At 11/1/08 11:00 PM, HeartbreakHoldout wrote:
It's hard not to become bitter. I don't know how you keep your sanity with the very small percentage of the userbase who actually contribute something positive to the BBS. Maybe it's the 6 months or so I have on you.
I went through the whole bitter insanity bit for about a year before I took a break. Taking a break usually helps a lot because I find a lot of the stuff that aggrivates me is the repetitiveness and if I back off for a while I can deal with it a lot better. I can say that being able to step back off of something and say it doesn't matter is the best way to deal with it here, but its also the most difficult. Even as a moderator there's a certain amount of that that you have to do.
That said, there's also a certain amount of will power you have to have to stay on the bright
At 11/1/08 11:08 PM, NEVR wrote:
Being made a mod helped, because now I can actually do something if I see a user being an idiot. Other than that, you just have to block it out I suppose. Maybe post in forums like C&C, where you're more likely to encounter like-minded people.
Yeah, those are good suggestions, although the novelty of moderating wears off in about a week. Its "great" being able to fix problems, but there's a whole host of other things that come along with it. The key is learning what to tolerate and what to ignore. Being a moderator is great, but maybe now that the stigma of being a mod is gone, I find being a regular user almost more enjoyable. I moderate because I was asked to do it. I've given it up and would do it again if I needed to or was asked to by the administration. Its not that I don't enjoy it, but I don't come to newgrounds to moderate. You know? I moderate while being a part of the community, or at least trying to be. A lot of users can make that difficult.