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rome-lherison
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I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:32:44 Reply

Well, me and my Gf broke up a month ago. Thing is that her friend keeps telling me how much she misses me, and on my ex-gf's aim status messages it keeps saying how i miss what we had and crap. So Should i ask her back out.

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:34:23 Reply

Talk to her, but have no intention of getting back together right away. Be adults, and discuss your problems. If the two of you can reach an agreement, consider dating again.


Do what now...?

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:34:51 Reply

Well do you want to go back out with her?

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:41:24 Reply

At 10/6/08 03:34 PM, MrHero17 wrote: Well do you want to go back out with her?

I guess he couldn't ask that question to himself so he decided to make a thread.

I say that you should go out on a date with her, kill her, rape her, eat and offer yourself to Cthulhu. In that order.

And pray that the Great One will accept your offer.

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:42:41 Reply

I wouldn't do it just to make her feel better,
Do what you think is right.. Do you still have feelings for her?
If you don't feel the same about her don't ask her back out, it will just be a waste of time and hurt her worse.


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:51:54 Reply

If she misses you so much, let her ask you out!
If you do it for her, she'll either take you for doing everything easily in a relationship and rely on everything, which will probably result in it coming to an end sooner or later; or they just want to make a fool of you by telling everyone "how desperately you crawled back to her" and stuff.

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:53:18 Reply

Why did you brake up in the 1st place?

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 15:59:00 Reply

Why did you break up?


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:00:01 Reply

If you're asking anyone other than your close friends for advice on this, the answers is definitely NO.


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:04:06 Reply

At 10/6/08 03:32 PM, rome-lherison wrote: Well, me and my Gf broke up a month ago.

Who did the breaking up?


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:07:35 Reply

Well, it depends. If that breakup sent you into spiraling depression, then DON'T get back together with her! As she would just dump you again, and here comes the swirling torrent of misery!

But if not, just say "If you're nice I'll get back together with you!"

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:17:19 Reply

Love is too volatile a subject to ask people you don't know. Messing about with it is like setting some gunpowder in a room full of three year olds equipped with matches.

Figure it out yourself, or you're not equipped to be using it in the first place.


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:39:15 Reply

At 10/6/08 03:41 PM, Gatling wrote:

I say that you should go out on a date with her, kill her, rape her, eat and offer yourself to Cthulhu. In that order.

And pray that the Great One will accept your offer.

Ooooooh! you said rape her I'm telling!

Mom!!!

Bleh, what am I still doing here?

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:40:13 Reply

Do you like her? Than ask her back out. You know that she'd say yes.


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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:44:43 Reply

Tell us why you broke up in the first place, then we can judge you.


RAWR.

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Response to I Need Help 2008-10-06 16:58:55 Reply

Please, be more vague. Your problem has too many intricate twists for me to make any sense of.


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