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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-12 19:21:08 Reply

I would like to join
My name is Sarah and im 13
I am also bisexual

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-12 21:49:18 Reply

At 4/12/14 07:21 PM, sarahmathis wrote: I would like to join
My name is Sarah and im 13
I am also bisexual

Welcome to the club. Hope you enjoy it here.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-13 13:30:40 Reply

At 4/12/14 03:02 PM, Painbringer wrote: My boyfriend is in that age range.

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At 4/12/14 07:21 PM, sarahmathis wrote: I would like to join
My name is Sarah and im 13
I am also bisexual

Welcome to the group!

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-13 20:29:13 Reply

I told my therapist that I've been experiencing gender dysphoria for a long time and she's going to get me talking to someone that has more experience with that sort of thing and runs the transgender group on campus.

Finally telling someone in real life gave me a bit more courage and I told my brother today. It was scary at first but all he had to say is that he always thought I might, because he remembers me dressing up as a girl when I was young. He wanted to know if I wanted to do a full transition and was really supportive.

Anyways I just had to share that because right now I'm happier than I can remember being and I'm really glad that I have people who are accepting in my life so I don't have to hide anymore.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-13 20:55:10 Reply

At 4/13/14 08:29 PM, Entice wrote: I told my therapist that I've been experiencing gender dysphoria for a long time and she's going to get me talking to someone that has more experience with that sort of thing and runs the transgender group on campus.

This is wonderful news. I guess we'll both be transitioning together eh? :3

Finally telling someone in real life gave me a bit more courage and I told my brother today. It was scary at first but all he had to say is that he always thought I might, because he remembers me dressing up as a girl when I was young. He wanted to know if I wanted to do a full transition and was really supportive.

Well, you plan to do a full transition or just going to an extent?

Anyways I just had to share that because right now I'm happier than I can remember being and I'm really glad that I have people who are accepting in my life so I don't have to hide anymore.

Awesome stuff Entice, really wish you the best of luck in transitioning.

I start next month. Got medical stuff dealt with Friday, new doctor and everything. Was quite surprised that they actually get a lot of people like us there. They said I was lucky to have gotten an appointment next month so soon when most people have to wait 2-3 months before they could start.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-13 21:15:23 Reply

At 4/13/14 08:55 PM, SCTE3 wrote: Well, you plan to do a full transition or just going to an extent?

I don't know yet. I could definitely see myself going taking hormones and want to live, dress, and present as a woman full time, but I'm okay with my physical sex and see it as irrelevant to what gender I am so I don't know how much further I'll go there as far as surgery. I want to alter my body just enough that I can feel confident in calling myself a woman, and no further.

I really just need more time to talk and think it over with someone who knows what they're talking about, since I was so repressed for so long. I don't want to get too far ahead of myself.

I start next month. Got medical stuff dealt with Friday, new doctor and everything. Was quite surprised that they actually get a lot of people like us there. They said I was lucky to have gotten an appointment next month so soon when most people have to wait 2-3 months before they could start.

That's great! Yeah and that really shocked me too. I called four therapists around here that specialize in gender issues and they were all either not taking new clients or booked for the next couple of months. Especially surprising because my city is very conservative and doesn't have a very big population at all. Guess there's a lot more of us out there than I thought, huh?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-13 22:55:39 Reply

This is all too particular.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-14 00:38:25 Reply

At 4/13/14 09:15 PM, Entice wrote: That's great! Yeah and that really shocked me too. I called four therapists around here that specialize in gender issues and they were all either not taking new clients or booked for the next couple of months. Especially surprising because my city is very conservative and doesn't have a very big population at all. Guess there's a lot more of us out there than I thought, huh?

So do you need a recommendation from a therapist who specializes in gender issues before a doctor will perform a sex change operation on you?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-14 01:23:40 Reply

At 4/14/14 12:38 AM, Scarface wrote: So do you need a recommendation from a therapist who specializes in gender issues before a doctor will perform a sex change operation on you?

Yes, generally. I want to see one either way.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-14 06:50:06 Reply

At 4/14/14 01:23 AM, Entice wrote:
At 4/14/14 12:38 AM, Scarface wrote: So do you need a recommendation from a therapist who specializes in gender issues before a doctor will perform a sex change operation on you?
Yes, generally. I want to see one either way.

I've always wondered, how do they determine whether or not you're...eligible? Like, what kind of questions would they ask?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 15:23:51 Reply

At 4/14/14 06:50 AM, Scarface wrote:
At 4/14/14 01:23 AM, Entice wrote:
I've always wondered, how do they determine whether or not you're...eligible? Like, what kind of questions would they ask?

Pure determination to become the oppisite sex.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 16:21:05 Reply

At 4/15/14 03:23 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote:
At 4/14/14 06:50 AM, Scarface wrote:
At 4/14/14 01:23 AM, Entice wrote:
I've always wondered, how do they determine whether or not you're...eligible? Like, what kind of questions would they ask?
Pure determination to become the oppisite sex.

But do you really need a therapist for that? Couldn't you just tell the doctor "I'm positive I want this operation?"


