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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 23rd, 2013 @ 10:06 PM Reply

At 9/23/13 07:36 PM, Confucianism wrote: Nien. I imply that none of you talk to each other if I don't start it off.

Because everyone just wants to talk about their "special someone" who doesn't love them back.

That and gay pride is kinda frowned upon here.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 24th, 2013 @ 12:06 AM Reply

I wonder what IFUN does these days.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 24th, 2013 @ 07:06 AM Reply

It didn't occur to me to post this here, but since a discussion is needed, if any of you are interested, a good friend of mine recently came out as Transgendered. I don't know when he plans to get an operation, but I've been noticing lately he's been dressing a lot more androgynously (skirts, fishnet clothing, make-up). This wasn't too out of style for him, but it was a step further.

Anyway, he made a short post on Facebook, because he felt it obligatory, and now goes by Eris.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 24th, 2013 @ 03:06 PM Reply

At 9/24/13 07:06 AM, Scarface wrote: a good friend of mine recently came out as Transgendered.

Well, I wish her (he becoming a she) all the best.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 26th, 2013 @ 03:15 PM Reply

At 9/15/13 08:18 PM, Sensationalism wrote:
At 9/15/13 06:30 PM, Entice wrote:
At 6/29/13 06:43 PM, deathbymanga wrote: i am agender
I'm not even sure if I should open that can of worms.
It means virgin who doesn't know how good sex feels yet.

Agender doesn't mean i don't want sex, that's asexual. Agender means I don't see gender as a defining trait. Having a penis or a vagina is like wearing a suit or a dress to me

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 26th, 2013 @ 05:23 PM Reply

At 9/26/13 03:15 PM, deathbymanga wrote: Having a penis or a vagina is like wearing a suit or a dress to me

We're all just entities, surrounded by a shell of body parts and hormones.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 26th, 2013 @ 06:10 PM Reply

At 9/26/13 05:23 PM, Painbringer wrote: We're all just entities, surrounded by a shell of body parts and hormones.

It's not a shell and it's glands.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 26th, 2013 @ 06:56 PM Reply

At 9/26/13 06:10 PM, Confucianism wrote: It's not a shell and it's glands.

"Shell" is just a metaphor.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 26th, 2013 @ 07:07 PM Reply

At 9/26/13 06:56 PM, Painbringer wrote: "Shell" is just a metaphor.

I think flesh sounds better.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 27th, 2013 @ 07:23 PM Reply

Just came out today, didn't tell my friends or family or co-workers yet. Should I not tell? I'm afraid sooner or later they're going to find out, and I'm gonna be creek shit.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 27th, 2013 @ 07:41 PM Reply

At 9/27/13 07:23 PM, Elitistinen wrote: Just came out today, didn't tell my friends or family or co-workers yet. Should I not tell? I'm afraid sooner or later they're going to find out, and I'm gonna be creek shit.

Do you mean you came out on the internet? Because those that you have said pretty much covers everything that matters.
How would they find out anywho? Are you very flamboyant or something?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 27th, 2013 @ 07:49 PM Reply

At 9/27/13 07:41 PM, Confucianism wrote: How would they find out anywho? Are you very flamboyant or something?

The only person in my family suspect me is my sister. She kinda caught me dating another dude when I was in highschool. My sister is very nosy too. After that incident I was stalked by her for nearly a year.

I never think myself as flamboyant, but now I think it is.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 27th, 2013 @ 07:58 PM Reply

At 9/27/13 07:49 PM, Elitistinen wrote: The only person in my family suspect me is my sister. She kinda caught me dating another dude when I was in highschool. My sister is very nosy too. After that incident I was stalked by her for nearly a year.

Strange girl... How would she have caught you?

I never think myself as flamboyant, but now I think it is.

Nyuhuh. Well coming out can only really be a conclusion made by you considering you know what you're family and friends are like. We don't. So we don't know what their response may be.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 29th, 2013 @ 11:14 AM Reply

At 9/27/13 07:23 PM, Elitistinen wrote: Just came out today

Yaaaay!


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 29th, 2013 @ 11:52 AM Reply

At 9/26/13 05:23 PM, Painbringer wrote:
At 9/26/13 03:15 PM, deathbymanga wrote: Having a penis or a vagina is like wearing a suit or a dress to me
We're all just entities, surrounded by a shell of body parts and hormones.

not sure if that is nihilism or not

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 04:12 AM Reply

At 9/29/13 11:52 AM, deathbymanga wrote: not sure if that is nihilism or not

Wouldn't know - I got that from from the Klingon belief system.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 10:19 AM Reply

At 9/30/13 04:12 AM, Painbringer wrote:
At 9/29/13 11:52 AM, deathbymanga wrote: not sure if that is nihilism or not
Wouldn't know - I got that from from the Klingon belief system.

alright neeeeeeeeeerd :P :P :P :)

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 01:00 PM Reply

Something I've been wondering, do you consider men who are attracted to very feminine and passable trans women or crossdressers gay?

