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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 11th, 2013 @ 06:57 PM Reply

At 3/11/13 04:17 PM, Confucianism wrote:
At 3/11/13 04:07 PM, Scarface wrote: My school already has a GSA. I went to a meeting once, because some friends were coming back from college to go to it, but I didn't like most of the people in the club. They seemed really obnoxious.
Why are you complaining then? You have friends who are the scene as well.

They graduated last year, but come back from time to time. It's rare, though. The rest of the people in the club are okay, but most are just obnoxious people who want to feel special.

More than I have. Not that I really care to have lots of gay friends. Indeed, often they act all segregated and oppressed. Which I find amusing. If only my school had one so I could laugh at them. That is, if there were any like that.

I don't feel oppressed or alienated or anything, I just wish I could find more that weren't douche bags.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 11th, 2013 @ 10:01 PM Reply

309 pages? Holy-

Ahem. Anyways, since I'm thinking of joining, would this club recognize pansexuality? Or would I just kinda be tramping on the vibe that's obviously going on here?


Just remember one thing; at the end, the only person you need to live with is yourself. Don't be afraid to have pride. In the end, you'll have no regrets if you love yourself.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 06:48 AM Reply

At 3/11/13 10:01 PM, AzureDexel wrote: Anyways, since I'm thinking of joining, would this club recognize pansexuality? Or would I just kinda be tramping on the vibe that's obviously going on here?

You're absolutely welcome here. We allow all users, gay, bi, pan, straight, to just hang out here and talk whenever they feel like it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 07:12 AM Reply

At 3/12/13 06:48 AM, Scarface wrote: You're absolutely welcome here. We allow all users, gay, bi, pan, straight, to just hang out here and talk whenever they feel like it.

I still think of pans as bisexuals but extremely pedantic about the descriptions of themselves.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 08:01 AM Reply

At 3/12/13 06:48 AM, Scarface wrote: You're absolutely welcome here. We allow all users, gay, bi, pan, straight, to just hang out here and talk whenever they feel like it.

Thanks, mate. Can't say I'll be here every day, but I've still got plenty of spare time.

At 3/12/13 07:12 AM, Confucianism wrote: I still think of pans as bisexuals but extremely pedantic about the descriptions of themselves.

"Pedantic"...now that's a million dollar word. You're the first person I know to use that.

Anyways, the two are essentially the same with attraction; pansexual just places emphasis on not caring about the partner's gender or sexual identity, something bisexuality fails to do. It's really nitpicking, but still, the two do have different communities and flags. Bisexuality just addresses the current male-female dichotomy; pansexuality explicitly sees it more as a gradient.

In other words, I just felt the label of 'bisexual' to be rather limiting as compared to 'pansexual'. They're not interchangeable for me. But they're just labels in the end, so I won't hammer it into your head.


Just remember one thing; at the end, the only person you need to live with is yourself. Don't be afraid to have pride. In the end, you'll have no regrets if you love yourself.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 02:57 PM Reply

At 7/17/08 05:32 PM, O0-0O-O0-0O wrote:
(2) - No flaming.

how you gonna say that wit all these flames comin to join?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 03:23 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 02:57 PM, SimSimSalabim wrote: how you gonna say that wit all these flames comin to join?

It says no fla-ming, not no fla-mers.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 04:05 PM Reply

What do you call a gay bar without any stools?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 04:16 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:05 PM, Confucianism wrote: What do you call a gay bar without any stools?

A gay building with colorful drinks and no place to sit?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 04:25 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:05 PM, Confucianism wrote: What do you call a gay bar without any stools?

Unless it's some kind of shit joke, I have no clue.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 04:26 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:05 PM, Confucianism wrote: What do you call a gay bar without any stools?

A Denny's


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 04:30 PM Reply

A fruit stand.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 05:04 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:05 PM, Confucianism wrote: What do you call a gay bar without any stools?

I don't know, what?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 05:06 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 05:04 PM, SG3 wrote:
At 3/12/13 04:05 PM, Confucianism wrote: What do you call a gay bar without any stools?
I don't know, what?

Oops. Should've refreshed the page.

Good joke anyway.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 05:10 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 05:06 PM, SG3 wrote: Good joke anyway.

You really mean it? Honest and true?


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 06:06 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:30 PM, Confucianism wrote: A fruit stand.

That punchline is terrible and you should feel terrible.

...I honestly giggled a bit, though.


Just remember one thing; at the end, the only person you need to live with is yourself. Don't be afraid to have pride. In the end, you'll have no regrets if you love yourself.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 06:11 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 06:06 PM, AzureDexel wrote: ...I honestly giggled a bit, though.

Yoshi!


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 06:14 PM Reply

Friendo aih?

Ehhhhh!? Furry porn on your userpage!


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 06:18 PM Reply

I probably should have sent a PM rather than a post. Oh well.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 07:38 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 04:30 PM, Confucianism wrote: A fruit stand.

I originally read it as fruit salad, so no wonder it didn't make any sense.

But yeah, fruit stand makes perfect sense.

My other guess was Sikh temple, but that would probably be too offensive.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 12th, 2013 @ 08:46 PM Reply

At 3/12/13 06:14 PM, Confucianism wrote: Friendo aih?

Ehhhhh!? Furry porn on your userpage!

Let it never be said I was explicitly proud of >everything< I like. Can cut back a bit more on here. But I'll be favoriting less...perverse stuff to cover up. In more ways than one.

