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At 3/7/10 07:46 AM, PaNicATtaCk64 wrote: Who do you all have as "role models"? It sounds stupid but I have an unhealthy obsession with Oscar Wilde... (he was NOT a pedo just a dirty old man and if he was straight people would agree, Lord Alfred Douglas on the other hand..)

I haven't got a single one. I just do stuff that I view as "right".

At 3/6/10 01:38 AM, JohnnyWang wrote:

Now, how old are you? If you're really young, chances are things will become better once you grow up. We live in a more openn world than in the past; even 10 years ago and 20 years ago you an see a radical differences to today.

this man speaks the truth. you are a human, and you are equal. never think anything less of yourself.

At 3/7/10 07:46 AM, PaNicATtaCk64 wrote: Who do you all have as "role models"? It sounds stupid but I have an unhealthy obsession with Oscar Wilde... (he was NOT a pedo just a dirty old man and if he was straight people would agree, Lord Alfred Douglas on the other hand..)

Pffft he's gay and awesome!!

I don't really have role models either, I just kinda do what I do. I mean, I guess it's sort of a conglomeration of things and people I like, but I don't try to be like one or a few people that I admire.

Role models... I don't know, Stephen Fry? I also watched Six Feet Under when I was a teen, and David Fisher and Keith were one of the first gay characters I'd seen on TV.

One of my biggest role models is my father...cheesy, I know. My father is not that accepting of my sexuality but our whole family has never really liked my father, yet despite that he always did his own thing and said the people that want his company will accept him. I follow that creed. The people that want me around will accept me. My father hates the fact that I'm gay but he swallows his dislike just enough to make me feel comfortable with my boyfriend while visiting.
As for whoever said "your sexuality is only one facet of your life" I have been preaching that gospel since I came out. I told all my friends I was the same person before now you just know you I sleep with. I am much more of a person than just who I sleep with.

Did you guys hear what happened to Roy Ashburn? Homophobic senator who came out yesterday. I always knew the homophobes were gay...

At 3/9/10 08:07 PM, hhcash wrote: Did you guys hear what happened to Roy Ashburn? Homophobic senator who came out yesterday. I always knew the homophobes were gay...

Links?

I don't mean to sound like a bitch here, but I've never understood how people could seriously have role models.

At 3/9/10 10:08 PM, Lost-Chances wrote:

At 3/9/10 08:07 PM, hhcash wrote: Did you guys hear what happened to Roy Ashburn? Homophobic senator who came out yesterday. I always knew the homophobes were gay...

Links?

March 4
March 8

Enjoy being soaked in society's swarm of hypocrisy.

At 3/9/10 11:57 PM, SapphireLight wrote: I don't mean to sound like a bitch here, but I've never understood how people could seriously have role models.

It's your opinion, doesn't sound bitchy.

A lesbian managed to get a prom cancelled, by asking if she can take a girlfriend along and wear a tuxedo.

I think, generally, this brings out more of an issue besides the stupid homophobic crap. I think it also brings out how fucking stupid gender differences are. However, it also brings across something interesting I've noticed.

I'm not sure if it's relevant to this club or if others believe similar things, but I'm a firm believer of gender neutralisation. I believe that, socially, we're shifting towards gender neutralisation where codes of practice based on our sex will cease to exist over time. Sure, this girl is wanting to wear a tuxedo instead of a dress, but I can honestly see this shit happening more and more. The girls may not be lesbians, they may be bisexual or straight as nails, but they may want to do it. Originally, I thought we were heading to a centre point, but no.

It seems to me that in terms of neutrality, we're heading towards a point that is more in the favour of masculinity. Which, personally, is interesting. Sure, men are getting a little more feminine. There's guys who want to wear make-up, wear skirts (besides Scottish people) and have longer hair, but it seems within about two or three generations, women will essentially be acting like a somewhat feminine guy. They'll have shortish hair, prefer boxers over thongs/pants and wear less make-up. Sure, there will be still size difference in terms of shirts and trousers to accommodate different bodies (generally, larger chest for women for breasts and a lower "split" for men for penises), but in terms of style, there will be little to no difference.

Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Well, it's hard to judge. It depends how society will take it. They may take it with a sword and want to encourage the gender division which will lead to further gender injustice. On the other hand, they may take it with open arms and we'll become more equal. They will likely bring their own problems and their own benefits, but I much prefer the later for pretty obvious reasons. I believe strongly in equality no matter what.

Personally, I'll have to hand it to the feminists for once in a blue moon for why the lack of a middle point between genders and the preference towards masculinity. We do live in a somewhat patriarchal society, no matter how you boil it. If you look beyond the government and you look at society in general, we do somewhat live in a patriarchal society. Sure, there are matriarchal areas like laws and how men typically have to provide and gain the satisfaction of the woman, in terms of "what says, goes", patriarchy goes all the way. Men were seen as cool when they smoke before women were for example.

It goes on really, but with that recent example, it made me realise that while we are heading to a gender neutralisation, it's in favour of, what we now consider, masculinity instead of a centre point.

At 3/12/10 10:40 AM, Lost-Chances wrote: A lesbian managed to get a prom cancelled, by asking if she can take a girlfriend along and wear a tuxedo.

Bible belt is a bitch.

Going to a GLBT party tonight. Same event as last month.

Went to a Rocky Horror production and an old friend was playing Rocky. My sister told her English teacher about it and her teacher asked if the guy had come out yet. Lmfao.

One day, I'm just going to realise that I'm a big dyke.

At 3/19/10 03:07 AM, Sensationalism wrote: One day, I'm just going to realise that I'm a big dyke.

Attack of the 50 foot lesbians? II think I saw the movie poster once.

I knocked the homophobe right out of my father in law a few months ago. lol.

hes one of those "i hate gays" ands I dont want them getting AIDS on my toilet seat" type of guys.

out of left field my wife said in the middle of one of his rants "well, dad you know Patty is bi right?"

and instead of hating me (Im like his golden boy... he lives vicariously through me lol) he says

"...........Well, EVERYBODY is bisexual nowadays." and went on a tangient about how it was cool that I dabble in guys.

lol her dad loves me so much hed rather flip his opinion than start hating me.

Well, you're married to a woman, so you're harmless in his eyes and he probably doesn't take you that seriously. Nice that he doesn't change his opinion of you upon finding out though.

i just think its awesome that heed rather give bis and gays a chance than to forsake his golden boy. too bad i couldnt get him to admit wether or not he "experimented" with his good buddies in nam. lololol.

...Dyke?

At 3/20/10 12:26 AM, hhcash wrote: ...Dyke?

I cant BELIEVE kids think that haircut looks cool.

At 3/20/10 03:11 PM, PantyWipe wrote:

At 3/20/10 12:26 AM, hhcash wrote: ...Dyke?

I cant BELIEVE kids think that haircut looks cool.

Don't hate.

He's super hot.

Isn't he like 12???

I don't know who Justin Bieber is, and frankly, i don't want to know. I value my ignorance of stupid shit as far as possible.

As much as I'd love to leave myself ignorant of all the stupid, illogical and, for lack of a better word, bastard things people and organisations do, usually that kind of information some how leaks it's way to me.

I don't want to be ignorant of important shit, just stupid shit.

At 3/21/10 01:38 AM, Sensationalism wrote: Isn't he like 12???

He's 16, and a few months older than me.

It's just his appearance is so flawless looking...it's kind of scary sometimes.

At 3/21/10 01:57 PM, hhcash wrote:

At 3/21/10 01:38 AM, Sensationalism wrote: Isn't he like 12???

He's 16, and a few months older than me.

It's just his appearance is so flawless looking...it's kind of scary sometimes.

EWWWWWWWWW!

He looks like one of those creepy china dolls with eyes that shut when you tip them but the rest of the time stare at you anticipating your death like a vulture...

Role Models? Nom nom nom... Paul Rudd.

:P

Well I really respect my boyfriend for some of the awesome stuff he's been through and done so if I can be half as awesome as him I'll be happy.

I love Paul Rudd, he is hilarious!!

Maybe it's a bit early, but I'm looking forward to summer. Anyone doing anything cool?

I'm probably not. Unless staying inside on the computer all day counts as cool!!