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At 10/21/09 10:34 AM, Lost-Chances wrote:

At 10/20/09 07:47 PM, Blush wrote: Well me and my boyfriend ended up breaking up. Shit sucked ass.

There's plenty more nuclear waste out in the sea.

...That is the phrase right? Or is it "There's plenty more oil out in the sea"?

I beleive it was "There's plenty of cats out in the pet shop". But I like yours better.

At 10/21/09 12:48 PM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote:

At 10/20/09 07:47 PM, Blush wrote: Well me and my boyfriend ended up breaking up. Shit sucked ass.

Ouch, that's no good. D: Well, hopefully you'll find someone better soon. If not soon, you'll find someone eventually.

Why did you two break up?

Well it turned out that he had been dating some other guy in school, and he ended up liking that person more.

At 10/21/09 08:00 PM, Blush wrote: Well it turned out that he had been dating some other guy in school, and he ended up liking that person more.

Wait...so he cheated on you? Or you had an open relationship?

Whatever it was, I think you need a hug.
*huggles*

Man, this place has been inactive lately.

At 10/23/09 10:32 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Man, this place has been inactive lately.

Yeah, it has been. It was just really active a couple weeks ago, too, and it had been for a while.

Hopefully this inactivity won't last for long. :/

At 10/23/09 10:32 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Man, this place has been inactive lately.

Because DOMA burned our village and poisoned our crops.

and raped all our gay children.

At 10/23/09 10:32 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Man, this place has been inactive lately.

Because DOMA burned our village and poisoned our crops.

and raped all our gay children.

At 10/23/09 10:32 PM, Sensationalism wrote: Man, this place has been inactive lately.

Because DOMA burned our village and poisoned our crops.

and raped all our gay children.

what the f**k is DOMA?

sorry for the censorship. the FCC is watching my every move.

At 10/24/09 07:28 PM, hhcash wrote: what the f**k is DOMA?

sorry for the censorship. the FCC is watching my every move.

The Defense of Marriage Act.

It raped all our gay children.

The name alone pisses me off.

At 10/24/09 08:11 PM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote:

At 10/24/09 07:28 PM, hhcash wrote: what the f**k is DOMA?

sorry for the censorship. the FCC is watching my every move.

The Defense of Marriage Act.

It raped all our gay children.

The name alone pisses me off.

But that's been around since 1996, did someone use it recently or something? I haven't heard anything about it lately...

At 10/24/09 10:59 PM, TheRadicalOne wrote: But that's been around since 1996, did someone use it recently or something? I haven't heard anything about it lately...

No, I don't think so. Nothing has really changed. I don't know why it was brought up.

At 10/11/09 10:26 PM, hhcash wrote: I came out to one of my good friends. It went really well.

Not me. I thought she was a friend but i found out that she does not like gay people much so we just broke apart. I have not talked to her in almost a year now. I lost many BF's cause well having sex with them was gross and well some of the things they wanted me to do were just gross. Oral sex on a guy just sick and wrong. Sex with a guy just wrong. I hate body and facial hair.

At 10/25/09 12:50 AM, gamer30hrplus wrote: Oral sex on a guy just sick and wrong. Sex with a guy just wrong. I hate body and facial hair.

"wrong"?

At 10/25/09 02:27 AM, Reed wrote:

At 10/25/09 12:50 AM, gamer30hrplus wrote: Oral sex on a guy just sick and wrong. Sex with a guy just wrong. I hate body and facial hair.

"wrong"?

i am sure God did NOT intend for a mans phallus to enter the sacred chamber of a womans mouth. the act alone is just so repulsive i just threw up a little in my mouth just thinking of it. i attempted it once in the past and threw up on the guys penis but that just turned him on and he hit the back of my head & held it down so i was just choking on his penis and my vomit until he proceeded to ejaculate with such ferocity it shot right out of my nose. then the cocky bastard threw me to the floor, throw up and cum dribbling from my face, and told me to get the fuck out of his room through the window before his mom came home

At 10/25/09 02:27 AM, Reed wrote: "wrong"?

It's an alt.

At 10/25/09 03:01 AM, MadCow wrote: ... and told me to get the fuck out of his room through the window before his mom came home

Sounds like quite the learning experience.

Sex with a man is not wrong. Just many folks don't like it. Its not fair to go anywhere and say sex with men is wrong unless its a lesbian only location.

As for oral sex. To each their own. Please do not presume to judge others for their sexual preferences.

At 10/25/09 12:35 PM, sinfulwolf wrote: Sex with a man is not wrong. Just many folks don't like it. Its not fair to go anywhere and say sex with men is wrong unless its a lesbian only location.

Saying that it's wrong to have sex with men isn't okay even if it is a lesbian only location.

