My first teen party

[CazmoV]

I'm 13 right now.
I'm getting to the age when half my mates smoke and drink
And everyone's starting to get proper girlfriends/boyfriends...
Last night, there was a local festival on a field. Quite a small one, but still pretty good.
But all my best friends were getting pissed out of their minds...
My girlfriend started smoking again and drinking alot
And when we were kissing she bloody stank
I really want to get her off it...
Can someone help?

[GeorgeAllen]

Errr.... Crush a breath mint & put it in her drinks?

[WilliWowza]

What's wrong? Too MATURE for you?

[FullClip92]

Put her in rehab

[Scalene]

Okay, this is going to be hated upon, but I can tell when someone's posting the truth. This guy is.

Best thing you can do is get out of that kind of situation. I enjoy a drink in moderation. But people who get pissed/do drugs for the sake of doing it are INCREDIBLY dangerous.

You might not listen, but it's worth going Straight-Edge on your friends. I use the excuse that "I value what I put into my body, and you KNOW what you do isn't good for you." Sometimes I have to take care of a friend, but it's safer. And usually, it keeps your friends under some control.

Straight-Edgers aren't all religious.

[Orange-Jews]

At 6/29/08 06:13 AM, WilliWowza wrote: What's wrong? Too MATURE for you?

haha, that was good.

[Apocalypse]

Drunk girlfriends are the shit.

unless they phone you at 3 in the morning to have sex

[CazmoV]

At 6/29/08 06:15 AM, Scalene wrote: Okay, this is going to be hated upon, but I can tell when someone's posting the truth. This guy is.

Best thing you can do is get out of that kind of situation. I enjoy a drink in moderation. But people who get pissed/do drugs for the sake of doing it are INCREDIBLY dangerous.

You might not listen, but it's worth going Straight-Edge on your friends. I use the excuse that "I value what I put into my body, and you KNOW what you do isn't good for you." Sometimes I have to take care of a friend, but it's safer. And usually, it keeps your friends under some control.

Straight-Edgers aren't all religious.

Thanks for helping man :)
It's just, all my other mates were drinking/smoking for the sake of it
Fainting, at the age of 13!
But my girlfriend (katherine) was just drinking a small amount and only taking drags
But it still worries me to death that we're all 13 years old.
And she's a lovely girl normally
She wouldn't stop apologizing and calling it peer pressure...
I just wanna get rid of it :/

[Scalene]

At 6/29/08 06:18 AM, CazmoV wrote: But my girlfriend (katherine) was just drinking a small amount and only taking drags
But it still worries me to death that we're all 13 years old.
And she's a lovely girl normally
She wouldn't stop apologizing and calling it peer pressure...
I just wanna get rid of it :/

Yeah, always happy to help a guy go edgy.

If it's peer pressure, stick with her, and keep an eye on her. Parties are awesome, even with a drink or two. And if you've got someone who also agrees not to do anything too dangerous, it's easy. I usually go to a party as long as I've got someone who's somewhat edgy. Whether that means absolutely nothing, or anything, so long as it's in moderation, doesn't matter. It helps me make my own choice.

And seriously, peer pressure doesn't exist once you realize your peers are idiots. :D

[Skizzzle]

You are 13. Forget about her find somebody else. There are so many other girls out there that are gonna blow your fucking mind. Just wait.

[CazmoV]

At 6/29/08 06:21 AM, Scalene wrote:

At 6/29/08 06:18 AM, CazmoV wrote: But my girlfriend (katherine) was just drinking a small amount and only taking drags
But it still worries me to death that we're all 13 years old.
And she's a lovely girl normally
She wouldn't stop apologizing and calling it peer pressure...
I just wanna get rid of it :/

Yeah, always happy to help a guy go edgy.

If it's peer pressure, stick with her, and keep an eye on her. Parties are awesome, even with a drink or two. And if you've got someone who also agrees not to do anything too dangerous, it's easy. I usually go to a party as long as I've got someone who's somewhat edgy. Whether that means absolutely nothing, or anything, so long as it's in moderation, doesn't matter. It helps me make my own choice.

And seriously, peer pressure doesn't exist once you realize your peers are idiots. :D

Yeh, i get you...
But my mum found out and she used to think katherine was "a lovely girl" but she keeps telling me she's stupid. Well she was stupid but hey :p

[CazmoV]

At 6/29/08 06:24 AM, Skizzzle wrote: You are 13. Forget about her find somebody else. There are so many other girls out there that are gonna blow your fucking mind. Just wait.