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 17:35:56 Reply

At 4/15/14 04:21 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 4/15/14 03:23 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote:
At 4/14/14 06:50 AM, Scarface wrote:
At 4/14/14 01:23 AM, Entice wrote:
I've always wondered, how do they determine whether or not you're...eligible? Like, what kind of questions would they ask?
Pure determination to become the oppisite sex.
But do you really need a therapist for that? Couldn't you just tell the doctor "I'm positive I want this operation?"

well maybe most would confirm with a consoler because the changes are permament and you dont want to regret going through it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 17:37:39 Reply

At 4/15/14 05:35 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote:
At 4/15/14 04:21 PM, Scarface wrote: But do you really need a therapist for that? Couldn't you just tell the doctor "I'm positive I want this operation?"
well maybe most would confirm with a consoler because the changes are permament and you dont want to regret going through it.

I can understand for personal reasons. I just didn't know if the surgeon would require it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 18:53:31 Reply

At 4/15/14 05:37 PM, Scarface wrote:
At 4/15/14 05:35 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote:
At 4/15/14 04:21 PM, Scarface wrote: But do you really need a therapist for that? Couldn't you just tell the doctor "I'm positive I want this operation?"
well maybe most would confirm with a consoler because the changes are permament and you dont want to regret going through it.
I can understand for personal reasons. I just didn't know if the surgeon would require it.

The doctors must wantt to make sure you get your money’s wroth since mtf stuff is expensive.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-15 19:04:36 Reply

At 4/15/14 05:35 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote: well maybe most would confirm with a consoler because the changes are permament and you dont want to regret going through it.

The only thing permanent about the procedure is the loss of ability to have children.

Other than that, you can invert your penis/vagina as many times as you can afford.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-16 01:10:37 Reply

At 4/15/14 07:04 PM, Painbringer wrote:
At 4/15/14 05:35 PM, WiiFittoToreinaa wrote: well maybe most would confirm with a consoler because the changes are permament and you dont want to regret going through it.
The only thing permanent about the procedure is the loss of ability to have children.

Other than that, you can invert your penis/vagina as many times as you can afford.

Well its still pricy and would be a good idea to consult with trans consoler.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-17 20:47:25 Reply

omg nasty.

okay i don't care about whatever. If you have a desire to cut open your genitalia and turn it inside out and stitch it back up is a good thing that you would want, then you are FUCKED UP.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-17 21:03:26 Reply

At 4/17/14 08:47 PM, Sensationalism wrote: omg nasty.

okay i don't care about whatever. If you have a desire to cut open your genitalia and turn it inside out and stitch it back up is a good thing that you would want, then you are FUCKED UP.

So having as close a thing to a vagina is bad? What?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-18 07:04:33 Reply

At 4/17/14 08:47 PM, Sensationalism wrote: omg nasty.

okay i don't care about whatever. If you have a desire to cut open your genitalia and turn it inside out and stitch it back up is a good thing that you would want, then you are FUCKED UP.

Why is it fucked up to want to have a vagina instead of a penis?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-18 16:52:10 Reply

At 4/17/14 09:03 PM, SCTE3 wrote: So having as close a thing to a vagina is bad? What?
At 4/18/14 07:04 AM, Scarface wrote: Why is it fucked up to want to have a vagina instead of a penis?

I think Sen' just didn't like the journey, not the destination.

The whole thing about slicing up a penis to make a vag.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-19 14:12:39 Reply

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-20 00:38:49 Reply

At 4/18/14 07:04 AM, Scarface wrote: Why is it fucked up to want to have a vagina instead of a penis?

Because its okay for a girl to use strap-on/ftm.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-21 01:34:49 Reply

So I am having a hard time getting a boyfriend. No one hits on me, they just get mad, and I am the submissive role.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-21 02:18:34 Reply

At 4/21/14 01:34 AM, Shadaw wrote: So I am having a hard time getting a boyfriend. No one hits on me, they just get mad, and I am the submissive role.

Not really submissive myself, but I am a bit shy and I don't want to end up offending, creeping out, or angering a straight guy. Kind of sucks really, how can you say to someone "I'm gay. Are you gay? Wanna be gay together?" in a subtle way?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-21 02:32:34 Reply

At 4/21/14 02:18 AM, The-Great-One wrote:
At 4/21/14 01:34 AM, Shadaw wrote: So I am having a hard time getting a boyfriend. No one hits on me, they just get mad, and I am the submissive role.
Not really submissive myself, but I am a bit shy and I don't want to end up offending, creeping out, or angering a straight guy. Kind of sucks really, how can you say to someone "I'm gay. Are you gay? Wanna be gay together?" in a subtle way?

Well It's pretty easy to tell if someone is gay or not. But I'm finding just because I'm gay and someone attractive doesn't mean the other gays like me, personality has a lot to do with it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-21 04:43:29 Reply

At 4/21/14 02:32 AM, Shadaw wrote: Well It's pretty easy to tell if someone is gay or not. But I'm finding just because I'm gay and someone attractive doesn't mean the other gays like me, personality has a lot to do with it.

Yes personality does have a lot to do with it. That's what bothers me because I see a good looking person sure, but I get hooked on their personality only to find out later on that they're straight. That happened with my best friend who I thought was gay, but wasn't.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-04-21 06:57:56 Reply

At 4/21/14 04:43 AM, The-Great-One wrote: That happened with my best friend who I thought was gay, but wasn't.

They could be just denying it because of social and parental pressures to get married.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-05-04 00:25:21 Reply

We need to be more fresh and relevant!!


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club 2014-05-04 06:46:34 Reply

At 5/4/14 12:25 AM, Sensationalism wrote: We need to be more fresh and relevant!!

So what... more Neil Patrick Harris?