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I was 14, though it was just before my 15th birthday.


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12.

To another guy, who was 13 at the time.

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I haven't, actually. Most I've ever done is fooling around. *sigh*

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At 7/16/08 01:58 PM, Sekhem wrote: I haven't, I am 32 years of age.

Congratulations on your honesty.


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At 3/17/09 11:23 PM, Brick-top wrote:
At 7/16/08 01:58 PM, Sekhem wrote: I haven't, I am 32 years of age.
Congratulations on your honesty.

i think he was joking, if not he was really brave lol. I don't judge him tho

i was oldddd....I'll jus say between 16-18


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At 3/17/09 11:26 PM, Brendan-Harris wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:23 PM, Brick-top wrote:
At 7/16/08 01:58 PM, Sekhem wrote: I haven't, I am 32 years of age.
Congratulations on your honesty.
i think he was joking, if not he was really brave lol. I don't judge him tho

i was oldddd....I'll jus say between 16-18

I'm 18 and haven't done it yet, so I guess it's not that old.


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I'm losing my virginity right now...

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At 3/17/09 11:28 PM, Proottalfain wrote:
I'm 18 and haven't done it yet, so I guess it's not that old.

nah its not, but wen u compare it to some of my friends who lost it when they were 11, 13 etc [no joke], u do feel kind of old..


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I'm still a virgin. However last year I almost had sex. Here is a summed up version. Feel free to ask questions about details.

You see there was this girl about a year older then me at this park. The two of us ended up talking for a bit. Out of nowhere I kiss her. We make out for a bit. I was about to do her but then I ask if she is ok with it. She says no. She leaves. I get up and go home shocked at what happened.

I hope I can have sex before I'm in my twenty's.


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At 3/17/09 11:32 PM, BlazingIce wrote:
You see there was this girl about a year older then me at this park. The two of us ended up talking for a bit. Out of nowhere I kiss her. We make out for a bit. I was about to do her but then I ask if she is ok with it. She says no. She leaves. I get up and go home shocked at what happened.

I hope I can have sex before I'm in my twenty's.

I wouldn't say thats near sex, since u didn't get any action "dick sucking, finger, tit sucking etc", I used to think the same way as u but trust me alot of girls jus kiss any1, it dusnt mean shit reli, it takes abitta work 2 get in there pants so u probably werent close ....wow i sound really patronizing & cocky, swear am not tryna be tho lol


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I just turned 20, and I'm still a virgin. I just have unrealistic standards. I'm picky. Whenever there's a girl who's into me, they're either not pretty enough, or we don't have anything in common, or they're drunk, or they're too young, etc. I could have lost my virginity to at least 5 girls by now, but I just wasn't all that attracted to them, and I want to make my first time something I can remember with fondness, not regret.

It IS frustrating, though.


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At 3/17/09 11:36 PM, Luxury-Yacht wrote: I just turned 20, and I'm still a virgin. I just have unrealistic standards. I'm picky. Whenever there's a girl who's into me, they're either not pretty enough, or we don't have anything in common, or they're drunk, or they're too young, etc. I could have lost my virginity to at least 5 girls by now, but I just wasn't all that attracted to them, and I want to make my first time something I can remember with fondness, not regret.

It IS frustrating, though.

Why do i find this thread so interestin lol.
I was the "exact" same as u man, there were sooo many and i wanted it to be wit someone special aswell, and it was, jus gotta wait man but it will defo happen n you'll feel better about it But once u have it with your first and stay with her, u learn about women and sex n u jus become more confident as a person overall, you'll have alot more luckwit women in the future from wt u learn wit that person


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At 7/16/08 01:55 PM, vigilante1111 wrote: She wasn't really ready but we did it anyway.

I lol'd

Anyway when I was 7, to a 15/16 old guy. I certainly wasn't ready =\


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At 3/17/09 11:32 PM, BlazingIce wrote: I'm still a virgin. However last year I almost had sex. Here is a summed up version. Feel free to ask questions about details.

You see there was this girl about a year older then me at this park. The two of us ended up talking for a bit. Out of nowhere I kiss her. We make out for a bit. I was about to do her but then I ask if she is ok with it. She says no. She leaves. I get up and go home shocked at what happened.

I hope I can have sex before I'm in my twenty's.

I agree with Harris - Sorry dude but thats not even kind of close. . . Making out is a bit differnt to sexual acts. And there's no rush to lose it, just dont end up ike me and have to struggle to remmeber it the night after :(

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At 3/17/09 11:28 PM, Proottalfain wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:26 PM, Brendan-Harris wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:23 PM, Brick-top wrote:
At 7/16/08 01:58 PM, Sekhem wrote: I haven't, I am 32 years of age.
Congratulations on your honesty.
i think he was joking, if not he was really brave lol. I don't judge him tho

i was oldddd....I'll jus say between 16-18
I'm 18 and haven't done it yet, so I guess it's not that old.

Do yourself a favour and stay that way till your good and ready.

Having sex with someone purely because you're 'too old' or under peer pressure will cause massive amounts of regret.


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At 3/17/09 11:42 PM, Brendan-Harris wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:36 PM, Luxury-Yacht wrote: I just turned 20, and I'm still a virgin. I just have unrealistic standards. I'm picky. Whenever there's a girl who's into me, they're either not pretty enough, or we don't have anything in common, or they're drunk, or they're too young, etc. I could have lost my virginity to at least 5 girls by now, but I just wasn't all that attracted to them, and I want to make my first time something I can remember with fondness, not regret.

