Author's Response:
I agree with you fully. That's most of the problem as I see it...that the media, by overemphasizing the violence, makes it seem like the better alternative just through its ubiquity.
Clearly this is not the case. Some situations require negotiation, some require decisive and deadly action. However, each situation should be approached logically, and the solution that best fits the given problem determined and used. Underlying bias towards a particular sort of action can only make it less likely that the best possible solution be reached.
Glad you liked the flash, and glad it prompted a well worded and thought out response. THAT is what I'm looking for.