, TruBluFoxx wrote: Maybe they just plain don't fucking like you.
So then tell me to fuck off. If you don't like me let it be know because I don't like wasting my time on people who'd rather be somewhere else, with someone else.
This thread makes you sound super beta. This is better off a news post than a rant on the BBS
I respond to every message!
At 1/4/13 10:15 PM, Tarah wrote: This thread makes you sound super beta. This is better off a news post than a rant on the BBS
If I cared what the Internet thought of me I wouldn't have posts half the stuff I have.
At 1/4/13 10:20 PM, TheColourAwesome wrote: If I cared what the Internet thought of me I wouldn't have posts half the stuff I have.
If you didn't care what the internet thought of you, you would post this in your news journal and not care if anyone saw it or not.
I'm sorry you fell for a cunt or got drawn into their manipulation but if they act like a cunt right off it's either because they're shallow and feel like they're hot shit or you're not good enough for them. Or they're just autistic and don't know how to operate a normal conversation.
You should just alpha the fuck up and next time some cunt starts acting like this or being a cunt in general, just drop them immediately. Hell, just call them a cunt and stop talking. Don't turn into a beta misogynist.
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