It IS frustrating, though.
Why do i find this thread so interestin lol.
I was the "exact" same as u man, there were sooo many and i wanted it to be wit someone special aswell, and it was, jus gotta wait man but it will defo happen n you'll feel better about it But once u have it with your first and stay with her, u learn about women and sex n u jus become more confident as a person overall, you'll have alot more luckwit women in the future from wt u learn wit that person

I hope to make it with someone I love, else it could be pretty lame. I don't want to do like in porn, I want it to be something involving the entire body, with kissing and such. Porn is just too often lame and artificial.


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At 3/17/09 11:48 PM, Proottalfain wrote: I hope to make it with someone I love, else it could be pretty lame. I don't want to do like in porn, I want it to be something involving the entire body, with kissing and such. Porn is just too often lame and artificial.

Dude when she comes, you'll know, there's only one girl that i've had that with and it was amazing.
You can never tell until about then 9/10th month of an relationship if you are truly ready to do that sort of thing with a girl. Besides, there is no rush to force yourself in to something you're not ready for.
And ignore what you see in porn, thats people being paid to fuck, its not the same thing.

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Still got my v-card and I'm in no hurry to squander it. I doubt I'll do it in highschool, the situation's complicated and getting laid simply isn't a priority of mine right now. I just want to keep my friends and get good grades. I'm a nerd.

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At 3/17/09 11:48 PM, Proottalfain wrote: I hope to make it with someone I love, else it could be pretty lame. I don't want to do like in porn, I want it to be something involving the entire body, with kissing and such. Porn is just too often lame and artificial.

Love isn't essential to do it the way you described. In my experience, that can be achieved with alcohol. Maybe that's why I'm so jaded... *ponders*

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At 3/17/09 11:57 PM, Shakyjake wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:48 PM, Proottalfain wrote: I hope to make it with someone I love, else it could be pretty lame. I don't want to do like in porn, I want it to be something involving the entire body, with kissing and such. Porn is just too often lame and artificial.
Love isn't essential to do it the way you described. In my experience, that can be achieved with alcohol. Maybe that's why I'm so jaded... *ponders*

Well my description included love. It IS essential. And drunk fucking must be lame because you can't remember half of it later.


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i don't think it HAS to be judged on the time, just on feelings n stuff. I mean my first was an amazing girl and I knew it from the first time i met her, we had sex just after a month but I think it was the right time and I don't regret it. I fell in love wit her after 3-4 months n she's the only girl i truely think ive ever loved


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At 7/23/08 03:36 PM, Sk8erGirl14 wrote: Edit: About 30 minutes ago.

i am not joking

Mmmhmm... right....

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I lost it next week.

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At 3/17/09 11:59 PM, Proottalfain wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:57 PM, Shakyjake wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:48 PM, Proottalfain wrote: I hope to make it with someone I love, else it could be pretty lame. I don't want to do like in porn, I want it to be something involving the entire body, with kissing and such. Porn is just too often lame and artificial.
Love isn't essential to do it the way you described. In my experience, that can be achieved with alcohol. Maybe that's why I'm so jaded... *ponders*
Well my description included love. It IS essential. And drunk fucking must be lame because you can't remember half of it later.

Actually, i beg to differ, my very first time was drink induced but I remembered it fine in the morning.
Sometimes it helps is all he is saying, but i know what you mean about wanting it to be sepcial

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At 3/18/09 12:03 AM, Killing-joke wrote:
At 3/17/09 11:59 PM, Proottalfain wrote: Well my description included love. It IS essential. And drunk fucking must be lame because you can't remember half of it later.
Actually, i beg to differ, my very first time was drink induced but I remembered it fine in the morning.
Sometimes it helps is all he is saying, but i know what you mean about wanting it to be sepcial

Well ultimately it was just a joke, but yeah you're kinda right K-J.

And I'd be careful about building it up too much Proottalfain, you may find it to be a bit of an anticlimax (pun intended) when you do come (pun also intended) around to it. I think that's what happened for me. All my classmates started having sex about a year before me and kept saying about how awesome it was. Then when I lost my V-plates I was like "Yeah It's alright, but not exactly earth-shattering". As a result, I have very little sex-drive... and have actually turned down sex before, multiple times actually.

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I'm 19 and still a virgin. My current girlfriend (and first one too) says that really isn't a rush and I agree.

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I haven't, unless my left hand counts.

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At 3/18/09 12:16 AM, Dragoonwing wrote: I'm 19 and still a virgin. My current girlfriend (and first one too) says that really isn't a rush and I agree.

That's something I wonder. Does the urge get dimmer when you have a girlfriend (because you get affection) or is it worse?


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She can have my virginity when she's able pry it from my pants.

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At 3/18/09 12:18 AM, Proottalfain wrote:
At 3/18/09 12:16 AM, Dragoonwing wrote: I'm 19 and still a virgin. My current girlfriend (and first one too) says that really isn't a rush and I agree.
That's something I wonder. Does the urge get dimmer when you have a girlfriend (because you get affection) or is it worse?

No, I find that I have more of an urge when I'm seeing a girl, than when I'm not. . . I always, start thinking more about that kind of thing after we've started to be together, rather than just having a lust for her. It's always good to go a bit more in detail, besides the sexual can take a while to form. It won't happen straight away. . . If it's real love. . .

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