Increasingly as I've gotten older, I've realized that I'm not attracted to men that look like men at all. I've also realized that the thing that draws me to women like that is their feminine parts... if I see a pretty face, breasts, and a nice body I just don't care about there being a penis attached to it. Genitalia is a tiny factor in determining if I'm attracted to someone.

When I bring this up, I always get the inevitable WELL THEY'LL NEVER SCIENTIFICALLY BE FEMALE HURRR. I know that. I'm not mentally retarded. I know that being attracted to someone with male genetalia is technically homosexual. But if my subjective idea of what a "woman" just includes ones that are male, who's to say that I'm gay, in the typical sense? Since when did emotions lines up with what's technically correct anyways? Feelings rarely make a huge amount of logical sense, and that's just how I feel, and who's to say that if someone feels like a woman and makes an effort to look/act like one that they can't call themselves one?

Seems like an issue that people get pointlessly pissed stubborn about. "I refuse to let them tell me to call them women because they're genetically male!" Fuck off.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 01:29 PM Reply

I just consider things in a scientific manner. I don't bring emotions into play when it comes to your sexual preference or orientation. There are four things to me on these topics: Homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexual, and asexual.
And then when it comes to the persons sex: Male, Female, and intersex.
People like to get all their feathers in a ruffle when it comes to these things because they define themselves by how they feel. By emotion. I'll call you what you want, I won't stop you calling yourself what you want, but a fish is a fish no matter how much it wants to walk on land. (Not counting the fact that fish don't technically exist and is just a generalization of such creatures)


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 01:43 PM Reply

At 9/30/13 01:29 PM, Confucianism wrote: People like to get all their feathers in a ruffle when it comes to these things because they define themselves by how they feel. By emotion. I'll call you what you want, I won't stop you calling yourself what you want, but a fish is a fish no matter how much it wants to walk on land. (Not counting the fact that fish don't technically exist and is just a generalization of such creatures)

That's all fine and good. I'm just saying, people like that (with a few exceptions) know that it's not logical and what their genetics are.

I don't get what people gain from pointing out the obvious to them. "She's technically a male". No fucking shit. It's not like I was ever deluded into thinking otherwise. It just doesn't change anything and seems like a really smart-assy thing to do.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Sep. 30th, 2013 @ 01:52 PM Reply

At 9/30/13 01:43 PM, Entice wrote: I don't get what people gain from pointing out the obvious to them. "She's technically a male". No fucking shit. It's not like I was ever deluded into thinking otherwise. It just doesn't change anything and seems like a really smart-assy thing to do.

Well, there are quite a lot of people who get REALLY pissed off if you call them anything that they do not think they are or want to be. So, there are a lot of people who, yes, are technically male, but really think that they are female and will not have anyone say anything different accusing them of being fascists and the like. And vise versa of course.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 15th, 2013 @ 10:33 AM Reply

At 9/30/13 01:52 PM, Confucianism wrote: Well, there are quite a lot of people who get REALLY pissed off if you call them anything that they do not think they are or want to be. So, there are a lot of people who, yes, are technically male, but really think that they are female and will not have anyone say anything different accusing them of being fascists and the like. And vise versa of course.

It depends if they're distinguishing between sex and gender. Gender is a social construct, so you can define yourself as the opposite gender if you find you identify with those particular conventions and characteristics. And if you choose to alter yourself physically so that you're cosmetically the opposite sex, it seems kind of redundant for people to maintain you're still "technically" male or female.

Also, hey guys, I'm back.
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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 15th, 2013 @ 12:43 PM Reply

At 7/17/08 05:32 PM, O0-0O-O0-0O wrote: I'm bi, by the way.

Bi the way :D:D:D

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 15th, 2013 @ 01:21 PM Reply

At 10/15/13 12:43 PM, Splats wrote:
At 7/17/08 05:32 PM, O0-0O-O0-0O wrote: I'm bi, by the way.
Bi the way :D:D:D

Good one.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 17th, 2013 @ 05:22 PM Reply

Do you accept Transgender folk?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 17th, 2013 @ 06:53 PM Reply

At 10/17/13 05:22 PM, EdBunny wrote: Do you accept Transgender folk?

Pretty much anyone is welcomed here.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 17th, 2013 @ 10:33 PM Reply

All righty then I'll join if you'll have me.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 18th, 2013 @ 08:08 AM Reply

At 10/17/13 10:33 PM, EdBunny wrote: All righty then I'll join if you'll have me.

Jawohl.
So what does the bunny look like?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 18th, 2013 @ 11:59 AM Reply

Holy shit its gay in here


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Oct. 18th, 2013 @ 03:32 PM Reply

At 10/18/13 11:59 AM, Cordyceps wrote: Holy shit its gay in here

No sorry, we're out of that. We do however have some fresh transgender in if you're interested?


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