I'm a queer case. I'm both Agender and I'm Genderqueer. I'm Agender because in this day and age, with most of medicine being able to let a man become a woman or back again is pretty easy compared to 20 or thirty years ago and I look mostly for someone who i can talk to rather than have sex with, i see people more for the features they have than the sex organ they have. I mean, most non-straightlaced straight couples have at least done fingering (for both the male and female partner) and the only difference really that separates homosexual sex from heterosexual sex is what gender turns you on, it just means that you are attracted to those features, and with enough alcohol, a gay man could f*** a very butch woman because his mind processed her as a man, if the type of man he liked has a very masculine man. It would be even easier if the gay guy liked feminine men.
I also have a bit of a problem with my own gender, since I don't actually mind the idea of becoming a woman or staying a man, but I like my facial hair and male proportions, but i also don't want to still have them if I get a pair of boobs and go around in a bonnet. So I mostly just dress like a man and keep my face hairy because these are the masculine traits I like about myself and let the feminine traits come about when i need them to