As for oral sex. To each their own. Please do not presume to judge others for their sexual preferences.

This. Also keep in mind that cunnilingus, not just fellatio, is oral sex.

The thing is, genitals are really disgusting no matter what. Even though I'm gay, when i look at a picture of a penis i'm like "ew.". However, if i fancy a boy by his face, body, personality, etc, then their genitals automatically seem hot and pleasing as well. If he was ugly, then so i would have no desire for his genitals, even if his genitals looked exactly the same as the hot guy's ones. Another reason why sexuality is confusing, but beautiful. I find it amazing that dead cells (skin) and flesh could have such strong aesthetic value.

At 10/25/09 04:47 PM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote:

At 10/25/09 12:35 PM, sinfulwolf wrote: Sex with a man is not wrong. Just many folks don't like it. Its not fair to go anywhere and say sex with men is wrong unless its a lesbian only location.

Saying that it's wrong to have sex with men isn't okay even if it is a lesbian only location.

Thank you for the correction.

At 10/25/09 10:06 PM, hhcash wrote: The thing is, genitals are really disgusting no matter what. Even though I'm gay, when i look at a picture of a penis i'm like "ew.".

I'm not really grossed out by genitals, male or female. I'm not drawn to male genitals and they're not something that I would choose to look at for long periods of time, but they don't have a huge "ew" factor for me.

Lol, genitals.

I posted a topic about this in general, I'm posting this here because I'm hoping for some responses from people who have actually graduated from gradeschool.

I am really and truly sexualy attracted to both men and women, and sometimes I'm not sure if thats a blessing or a curse. How can I get married and have a family if I like sucking cock? How can I create a lasting relationship with a man if I want to fuck every other woman I meet? What the hell am I supposed to do with my life? Get on a bus to SanFransisco and trick on the streets until I find a guy to take me in, or stay here and continue to build a "normal" life? How can I be gay if I'm not gay? How can I be straight if I'm not straight?

My whole life I've lived a lie that isn't a lie. I really am a sports loving, pussy eating, outdoorsmen, man's man who has or at least has attempted to fuck every good looking girl I've met with great enthusiasm. But I never feel like I fit in anywhere, I feel like an outsider among my own friends. This secret is destroying me from the inside, and I just want to be accepted for what I am. I just want to get it off my damn chest and be open with people about who I am.

But what the hell am I. Sexually I'm attracted to both men and women thats for sure, but emotionaly what is the best path to take? I know what it's like to be in love, and ultimately thats all I really want, so what do I do in order to find love. I need to explore myself more deeply in order to figure out what I really need in a partner, and I can't do that in my current situation. But if I run away to be a homo and then figure out I'm not one where the hell does that leave me.

Anyone have any kind or reassuring words for one hell of a confused individual?

At 10/26/09 05:37 AM, General-Malcontent wrote: I posted a topic about this in general, I'm posting this here because I'm hoping for some responses from people who have actually graduated from gradeschool.

I am really and truly sexualy attracted to both men and women, and sometimes I'm not sure if thats a blessing or a curse. How can I get married and have a family if I like sucking cock? How can I create a lasting relationship with a man if I want to fuck every other woman I meet? What the hell am I supposed to do with my life? Get on a bus to SanFransisco and trick on the streets until I find a guy to take me in, or stay here and continue to build a "normal" life? How can I be gay if I'm not gay? How can I be straight if I'm not straight?

Just because you're attracted to women as well doesn't mean that you'll become or desire to become adulterous if you fall in love with a man. It's the same if you were to fall in love with a woman. You wouldn't be going behind that woman's back with other women. It would be the same case here. You can still have a family, it just won't be what is considered "normal" by society.

My whole life I've lived a lie that isn't a lie. I really am a sports loving, pussy eating, outdoorsmen, man's man who has or at least has attempted to fuck every good looking girl I've met with great enthusiasm.

Gender roles are idiotic.

But what the hell am I. Sexually I'm attracted to both men and women thats for sure, but emotionaly what is the best path to take? I know what it's like to be in love, and ultimately thats all I really want, so what do I do in order to find love. I need to explore myself more deeply in order to figure out what I really need in a partner, and I can't do that in my current situation. But if I run away to be a homo and then figure out I'm not one where the hell does that leave me.

That would just leave you in the position of having to break up with him and that kind of stuff happens all the time. If you're not into men, then you'll find out soon enough once you enter the relationship and really, it's the only way to know for sure.

I would elaborate more, but I have to go to school.

At 10/26/09 07:06 AM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote: That would just leave you in the position of having to break up with him and that kind of stuff happens all the time. If you're not into men, then you'll find out soon enough once you enter the relationship and really, it's the only way to know for sure.

