At 10/6/12 03:30 PM, Painbringer wrote:
Here's a question:
Have any of you guys cheated on your partners?
I'm really bored.
No, I never want to cheat on my partner and hope never to. I care about being with one person and loving them, I don't gain pleasure in ways that others would from sleeping around or having affairs, it needs to be with the person I love. If I did get feelings for another person I would feel terrible if I was to pursue it since I know it would be hurting my partner and I wouldn't be able to look at myself so well again, it isn't worth getting my dick wet for.
On the question of if I would forgive my partner for cheating, yes I would. I would hope like me they never would but I would be fully prepared to forgive him, if it was intentional then I would obviously be upset but I wouldn't want to loose what we have and would be prepared to take him back. If he regretted what he did and understood it was wrong then I wouldn't stay angry and would accept his apologies since we all do stupid things at times and it is no reason to break a good relationship. If he got drunk or high or something and was unable to think straight then I would be even more willing to accept him back as sure he shouldn't have got intoxicated but when in that state it can be harder to notice what you are doing and things could happen. However if my partner cheated on me multiple times and showed no regret for doing so, effectively using me as one of several people to get laid with, then I would break the relationship up. I want love, I don't want to just be someones fuck buddy or even worse just be a tool to be used.