But yeah, PM would be preferable in the future, comrade.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 13th, 2013 @ 05:36 PM Reply

I was going to post on here for advice about this guy I could have potentially gone somewhere with, but I think that ship has sailed now. I'm pretty sure I played it all wrong.

My life is so full of depression and anxiety, I'm constantly paranoid about being alone forever. I'm just fairly certain that, at this point in my emotional maturity, I'm incapable of loving another human being.

Can anyone else relate?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 13th, 2013 @ 06:58 PM Reply

At 3/13/13 05:36 PM, SG3 wrote: I was going to post on here for advice about this guy I could have potentially gone somewhere with, but I think that ship has sailed now. I'm pretty sure I played it all wrong.

My life is so full of depression and anxiety, I'm constantly paranoid about being alone forever. I'm just fairly certain that, at this point in my emotional maturity, I'm incapable of loving another human being.

Can anyone else relate?

I've already accepted that I'll be alone. By choice of course, or rather, the only other choice is unavailable. However, I've found I'm incapable of ever really caring about anyone other than this person. So, it's almost like yours.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 13th, 2013 @ 08:23 PM Reply

At 3/13/13 05:36 PM, SG3 wrote: My life is so full of depression and anxiety, I'm constantly paranoid about being alone forever. I'm just fairly certain that, at this point in my emotional maturity, I'm incapable of loving another human being.

Can anyone else relate?

Yup. I'm not focused on one person in particular, though, just in general I find myself not emotionally attracted to most people. I've never really felt a particular way about anyone that I would describe as 'love', or even the beginnings of that.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 14th, 2013 @ 03:52 AM Reply

At 3/13/13 08:23 PM, Scarface wrote: Yup. I'm not focused on one person in particular, though, just in general I find myself not emotionally attracted to most people. I've never really felt a particular way about anyone that I would describe as 'love', or even the beginnings of that.

Well I'm glad that at least you don't go around claiming things to be love like some people do. As if demeaning it and claiming it is something simple to conjure up. Such as hormones.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 14th, 2013 @ 01:48 PM Reply

At 3/13/13 05:36 PM, SG3 wrote: I was going to post on here for advice about this guy I could have potentially gone somewhere with, but I think that ship has sailed now. I'm pretty sure I played it all wrong.

My life is so full of depression and anxiety, I'm constantly paranoid about being alone forever. I'm just fairly certain that, at this point in my emotional maturity, I'm incapable of loving another human being.

Can anyone else relate?

For the longest time, yeah. I can't relate quite as much as I used to now, but I still recall the pain of those days. Returning to that old way scares the hell out of me, not that I'm desperate for companionship.

I'm still not convinced on the whole 'love' shindig - but I always had trouble relating to others or really caring much, and I can't say I've felt 'love' for family. There's really only one person I feel that intimate of a connection to, but I suspect it's largely in a selfish manner since she and I see eye-to-eye on a lot of things and have had similar experiences.

I dunno. I think I'm just rumbling again when I mean to convey a point, only I don't know what this point is. Perhaps I'm just still confused myself, not really knowing what love is. So much for being certain of what I think at last.


Just remember one thing; at the end, the only person you need to live with is yourself. Don't be afraid to have pride. In the end, you'll have no regrets if you love yourself.

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 14th, 2013 @ 01:55 PM Reply

At 3/14/13 01:48 PM, AzureDexel wrote: I dunno. I think I'm just rumbling again when I mean to convey a point, only I don't know what this point is. Perhaps I'm just still confused myself, not really knowing what love is. So much for being certain of what I think at last.

Loves a pain in the gulliver once you get to know it.


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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 17th, 2013 @ 07:34 PM Reply

At 3/14/13 01:55 PM, Confucianism wrote: Loves a pain in the gulliver once you get to know it.

Do you think you'll ever feel the same way about someone as the guy you've been into all this time?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 18th, 2013 @ 01:39 AM Reply

So I think I've posted in here before that I'm kind of slowly starting to come out of the closet and I've told a few friends at this point. For the most part they've all been friends who I knew would react well to it and not be awkward, I'm really not trying to make it to be a big deal.

But I just can't bring myself to tell my best friend. It's fucking stupid because I know he won't care but I'm just not sure how it's going to affect things. There are so few people who get me as well as this guy do and I'm terrified of fucking that up.

The problem is that since we've gone to university in different cities he's ended up in the crew of guys who I will call bromosexuals for lack of a better term. They get drunk and grab each others nipples and do shit like that for laughs or something, but are sexually into women. So now whenever I go back home and we hang out he ends up doing it around me too. He always initiates and I try to kind of play it off while not really encouraging it, but fuck if I don't enjoy it, he's hot and we're usually pretty drunk when it happens so my self-control is definitely not there. I have no problem with the idea of him not doing this with me anymore, but I'm worried when I tell him I'm into guys he'll look back on it like I was trying to get in his pants, or that I've been into him for all this time or some shit.

I mean I'm probably overthinking it completely because the damage is already done but I just don't want to fuck up our friendship... anyone got comments/advice?

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Response to Newgrounds Gay/bisexual Users Club Mar. 18th, 2013 @ 12:21 PM Reply

At 3/18/13 01:39 AM, the-goatman wrote: The problem is that since we've gone to university in different cities he's ended up in the crew of guys who I will call bromosexuals for lack of a better term. They get drunk and grab each others nipples and do shit like that for laughs or something, but are sexually into women.

He's probably a closet gay anyways.