I would elaborate more, but I have to go to school.

I really wish you didn't have to because thats the first response I've gotten all day that gave me a shred of help. That last sentence of your response sums up my entire dilemma. I can't know for sure what I need without entering into a relationsihp with a guy, but I can't enter into an open relationship with a guy without turning my life upside down and causing massive damage to my existing relationships with family and friends. And thats why I'm scared and alone and trying to find answers on newgrounds of all places.

At 10/26/09 07:32 AM, General-Malcontent wrote: I really wish you didn't have to because thats the first response I've gotten all day that gave me a shred of help. That last sentence of your response sums up my entire dilemma. I can't know for sure what I need without entering into a relationsihp with a guy, but I can't enter into an open relationship with a guy without turning my life upside down and causing massive damage to my existing relationships with family and friends. And thats why I'm scared and alone and trying to find answers on newgrounds of all places.

Honestly, if your friends will rip into you for experimenting then they're not your friends. If you have to, get a gay friend that is single and convince him to let you experiment with him. That way, you don't have to come out out and you find out for sure. The only problem is, explaining why you have a gay friend, or three, but that's probably easy to work out.

At 10/26/09 08:12 AM, Lost-Chances wrote: Honestly, if your friends will rip into you for experimenting then they're not your friends. If you have to, get a gay friend that is single and convince him to let you experiment with him. That way, you don't have to come out out and you find out for sure. The only problem is, explaining why you have a gay friend, or three, but that's probably easy to work out.

My friends would probably commit actual hate crimes against me if they found out, and my parents would probably kick me out. Shit I don't even want to talk about it.

At 10/26/09 08:26 AM, General-Malcontent wrote:

At 10/26/09 08:12 AM, Lost-Chances wrote: Honestly, if your friends will rip into you for experimenting then they're not your friends. If you have to, get a gay friend that is single and convince him to let you experiment with him. That way, you don't have to come out out and you find out for sure. The only problem is, explaining why you have a gay friend, or three, but that's probably easy to work out.

My friends would probably commit actual hate crimes against me if they found out, and my parents would probably kick me out. Shit I don't even want to talk about it.

Are you sure of that? I know the guys I served with always made fun of homosexuals and always threatened to do horrible things to them... but they always respected me.

However, if your friends would actually hurt you because of who you are, then not only are they not true friends, they are simply not good people to start with and you should find new friends.

As for your confusion and fear of getting into a relationship with someone and wanting to run off with someone of the other gender... I myself am bisexual, and am currently in a relationship with another woman. Sure I'm still attracted to men and don't mind looking, but I'm with someone else and I always end up in her bed, not someone else's.

Adultery really has nothing with sexual attraction, but purely with self control over one's sexual desires.

At 10/26/09 05:37 AM, General-Malcontent wrote:

Anyone have any kind or reassuring words for one hell of a confused individual?

Sounds like a bisexual nightmare, I mean, if you are in a GREAT relationship with someone, either sex, then you shouldnt have a desire to fuck other people during that relationship. This applies to everyone, no one matter what their sexual orientation is. For example, I'm attracted to multiple guys, but if i was in a relationship with one of them, the others would be insignificant. Just experiment around. Form relationships with people of both sexes. If it doesn't work out with someone, try someone new. Some day something amazing will happen. (a line i say to myself every day)

At 10/26/09 08:12 AM, Lost-Chances wrote:

At 10/26/09 07:32 AM, General-Malcontent wrote: I really wish you didn't have to because thats the first response I've gotten all day that gave me a shred of help. That last sentence of your response sums up my entire dilemma. I can't know for sure what I need without entering into a relationsihp with a guy, but I can't enter into an open relationship with a guy without turning my life upside down and causing massive damage to my existing relationships with family and friends. And thats why I'm scared and alone and trying to find answers on newgrounds of all places.

Honestly, if your friends will rip into you for experimenting then they're not your friends. If you have to, get a gay friend that is single and convince him to let you experiment with him. That way, you don't have to come out out and you find out for sure. The only problem is, explaining why you have a gay friend, or three, but that's probably easy to work out.

If you have to convince someone that they should have sex with you then you are not ready to be in a relationship. period. Realtionships are about 2 people not one. It takes 2. Comunication is key to a good relationship. It is not about control. It is about 2 people sharing each other and working to gether. if you cannot work with the person then they are not your friend nor a significant other. If your friends, family or anyone that does not like you for who you are then do not talk to them.

then the cocky bastard threw me to the floor, throw up and cum dribbling from my face, and told me to get the fuck out of his room through the window before his mom came home

Sounds harsh. I feel sorry for you. You should of never gone throught that at all. My god. He was a bastard.