At 7/5/08 06:44 PM, slipknotfan591 wrote:
At 7/5/08 06:03 PM, zoolrule wrote:
At 7/4/08 11:05 PM, InsertFunnyUserName wrote:
At 7/4/08 07:00 PM, Saku-Tatsuya wrote:
Am I the only female who finds that fucked up?
I very much agree with you.
Women do rape men and it's not like the man enjoys it. No one enjoys rape, period.
Women rape men? I think this is a very rare thing, Man raping Man is more common...
because the media needs to manipulate us all by having all shows and shit having the girl getting raped by the boyfriend or something
i mean, this whole sex discrimination is so bad that i wanted to go out with this girl and just because the mom looked at my facebook page (which had...ehh..innappropriate stuff on it but nothing too extreme. The girl didn't mind, she knows how i think and all) and the mom wanted her sis to accompany us to wherever we wanted to go. I later found out it was bc she was afraid i was gonna rape her, and i was extremely insulted because she never met me in person
men are victims now >__>
You can't honestly feel offended that her mother was afraid that she would get raped.
Put yourself in her shoes: You have a teenage daughter in a world where every other news story is about a woman being murdered, the amount of rapes committed in the city, about teenage girls being abducted, and all you ever see or hear is that some guy from her school was the one to end so-and-so's life. One day, your beautiful daughter, someone that you're still having trouble recognizing as a sexual being, comes home to tell you about her new boyfriend.
Obviously you're going to be concerned. You let her go out with him and don't raise too much of a fuss, because you don't want to seem paranoid. But then you get to thinking: would you rather seem cool? Or would you rather your daughter be safe? Most parents that deserve to raise children would choose option number two, and would do what this girls mother did and try to find out about you.
If there's inappropriate stuff on your facebook page, whether it's drinking, smoking, or just run-of-the-mill partying like no tomorrow, a big old red flag would shoot up in the minds of any decent parent. Once that happens, you can only think it to be your responsibility as a parent to make sure that this beautiful, young girl, doesn't turn into the next hot story at 10 PM.
I'm not a parent. I don't plan on being one for at least a decade. But if people would just think outside of their own self-interest every now and then, the world would be a much happier place. Two sides to every story, my friend.
The only time that men are truly victims is when they've already fucked themselves over and find themselves on the wrong end of jailrape.
Perhaps you should spend more time with her mom, so she has a chance to get to know you for who you are, and not for who your Facebook applications say you are.