At 10/7/12 03:53 PM, Painbringer wrote:
Maybe some of are just too young to understand the emotional complexities of a long term monogamous relationship, and that it isn't as black and white as you might think.
Wow, really? You've decided you're correct because you're the oldest here (despite often showing a very immature attitude to things, including that age makes that much of a difference)? That those who may be 25, 21 or maybe younger, could never understand or consider how emotionally complex relationships are and how you're freed from all responsibility for starting to cheat on your partner because "well, I'm older than you, so you could never understand my pain", that's what you've concluded.
I'll admit, I act a little ageist in terms of deciding their opinion worth, but I consider it a minor point of shame (age does affect things (e.g. 14 year olds likely have a poorer understanding of society than 18 year olds), but not to the extent you or I consider it), you wear it like a proud badge. I am almost convinced that you symbolise at least half of the problems in the LGBT community, and people like you are the majority. The sad part is, to me at least, to consider you and your opinions a blight in this club is to consider lung cancer the only cancer out there. I am not perfect, I am far from, but I'm at least self-aware enough to realise what is wrong I'm trying to minimalise the problems. You, and similar others like you, will forever remain ignorant of how things you do, things you say and things you think are not only not positive in any light at all, but just down right negative.
Over the summer holidays, during my break from university, I have looked through this club with various feelings; partially boredom and partially interest in some of the things said, but mostly just disgust and horror at how this less resembles an interesting community filled with great minded individuals with interesting thoughts and interesting viewpoints, but more resembles monkeys throwing shit against the wall. I've argued here, oh god have I argued, but once or twice it was less out of malice but more out of genuine interest (thank you GuerrilleroHeroico). However, often, I argued because what was being said was as retarded and/or bat-shit insane as this:
At 9/30/12 06:41 PM, Painbringer wrote:
Perhaps bi guys could "fake" being gay, but simply being bi could be a turn on for some girls - Especially the ones with a cuckold fetish.
I doubt many people will see what I mean when I say that I am convinced that Painbringer using his age to exert dominance and intelligence is like a 21 year old sergeant in the military who has never even seen a gun let alone ever been in a firefight exerting dominance over those of a lesser rank than him as he commands them (including the lance corporal who has served for 20 years and has seen his best friend hacked with a shiv made up of glass and cloth). Physically, you are old, but mentally, not only emotionally but also intellectually, I am convinced you're a teenager.
I was so fucking wrong to return, and I'm done paying attention to people who makes me more and more hope American conservatives get elected and they make homosexuality illegal, and then England follow suit. In terms of fighting for equality, based on what I've observed in the last three years, we don't deserve it. We don't deserve to be pissed on as skin heads soak us in petrol and set us alight. We're mostly made up of immature arrogant imbeciles who not only have an "us and them" mentality but wishes EVERYONE to know we're not straight and proud. We're people who vary in physical age, but lack the same variation in mental age, mostly stuck between the ages of 14 and 16, with a few extraneous individuals (e.g. GuerrilleroHeroico and IFUN).
You want people like me to take you seriously Painbringer? Those who hunt for substance in discussions instead of crude comments? Start by not using your age as a reason of why you're correct. Start showing you're mature and intelligent. This isn't a message just for you Painbringer, you're just a symbol and a personification of a good portion of what I hate about this club. This is directed at everyone. If you think this applies to you, it likely does. If you're not sure if it applies to you, it likely does. If you know it doesn't apply to you, then it definitely applies to you. Fuck it, I'm done with this hole while I have things more constructive to do than staring out a window in absolute boredom. I'll likely be too dumb to stay away, or too morbid since train crashes are an enjoyable watch, but damn it I'm done with this place any time soon.