You're a real humble man, Tom. Trying to please your wife and making her feel special, the world needs more men like you. Your Flash and computer skills in general, are a super added bonus, but yes, congratulations on finally getting the iPhone and don't feel bad about not being able to pay for it, you wanted to and tried, not your fault.
You could always take her out to dinner and buy her something else, possibly flowers? Flowers seem more appropriate and romantic than a piece of molded plastic and metal. I'm not a cell phone guy, nor a trendy guy so I don't see myself buying an iPhone or any cell phone at all, anytime soon.
I'll stick with mt iPod Video 5.5 which I purely bought just for the nice chunk of space on it. Alright, take care.