But she's fine normally. To be honest man, if she gets up to stuff like that when i'm not around and I don't find out, it's okay. But when i'm there, it sucks

[MissingNYC]

get over it and quit "venting" in NG

[Skizzzle]

I think you should take a look again, you'll find a girl who you like all the time, not just when she's sober, bro. Trust me.

[Sp1r1T]

Haha your 13.

Yeah, alot of my friends smoke. Mostly weed. I don't.

Most get pissed at weekends too.

Its what happens.

[DragonsGrief]

You wouldn't believe how much I would give to slap you in the face right now

[mdog750809]

I turned 13, 2 weeks ago.
me and my friends may have done some "stuff",
but it was a special occasion and i made sure i only brought the friends that brag that they do drugs.
we washed up afterwards and each drank about 2 litres of water with breathmints.
I know it's not good for me, but usually i am depressed and shit, and drugs make me seem happy.
(hint, hint: we used coke and ecstacy)

[Scalene]

At 6/29/08 06:38 AM, mdog750809 wrote: I turned 13, 2 weeks ago.
me and my friends may have done some "stuff",
but it was a special occasion and i made sure i only brought the friends that brag that they do drugs.
we washed up afterwards and each drank about 2 litres of water with breathmints.
I know it's not good for me, but usually i am depressed and shit, and drugs make me seem happy.
(hint, hint: we used coke and ecstacy)

Yeah, I can tell YOU'RE bullshitting. The Opening Poster isn't. It's kind of tricky, but if you look hard, you can figure out what's up with it.

[Haoie]

Uh, freaking kids thesedays.

When I was young, things were different, I tell you.

This old timer thinks so, anyway.

[RedCoin]

At 6/29/08 06:11 AM, CazmoV wrote: I'm 13 right now.

Go away

[Future-Mass-Murderer]

Just tell her that you are through, Or just avoid her.

[Warrickneff]

Tell her its like mouthing an ashtray when she smokes. It'll be honest and show her the way.

[BananaBreadMuffin]

At 6/29/08 06:17 AM, Apocalypse wrote: Drunk girlfriends are the shit.

unless they phone you at 3 in the morning to have sex

Now I'll relay this little bit
It happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night, she knocks on my door
She's drunk again and, looking to score
Now I know, I should say no, but
It's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb, but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

[Skizzzle]

Ugh, mouthing an ashtray. That just made me gag reading that.

[Acerbic]

At 6/29/08 06:13 AM, WilliWowza wrote: What's wrong? Too MATURE for you?

Smokings not big nor clever ;)

[FullClip92]

At 6/29/08 07:18 AM, Acerbic wrote:

At 6/29/08 06:13 AM, WilliWowza wrote: What's wrong? Too MATURE for you?

Smokings not big nor clever ;)

but i love lung cancer...

[Lucy]

Too many alcopops?

[Silvershard0]

At the risk of sounding emo...The same thing happend to me in highschool, and I lost all of my friends over it. It made my teen years hell but later in life I'm happy I didn't go down that path, as i've found out I have an addictive personality. Just remember 99% of the people you know in highschool won't matter at all in your life mere months after you start college or a career.

[Earfetish]

At 6/29/08 06:38 AM, mdog750809 wrote: (hint, hint: we used coke and ecstacy)

yo man, when you do actually do ecstasy, cos if you're the kind of kid that e-lies about it you probably will, don't drink two litres of water because you might die. Sip water, and not a lot of it. You can flood your mind and die of water intoxication.

To the OP, everyone's gonna start doing it soon enough. Forgive your girlfriend, especially if she's only taking drags on cigarettes, not even smoking full ones, and she didn't get that drunk. Damn you've got high standards; you might even be controlling. Believe me, if you weren't there, she'd have gotten wasted and smoked a lot more, and wouldn't have made excuses about peer pressure.

[Earfetish]

At 6/29/08 07:10 AM, Warrickneff wrote: Tell her its like mouthing an ashtray when she smokes. It'll be honest and show her the way.

tbh I've never really noticed smokers tasting horrible when you kiss them. Booze seems to taste a wee bit stronger when you're being kissed. I've noticed if girls haven't seen you have a fag then they don't seem to complain.