My parents just said i wasa mistake

[SmokeX28]

They were arguing and i came home and said "HI!" and then i became the subject of argumentation, and eventually i heard my dad yel to my mom "if you hadnt been so god damn careless back in the day we wouldnt have these problems and this kid."

:(

[chaw]

that doesn't mean they don't love you.
lots of children aren't planned - I wasn't, but I've still got a family.
trust me, when they've calmed down it won't be a big deal. just talk to them about it.

[Dromedary]

Oh, Ouch.

[Racoonmario]

Hey, they probably just said it out of anger. People say stupid/funny/unnecessary things when mad.
Oh, and ignore the flamers.

[tehconcept]

You can't trust anyone these days.

[jianda]

Sometimes parents just can't vent their anger somewhere else.
Keep strong buddy...

[greenfaerie4]

First off your dad sounds like an ass and I feel bad for your mom. I overheard my parents say they wanted a boy but they got a girl instead so I kind of know how you feel. I would try not to think about it too much.

[Otto]

Lol, bummer, but they probably still love you. Maybe? Haha, no.

[wtfyourface]

And this is your cue to become an alcoholic.

[JaY11]

Who cares, we'll be dead tomorrow anyway.

[isuckandsoyou]

At 9/9/08 11:41 AM, JaY11 wrote: Who cares, we'll be dead tomorrow anyway.

?????
Hitler comes from Heaven? Haha get it? Of course you don't.

[Patonki]

Oh snap. That is quite bad.

When people are really angry they don't really think what they say/do, so you can be quite sure that they don't mean it.

[Magnester]

Well i wouldn't say the don't love you, they don't mean it.
And besides, if they really didn't want you (which i don't is true) your mom could've simply had an abortion, or if it was too late, she could purposely fall down you know.

[Sensationalism]

Anger. They don't really mean it.

[Bryony]

My dad thought the same.

[DonDuDonDon]

I'm sorry I said that, I didn't know it would hurt your feelings.

[pyromaniac616]

At 9/9/08 11:41 AM, JaY11 wrote: Who cares, we'll be dead tomorrow anyway.

no we won't, first of all there is a 0.2% chance of it making a blsck hole, and 0 % chanc eof killing us, due to Hawking Radiation.

And to you, thread starter, it doesn't mean they will love you any less.

[Sensationalism]

Also, he said you were unplanned. You weren't a mistake because they decided to have you. I'm sure they're glad they did, even if they do get frustrated sometimes.

[Idiot-Finder]

At 9/9/08 11:29 AM, SmokeX28 wrote: They were arguing and i came home and said "HI!" and then i became the subject of argumentation, and eventually i heard my dad yel to my mom "if you hadnt been so god damn careless back in the day we wouldnt have these problems and this kid."

(

So is Jack Nicholson but look how that turned out.

[Conker125]

I was 100% planned! :D

Oh wait I'm not helping am I?

[H00N]

SHE was careless?? im pretty sure it takes 2 to tango. bitch slap your dad.

[Jercurpac]

I've always figured that most of us were unexpected. It's pretty easy to fuck up when you're trying to have safe sex and even if you're perfect nothing short of ripping out your womb is 100%. I know that my parents were pretty young when my sister was born, I can't imagine that they were itching for a kid, much less a second one. Unless your parents were in their thirties, settled down, and had been together for years then I doubt they were the mindset to actually work on conceiving a child.

I'm pretty sure that most of the time people aren't too upset by the idea of a child and that most of us weren't a coin flip away from being soup in the content baggie of an abortionists vacuum and that our parents look at us every day with resentment as they're reminded that they threw away the best years of their lives for a few minutes of awkward condom free sex.

At least mine don't.

[MercatorMap]

I was a mistake too. Don't feel bad. Lots of people make mistakes. Parents being one of them.

[EgoistXIV]

I agree with your father.

Luke, I am your father

[jakabite]

I was a mistake, and I have one of the most loving families I could wish for. Seriously, don't worry about it, it doesn't mean anything.

[FUNKbrs]

This would be a good time to come grips with some other realities you should probably accept while you're still in shock:

1: You're gonna die one day, and noone's going to be able to help you
2: There's no such thing as love. That's only in the movies.
3: You can never truly be happy, the best you can hope for is contentment.
4: Good masturbation is better than actual sex, even with a really hot chick.

[LadyGrace]

Your dad's a cunt. But no worries. I wasn't planned either. My mom was all "I was so glad the condom broke!" Yeah, I'm a broken condom baby. :o

[goldenmoon]

My parents happily told me I was a "happy accident" which is probably why I am a young alcoholic

[djura1996]

Dont worry. Your parents love you more than life itself. They were just mad, believe me.

[djjdchampion]

At 9/9/08 11:35 AM, wtfyourface wrote: And this is your cue to become an alcoholic.

lmfao- that post wins :)